Can such a simple and easy thing confirm my relationship with my boyfriend?

If he decides to spend the rest of his life with you, I want to be a responsible and sensible man, see clearly, man!! He'll go, and I think he'll be eager to get your parents' permission, after all, it's not a very decent thing to see someone's parents and other people's daughters!

If he can't make up his mind, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, but maybe he loves you too much and doesn't dare to go rashly for fear of being rejected by your parents! It's the same feeling as when you suffer from gains and losses. You might as well say it directly and see what he means.

Since you love him very much, when he goes, you must stand firmly with him, and you don't give your parents an ambiguous impression!

I wish you all happiness!

I remember the first time I went to meet my future parents-in-law!! Sweat!! I also hesitated for a long time, haha! ）

So do you feel that he loves you?

Do you know him?

Use what you know about him to judge the outcome. If you love each other, you will think about each other in your society, and you will not say it.

The case of that.

If not, then you should think about your relationship.

You're too cowardly, if he loves you, it's just that you're too worried. Loving you should be like marrying you, and seeing your parents means talking about marriage. It's not more important than anything else, it's important to see your friends during the New Year or your parents, I think it's not just him, you also know who is important.

Before you get married, you spoil him like this, and if you get married, you can't do anything, how do you live that day.

If he really loves you, he must be willing. Don't say seven days off, even if it's one day off, I'm very happy to go. If he readily agrees, it means that he cares about you and loves you, otherwise there will be a problem.

Finding a partner and falling in love is consensual, and you can't force each other. Especially women, they must learn self-esteem, self-love, and self-pity; To learn to perceive the other party's emotions, you must understand that the twisted melon is not sweet; Don't be sentimental, willing, otherwise you will find yourself miserable.

Please be bold and bring it up, this is a good opportunity to confirm your feelings.

You have to face it, don't be afraid, you haven't told him yet, how do you know that he will reject you.

Have faith in yourself.

I think if he loves you very much, he should be very happy to go to your house, of course, if it involves the problem of time and money, you should discuss it well and give him understanding and help; But if those objective factors are excluded and he is reluctant to go, then it is necessary to consider whether his sincerity is enough? You can find the answer through his reaction.

Don't be silly! Talk to him, just say it. He loves you, and he will be willing to hear you say that you asked him to come to the house to play, and believe that he loves you. You love him too, don't you?! Love is mutual.

Otherwise, you don't want to live with this bitter gourd, the long pain is better than the short pain, lest you hurt deeper.

Tell him, it's good for you and for him.

You don't seem to believe in your boyfriend's feelings for you yet, and this may be a trigger for you in the future, so be careful. Don't be afraid of anything. Just tell him, sooner. Give him plenty of time to think about it and trust his own vision.

Ask him: Do you love me? He'll probably say love, and then you say that my family would love to see you, and if you don't want to go, forget it! I think if he loves you, he will definitely go, and if he doesn't love you, he will follow because of face problems.

If he really loves you, he will put down everything and go to your house; But if he refuses to go, then it proves that he doesn't love you enough, end it early, and it's good for everyone.

Just say it, how do you know if you don't say it? He loves you and will definitely go.

Don't be afraid of what to face, discuss and solve specific difficulties.

Military wives are great, and military wives are also very difficult to do, and it's up to you.

Soldiers, there are not so many flowers, and they won't go out and mess around outside after all, military discipline is in**.

And then, the descendants of the soldiers, some preferential policies or something, after returning from the army, there will also be a career establishment, but it also depends on what kind of soldier or officer or something, in fact, these are all fictitious.

It's all about yourself.

What kind of person do you need to accompany you throughout your life? Does he have all the things you need?

Like a sense of security? For example, some women just like men to accompany her.

And then when you love someone, it's not just about what they can bring to you, or just how much you like it.

It's the responsibility of both parties to do something for the other.

So what is the bottom line that you are willing to bear for him.

Think about it yourself, don't ask others, think about it yourself.

If you look at the Internet and ask this question, you know that you don't have a big opinion on this issue, and you're hesitant.

The more you ask people and refer to other people's opinions, the more you will be swayed by all kinds of opinions.

And after you've thought about it, you're going to talk to him about it.

If you're going to marry him, then you're his woman, and he's obligated to do it for you, and you can only see him for one month a year.

There's always a way around it.

If you're going to break the relationship, talk to him about it, and let him know that you can't stand the waiting, it's not that you don't love, it's that you can't wait.

If he wants to get hold of you, then he's going to figure it out, and if he just does it, then you have nothing to regret.

Think about what you want for yourself, then think about how far you're willing to take it for him, and then talk to him.

The matter of two people is solved by two people, and the involvement of other people is all different from each other.

What does he mean by being a soldier is that the army is full of men?

In fact, you have to think about it carefully.

Being a military wife is not such a simple thing.

It seems that the marriage law has a special explanation for this.

See for yourself.

If it's suitable, follow him, and he'll always be a soldier.

If you don't change jobs, you will be discharged from the army.

In today's society, the military is not suitable for every girl who loves the army, in the border posts, in the snowy plateau, in the desert Gobi, in the remote mountainous areas, some are just wild geese to pass on books, scarce **, and even letters, ** will be interrupted! There is no Qingqing me, no flowers before the moon, no boyfriend to comfort ......It is not easy to love a soldier, you must be fully psychologically prepared, you have to carry all the hardships and all the difficulties alone, and in the face of "who sits alone with the lamp, I am so desolate", not only suffer from lovesickness, but also shoulder the weight of the whole family!

