What is the reason why men behave like this after a breakup

There has to be a period of excess, and it's not like you won't look for it for a lifetime, and poverty is not the most important issue.

Not looking for a new one doesn't mean you're still thinking about the old.

If you are relatively good, or are particularly good to him, it may be that he has low self-esteem, feels that he can't give you a stable future, and doesn't want to live up to you.

Maybe it's because he really feels that life is very stressful and his love life is a burden, so he is really tired and breaks up.

In fact, a man's low self-esteem is the worst thing, if you really love him, try to be considerate of him, give him support and encouragement!

Because there is no money. Can't afford a girlfriend.

Do you think a girlfriend is so easy to find?

Falling in love to breaking up, but it is not a thing that both parties can accept, after all, breaking up is a failed relationship, because when you choose to fall in love, you want to have a good love experience, two people can hold hands to have ideas, hope to fall in love with each other, breaking up is not a good thing for both parties, there will be some blows and injuries, falling out of love is painful, but you should not indulge in thoughts and can't extricate yourself, just like the theme. He has a positive and enterprising mind, and he can forget about this unhappy lovelorn, the sadness and torture caused by the breakup, and constantly strive to change himself. After his change, he has become very confident.

Don't pray, don't entangle, accept the fact of breaking up, many people will repeatedly promise each other that I will change, I will change, I will change, give me another chance, okay? And these words are often said n times before the breakup, and repeating them again will only cause the other party to resent them.

Or if you feel hopeless after trying to redeem yourself, you are angry and say that you should never contact each other again, and then you can't help but contact the other party, these repeated actions are not conducive to recovery, and your image in the other party's heart will be greatly reduced.

And when a man proposes to break up, it is generally a deliberate decision, and he doesn't want to continue, for what reason? If you have the opportunity, be sure to ask the other person why they want to leave, but many times they will not tell you the real reason, you can only think about it yourself and understand.

Or you have some shortcomings that he can't bear or there are some realistic external resistances that make him have to give up, or more rationally, it is easier to give up than to continue, and you can find the answer from what he has said.

After breaking up, give yourself some time to think about the real reason why the other party wants to break up, only when you find the real reason why he wants to break up, you can be targeted when you recover.

Breaking up gives yourself a period of calm, and another advantage is to let the other party accept the fact that the breakup is that the two people who used to have the most information every day suddenly cut off contact, and it is not only you who are uncomfortable, but also him, but it is this pain that will prompt him to miss the good you used to be, and think about whether the decision to break up is right.

3. Breaking off contact and finding back to your former self is difficult for people who want to redeem their love, you may very much want to know if he still loves you, whether it is worth retrieving, and what he is doing during the breakup.

But I tell you, don't rush to contact, even if you are still in love with the other person, don't keep looking at his space and following his Weibo, because once you are overly involved, it will only increase your sense of need and make the other party more and more disgusted with you. So when facing a breakup, I must find the reason, and then establish my own image, so that I can become better and better, maybe at this time, I will be more confident to recover this relationship.

The situation of a boy after a breakup is actually different from person to person.

First of all, if this boy loves this girl. Boys will definitely be sad after breaking up, and it is said that a boy's reflex line is longer than that of a girl. Maybe for the boy, after the breakup, it is not very uncomfortable, but will feel very comfortable and free.

Because there is no girlfriend's control, you can do what you want to do freely. But once the boy has passed such a stage, he will really realize the importance of his girlfriend's stool beard, and then he will begin to enter a very low and uncomfortable state.

So if the boy doesn't like the girl, he must feel that the breakup is a complete relief. Maybe this boy will regret losing this girl and finding some unaccustomed things in life. In short, the state of the boy after the breakup varies from person to person, and some people look happy on the surface, but they are actually sad.

1.Kneel and beg to be reunited.

Some girls always like to talk about breakups, and their purpose is to make boys pay more attention to themselves and love themselves more. At first, this trick is really tried, and the boy will change his ways.

After a long time, the boy gradually got bored. When the girl proposes to break up again, he will take the opportunity to agree, that is, his choice after careful consideration. The girl who was caught off guard was suddenly blindfolded.

The girl who is unwilling to lose will go to the place where the boy works, downstairs at the boy's house, to block him. kneeling and begging the other party to get back together with him, and repeatedly harassing the other party. In this way, the only trace of apology and love left by the other party will gradually turn into disgust and resistance to you.

2.Friends send negative states.

Those girls who love to post on Moments, after breaking up, often send negative information from stupid themselves. Show how bad you are, how bad your state is. hopes to exchange this for the sympathy and pity of the other party, and even fantasizes that the other party will take the initiative to come to him to get back together.

It's just wishful thinking, the boy left you out of dissatisfaction with you, your current state is worse than before, why should he get back together with you? No one wants to carry hail or be with someone who is in a bad state.

3.Stalking.

It's obvious that they've broken up, and they still have to keep in touch with each other in vain. Some boys with a conscience reluctantly agreed to their former feelings, and at the same time they were afraid that girls would do stupid things. This kind of consent is not a consent to reunite, but only a stopgap measure for boys.

If the guy is still in love with you, he won't take the initiative to break up. If you break the connection with the boys, it will seem that the girls are very cheap. If you meet those boys who are not scheming, the girls are likely to become the other party's on-call, once the two break up, don't rush to kneel and beg for redemption.

Rather, it is to leave a cooling-off period for both people. During this period, reflect on whether there is a problem with this relationship.