My friend has fallen out of love and feels like he has changed, is it normal?

In fact, this is normal, which means that he is beginning to learn to grow up, although he has lost something, but this is the case for the current society. I agree with the saying that people who have never fallen out of love are not really grown up (including crushes).

It should be considered normal, he needs time to smooth the wound.

He's giving himself time to digest and accept.

Time will ** everything, hey, the same annoyance.

A person who is out of love, all reactions are normal, he needs a while to adapt, adapt to life without the other half, without love, time is the last medicine! He's still the same him! Friends around him should care more about him, and of course, give him enough space to heal!

Maybe he's figured it out a lot, and now he may realize his own shortcomings, so he's correcting them, and it's rare for someone like a lovelorn to do this, and this time it should hit him hard.

This should be normal logically, but a person is missing the other half by his side, it will definitely be like this, and when he comes out of love, it will be fine. ，

This is an emotional stage for lovelorns, who do not trust people, and feel that the whole century is gloomy.

The breakup of love has made him mature, there are no major events, and there is no slump, it is better, but there are still internal traumas, and sometimes you should find a way to let him relax.

Hehe, feelings will always change some people, there is no need to worry, it will be fine after a while.

Normal An unaccepted love needs not to be sad, but time, a time that can be used to forget. A deeply wounded heart needs not sympathy, but understanding.

Losing a best friend.

It's the feeling of losing one of the best things. Or the feeling of breaking a vase, you want to throw away a vase, I think it's a pity, because this has brought you happiness for so many years. But keep it, it's broken, and even if it sticks up, it won't get back to its original shape, and there will always be traces.

Yes, that's how it feels, I can't keep it if I want to, I can't let it go if I want to. Friends are our blood relatives in addition to.

Friends are the most noble titles. Friends transcend any relationship, I value friends very seriously, I have very few friends, I am stricter about making friends than looking for lovers. Sounds funny.

It depends on the essence of the loss. If it's a farewell, it's a heart-wrenching thing. If it is lost because of misunderstanding or cognitive conflict, it is normal, so you don't need to care.

A true friend must stand the test of history, otherwise, he is just a playmate. We have a common hobby of fishing, and we meet every weekend to fish, and when we fish together, I can forget all the troubles in life and talk and laugh with him. Slowly I became dependent on him, and he seemed to be my dependence and sustenance in my work and life.

I even said to myself that I would always be on his side no matter what happened. At the end of last month, when I went to work on a Monday, he suddenly seemed to be a different person, and he never took the initiative to talk to me again, and all his previous behaviors never appeared again, and when I took the initiative to find him, he was only perfunctory.

It feels like it's disgusting to see you. I asked him why, and he said it was fine. But the truth is that he's getting farther and farther away from me.

I suddenly felt that my life and work were missing sustenance, and my whole person was empty. When I go to bed at night, I can only sleep for three hours, and I have no appetite for food. Seeing him talking happily to others, I felt even more uncomfortable.

I would still choose to take the initiative to talk to him, but he still ignored him. I'm really good to him and give sincerely, but why is he doing this to me? I think I'm like a licking dog later, I actually want to make it clear to him, hanging here like this makes people half immortal, fight with him alive, and let go completely.

I don't know when I'll ever recover, but I know it's never going to be again.

The reason why you feel this way is because the relationship between you and your friend is really deep, and he has always been by your side, so he has already regarded him as his own family and an indispensable part, so when he suddenly leaves, it will feel like a broken love.

This is because I attach great importance to my friend, and this friend is very important in my heart, and I have given a lot of affection, so losing a friend is like falling out of love.

It's because this friend is very important in your mind, and because the relationship between the two of you is very good, so after losing him, it will feel like a broken love.

Because friends are very important to themselves, they are no worse than lovers, so they also feel like they have lost something very serious, so they will be like falling out of love.

