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If you can endure it, you will endure it, and if you can't bear it, you will be alienated. Don't try to change him. You have neither the right nor the responsibility to change others to your liking.
The reason why a person changes is because he thinks in one direction, and the reason why a person changes because he thinks it is better to change this way than before. As long as what you say goes to his heart, no matter how he changes, he will be very optimistic about you. If there is no change in life, then everything can only be the way it used to be, and there is no modernization at all.
So the change is the public, and the change is one's.
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Of course, find a suitable time to have a good chat with my friend, ask him how he is doing, and say what he thinks, care more about his friend's feelings, and ask him if anything big has happened recently.
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I'll have a showdown with my friend and tell him you're not the guy I used to know, I don't think we can be friends anymore, and we'll be relieved when we get everything out of the way.
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But I feel that when my own friends are all over the place, I will tell him directly and clearly, how have you changed, but I may also have reasons that I can't say, I don't know where he has changed.
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It depends on what kind of friend it is, if it's a very good friend of mine, I'll tell her that she's changed, and if it's not a particularly important friend, I'll be silent.
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In fact, each friend can only accompany himself for a while, and sometimes the two sides take different paths, and their natural interests are inconsistent. At this time, don't force each other anymore, just go with the flow and remember the good things in the past.
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If he changes for the better, I will be happy for him, everyone will change, because life is always changing, if a person remains the same is not good, but if my friend becomes bad, I will remind her in time.
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If you feel that the other person doesn't understand you, so you mistakenly think that you didn't see each other clearly at the beginning! But if you don't want to give up, it means that you still lack communication, so you try to hold on again.
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If I feel this way, I feel like he's becoming, then I'll watch her carefully, and then change him, make him go back to the way he was, and as long as he's not the same, I'll continue to be friends with him.
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If she changes, she changes, he is still my friend, no matter what she becomes, I like her, because she is the one I like the most, it's okay, if she gets better, I will become better with him, and if she doesn't change well, I will teach him to get better slowly.
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You don't want to do anything, it's not that your friends have changed, it's just that you're all strangers, and that's quite normal.
The pace of life is getting faster and faster, people don't have time to take a breath, and many friends who were once so close have gradually lost contact.
Only during the New Year's holidays, will I send a message, say a few words, and in a blink of an eye, I will devote myself to the anxious trivialities.
Unconsciously, we are no longer young, and we have heavy responsibilities on our shoulders, and we dare not be willful anymore. Busy work, endless things, time is always insufficient, we have no choice but to grit our teeth and struggle.
When I think back to the past, I will also be a little lost. Nowadays, we don't seem to be able to find much to talk about except for those memories of the past. You have your circle, I have my life, and we have gradually become the most familiar strangers.
But I've always decided that not being in touch often doesn't mean that I don't have thoughts, I don't see each other often, and I don't erase past friendships. Whenever I see a message from you, I will still be happy from the bottom of my heart.
Friends, like the stars in the sky, may not always be remembered, but you know, they are always there.
Even if I haven't been in touch for a long time, every time I remember it, I still feel warm in my heart. Because of their existence, I have made myself less lonely along the way.
True friends, not around, but in the heart, no matter how far or near, only sincerely. They may not be the icing on the cake for you when you are in the spring breeze, but they will definitely help you when you are lost and desperate.
In this life, we will meet many people, but not everyone can enter the heart and occupy a place.
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Just go with the flow, everyone is changing, you yourself are actually changing, just look at the changes of your friends with a normal mind.
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Go with the flow, change is the normal situation, each of us will grow and change, if you find that you are no longer able to communicate, then contact each other less, and your friendship will naturally fade.
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It is very normal for friends to change, and there is no need to worry too much, because in today's society, everyone is changing, and you may feel that your friends have changed, but in fact, all we have to do is to maintain our original intention in this change.
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In fact, you don't need to mind too much, different people will change when they encounter different things and are at different stages of life, but your friendship has not changed much.
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If your friend's affection for you is becoming weaker and weaker, and she cherishes this friendship and doesn't want to lose it, you should take the initiative to talk to her more than before to strengthen your friendship.
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Or don't impose your will on someone else's head. Try to understand her, give her some space, and be more tolerant of her friends. As long as you know that she is doing well, it will be your friend's wish.
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My buddy went to college in the North, while I stayed in the South. I remember that during the summer vacation of my freshman year, when she came home, I felt that she had changed. I met new friends, and people were also contaminated with the boldness and childishness of the north.
I was a little unaccustomed to it at first, but after spending more time with her, I got used to it.
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If it is for the better, then you should be happy for him, and at the same time, you must know that everything is constantly changing.
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People always have to grow up, and they can't always be the same. Your friends have changed, so should you change too?
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No one is always the same, and it's normal to change, if he becomes what you don't like, then it's good to gradually drift away, and there is no need to ask others to change anything for you.
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