What was your most frustrating experience of being accosted?

I don't have the most depressing pick-up experience, but let me talk about some netizens' pick-up experience。I remember one time, when I was excitedly going shopping, two teenagers who killed Matt silently walked up to me and my friend and asked if they had hairdressing. No money, free.

I gave him a blank look and left. Unexpectedly, he chased us for an entire street. As a result, my friend and I had to take two different paths.

In the end he gave up. My friend was stupefied. Because we're running, tears of sorrow.

At that time, my sister and I went to Taiwan to play in a car, and then carpooled to the city for 1 yuan at the airport. At the time, it was a one-way bus. I was accosting a girl next to me because she always thought it was cool for people who were traveling alone.

At the door of the Bali Youth Travel Agency, I was invited to chew gum. I don't speak English. Hahaha.

I also asked my colleague's boyfriend what he wanted to do. Balinese people are very fond of chatting with each other. Although I didn't understand, we quarreled again and again at the dive shop.

My friend and her boyfriend laughed all the time. I asked what was going on, and he said they were arguing about who could marry you back home.

In Chiang Mai, sitting next to the hotel pool, two young and handsome foreigners in swimming trunks and with a good figure came to say hello. Unfortunately, my phone fell into the pool and just got it up. I'm in a bad mood.

I gave them a blank look and left with my friend.

When I first went to Hong Kong, I sat on a bench in Victoria Harbour at night because I was too tired to move around。An Englishman who worked as an expatriate teacher in Hong Kong came over to talk to me and talked to him for a long time in broken English. Later, he said he invited us for coffee or something.

I refused one because I was a little tired and the other because I was afraid of being insecure. So I think the above pick-up experience is quite depressing.

It should be very depressing to be buried by that kind of boy.

It's that the other party doesn't look at their looks and talks nonsense.

It should be that the other party doesn't understand the truth and talks nonsense.

Personally, I think it was a really miserable experience.

What's even more depressing is that I haven't been accosted.

Many boys meet the girl they like, they want to go forward to talk, but not every boy can be lucky enough to succeed, in fact, pickup is not a difficult thing, want to pick up successfully, first, pay attention to your own image. Second, learn to say nice things. Third, don't care too much about face.

There is no way to change the external image, we can only clean ourselves up and make ourselves look clean and tidy, so that the first impression will be good. On the contrary, some boys, when they talk to girls, are unkempt, which will make others feel very uncomfortable, which will lead to the failure of the pick-up. <>

In fact, every girl likes to listen to nice words, when you go up to talk to someone, if you don't say a good word, you will only say that old-fashioned beauty, we seem to have seen it in **, this will definitely make people feel very disgusted, you can say this, you look so beautiful, are you a star who just debuted? This kind of complimentary pick-up will make people more acceptable and can greatly improve the success rate of pick-up. <>

Some boys say nervously when they talk to each other, saying that they can't be hungry, so they will definitely not succeed. We should correctly understand that pick-up is a very important way of communication, and it is not a hooligan. If you want to succeed in the conversation, you should not be too concerned about face, although the failure of the conversation will affect our emotions, but we should look at this problem with a normal mentality, so that through continuous practice, we can become a real master of communication.

Finally: I think the most touching is always sincerity, and when you talk to others, remember not to be too exaggerated, to use a sincere heart to let others accept you, and then pay attention to speaking skills, don't make others feel very unpleasant physically and mentally as soon as you open your mouth, talking is actually an art, and learning it will also make your future work easier.

Be sure to praise the other party, praise the other party so that he is embarrassed to refuse you, and then you pretend to let him know what kind of benefits he can get from it, and he will naturally take the initiative to cooperate with you.

I think you can talk to a girl or boy about something that interests them, so it's more appropriate to talk to them and it won't be particularly awkward.

In fact, it is very embarrassing to fail to pick up a conversation, so I think it is more appropriate to talk skillfully and humorously.

Looking all over the Internet, there is no better way than to talk to him with his name, believe me.

1: Pretend that you are listening to him carefully, but don't ask his questions, don't let him feel that you take his words to heart, otherwise he will talk more and more energetically, and you will not be able to get out, so you can only keep listening to him talk to him, so don't pay attention, so that he will remember that it is boring when he talks about it. 2:

Before he is about to start talking about the signs that he is going to sell a product, you have to think of another topic to stop him from saying next, and turn his attention elsewhere, so that you will not be cold, not embarrassed, and let him know that you don't want to listen to him sell the product. 3. When you are chatting and chatting, you can excuse yourself by saying that there is something in your house or that other friends are looking for you and need to leave first, so that you can quickly avoid listening to him. 4:

You can sneak a message to your other friends and ask them to call you, so that you have an excuse to leave, and you can talk to him next time and say sorry when you leave. 5: If you are willing to introduce someone to him to buy his things, then he must be very happy, after all, who is not happy about making money, you can also take the opportunity to tell him that you are not interested in listening to what he says to promote products, of course, you must be tactful, otherwise you will fall into an embarrassing situation.