I also experienced the same experience, I think it was a misunderstanding and then spent two years on the Internet to find his traces, in fact, it is also through this stupid and stupid way to know more about him, two days before the Mid-Autumn Festival this year, I was applying for a friend message box blessings, he actually replied, extremely cold, he said three words, the last sentence is to let me cancel all the attention on the Internet, and delete friends. I said I just thought that I had a misunderstanding before because I didn't know him because I did this, and he said that you only disgusted me even more. “。

I'm speechless... I shut down many platforms on the Internet, including Douyin, the account he just closed to each other, I left a message for him, and finally left a message "cut the robe and break the righteousness". I was really sad without this friend I particularly liked, but this time the level of sadness was reduced compared to the last time, maybe after time washed, the sadness of those lost friends has weakened, and the wound has healed to the point of hardening.

"Farewell in this life, I think, it's not worth it and it's gone, break it off, no matter how good it was before, it's useless garbage now."

I won't let his disgusted expressions and words hurt me again, I don't lack friends, I don't lack friends who like me, why do you have to be friends with him, let's go, some are far away, for you to observe me, go, I don't mind how to observe love...

Because this relationship makes you very deep, the days of love make you subconsciously the object is still by your side. Therefore, she will return to Pi Lu and unconsciously shake Qi to imitate her words, deeds and demeanor. It's an emotion that you can't let go of that controls everything about you, so this time you need to be exposed to the outside world and the company of family and friends, so that you can slowly get out of this shadow and regain the love that truly belongs to you.

Having these 6 signs after a breakup shows that you really loved each other.

1. I often think of my ex-boyfriend unintentionally.

Maybe it's a familiar scene, maybe it's a place where we used to have fun together, or maybe it's a love song with a story ......

Whenever I encounter such a scene, I can't help but think of my ex-boyfriend.

At this time, it is completely an uncontrollable emotion, whenever you think of him, you will feel very warm and beautiful, but you will feel sad when you find out that things are wrong.

2. Secretly pay attention to the latest developments of your ex-boyfriend.

Although you haven't been in touch since you broke up, you'll still secretly observe each other's dynamics.

Every day you will open WeChat to see his latest social news, you will try to find out the news about him from your friends, you will open his chat window countless times, and repeat a paragraph about it but turn it off...

3. You always come back to the same place.

You don't know why when you're bored and wandering, you unconsciously go to places you've been, as if this is the place that can give you spiritual comfort.

You'll walk the same path you've walked alone, you'll go to the restaurant alone, and you'll be full of memories between you, and you'll want to keep the little tenderness that remains in your heart in this way.

4. You will often look at the photos and chat records of the two of them.

Although you have broken up for a long time, you are still reluctant to delete the chat history and your group photo, every time in the dead of night, you will turn it out to see, every time you watch it, you will remember a lot, so it is very uncomfortable and can't help crying.

But this kind of sadness can only be borne by yourself, it is impossible for him to know that you are like this, and it is impossible for you to tell the other party that you are sad now.

5. Always say that you have a boyfriend.

You know very well in your heart that you and your ex-boyfriend are over, and you You Shen can't go back to the past.

That's why you always claim to have a boyfriend outside, unwilling to accept other people's pursuits and unwilling to take the initiative to meet new friends of the opposite sex.

You don't want to accept the fact that you've broken up, he just wants to calm down and hasn't abandoned himself, and after a while he will still come back to himself.

Others feel sorry for you and persuade you not to think about him anymore, but you can't help yourself from missing your ex-boyfriend.

6. After separation, it became like God asked him to respect his ex-boyfriend.

After the breakup, you will still live according to the habits of the two people who were together before, you start to contact the things he likes, you will try to do the things that he hated before, you will change yourself according to the requirements he once made, you will do everything possible to shorten the distance with him, to live as if he exists.

As everyone knows, slowly you live like an ex-boyfriend, and you don't look like your original self at all.

Everyone grows up slowly after learning to love someone. Whether you have missed it or not, learn to move forward slowly.

It's a personal upset.

After falling out of love, most of them are sad.