If a man throws himself into the barracks, then his life is no longer his own! If a woman marries a soldier, then her love is no longer her own! I very much appreciate and agree that a soldier has a great responsibility, and his dedication and dedication to the cause will also be attached to his family and relatives, not that he does not want to pay for the family, but he has no time to take care of it, and often abandons his small family for everyone.

When a person is committed to a career, what he desires most is to have a love and support, and only in this way can he go on happier and braver.

In fact, the most important thing is yourself, you will always meet a person in your life, which will make you forgetful, your own experience is very important, and the advice of friends is also important, because the bystanders are clear!

Wishing you happiness! If you're together, wow! Military wife.

It mainly depends on what you think, if you think you love him enough to stick to it for so long, if you feel that you don't love him so much, you will lose too much. Just give up as soon as possible, the military is basically very good, upright, if you stick to it, he will cherish you more, I also had a boyfriend to be a soldier before, and then I broke up with him, just because I couldn't see each other, I couldn't wait... Hey, and then a friend of mine, he's in the Air Force, he and his girlfriend maybe haven't seen each other for less than a month a year, they've been gone for 5 years, it depends on your relationship.

There is no universal standard.

If you feel like you really believe in him and love him too, then wait, because you are a soldier, it is acceptable to see him once a month. But if he changes jobs, he will be fine. I'm for that.

Think about what kind of woman you are Do you like to get along day and night Or if the two love for a long time How can you also look forward to the love of the morning and twilight Carefully consider Once the relationship is paid, it is not easy to take it back In fact, looking at it, there are many good men But think about it again, there is only one him on the earth

It's very unreliable.

Especially if you are easily empathetic.

Time is not a problem, character and character should be taken a good look, and those who love are brave to love. If the love between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

In fact, it depends on what you think, love or not love him, I can only say that being together for a year and a month is happiness, if you don't want to love two people even if they are together for 1 year and 365 days, it is better to be in love with each other for a few days, really.

In fact, it is not very important not to be together, if two people are inclined to each other, although there are some geographical problems, but psychologically they will be compensated enough. There are gains and losses, if you are a relatively independent person, you can consider this kind of relationship; But if you are very dependent, you may suffer a lot, and it is best to choose yes and yes according to your own situation. When I fall into the depths, I make a decision this morning.

Wishing you happiness!

If you really love each other, everything is not a problem, if not, let go quickly, the average soldier brotherhood is more important than anything, although love is not important, but he will never be general.

It's only a month, and that's not going to work!

A friend's words make sense, and it's right to listen to your friends.

If you feel that you already know him well, and recognize him, and feel that he is worthy of love, please do not hesitate to love him sincerely, express your love clearly, and let him know. If you're not sure and you're on the fence, don't worry about his reaction. Because:

The world is full of wonders, even if there is a love that is as pure as boiled water, you can't be sure that the other party is as you wish, hehe, and there is that this is just your love stage, as for getting married, it is more about accepting and tolerating each other, which is a responsibility. In short, to tell you as a person who has come over is to choose a man to see him in three ways: responsible, upright, and loving you.

Wishing you happiness!

Either you go after him or you separate.

The environment makes people.

If you really want to be together, then follow him to the ends of the earth.

This is a very real problem! I don't think there's anything I can do! It's not either party's fault that the relationship has faded, two people have a good talk, if it doesn't work, just admit it!

After all, it's not fair to ask anyone to wait! If you have the opportunity to be together now, cherish it from now on and make more good memories! If you continue to separate the two places, then it's time to deal with it!

Lovers are in a different place, then you can only see if the man really loves your friend, it is estimated that the time interval is too long, the man's feelings for your friend have slowly faded, so, if the man is really good, let your friends find more common topics to talk to the man, occasionally send some things that the man likes, and then cultivate and cultivate feelings... And oh The man is studying, and it may be that he is under pressure, busy, and will be cold to your friends when he puts all his energy into studying

Long-distance relationship, it is difficult to have results, find a new boyfriend for your friend as soon as possible, however, her affairs, what are you anxious about, if you do something among them, it may not be that they have not reconciled, but your friend said that you are nosy and beat the mandarin ducks. It's better to let them solve it themselves, and you just listen to your friends' complaints.

Two people are not in the same place.

Break up for more than a year.

Abroad. 2 different places, this one is more troublesome.

Long-distance relationships are hard to come to fruition.

Agree to the ground floor. Change of heart in a few months at the earliest.

If you don't tell him your opinion, you are also responsible, whether the relationship can be maintained for a long time depends on both parties, if what he does always makes you dissatisfied, you will be unhappy with him, for a long time, it is easy to have contradictions, so you should explain your thoughts to him as soon as possible, if he changes, prove that he cares about you, if he is still like that, Then you should consider whether you want to be with him again.

If there is no consummation of love, try to accept or change, either divide or accept.

Forget it, you're starting to get disgusted with your dripping boyfriend.

Talk calmly first, find out the root cause of the problem, see if you can eliminate it, and if you can, continue to communicate; No, an amicable breakup.

From your account, I draw two conclusions. One, you are a very clingy, very mother-in-law, very stubborn, and impatient woman. Two, your boyfriend is a reckless machismo.

Let's not talk about whether he is worthy of your love, first of all, you should reflect on yourself, put away your complaints and complaints, throw away your clingy dependence thoughts, be independent, and make yourself worthy of the love of a normal man, of course, I don't approve of a cold war with him. Secondly, reflect on your boyfriend and your little bits, and make it clear who he is, maybe he is really reckless, but from what you said, he is not good at expressing himself, and you like to keep talking, contradictions may come from here, and communication is not smooth. If you communicate more, you won't be fighting.

If you change and he is still the same, break up, because at this time you have gained the appreciation of other men.