How can I afford to put it down?

When you recognize the essence of a thing, if you can afford it, he can naturally put it down, if he can't take it and can't put it down, then he won't become a normal, responsible person, if you can only take it up but can't put it down, it can only prove that this person is very indecisive. For example, when you encounter a relationship, you feel that this relationship is very unforgettable for you and cannot forget, this is a typical example of what you can afford to let go, what do you have to do? To recognize the nature of this relationship, what brought you together?

And because of what is separated, the contradiction of separation is irreconcilable, irreconcilable, then you should let go. If your fundamental problems cannot be solved, you will never have a chance to be together again, so you should let go of it, both intellectually and emotionally.

The courage to be able to afford to let go in a relationship is learned rather than acquired, that is to say, this courage and this ability are slowly learned by yourself, and others cannot give you such courage. Because everyone's attitude towards feelings is different, and the amount they give in their relationships is different.

Maybe you give less affection, and when you lose this relationship, you will lose less and be less sad. If you give too much in this relationship, then when he loses, you will be very sad and very sad, and you will not be able to let go calmly. Some people are more likely to suffer from gains and losses, and may always be afraid of losing a relationship, so the more you are afraid of something, the more it will happen, and the more it will make these things happen.

Therefore, this kind of courage is slowly exercised by oneself, and it is necessary to make oneself calm and rational. Don't live for feelings, live for yourself, live for something more. I myself used to be a person who couldn't afford to let go, and when I encountered a relationship, I felt that I had to stick to it to the end.

But the truth is that when he lost, I didn't have the courage to let go, I kept forcing it.

But feelings are not up to you, when the other party is determined to leave you, you can only adjust yourself to make yourself less vulnerable. At this time, you have enough ability to protect yourself, and you don't need others to give you courage. Therefore, people are constantly injured in the process of growth, and they are constantly growing in the process of injury.

After going through something, you will become more and more mature. Don't take your feelings too seriously, there is nothing in the world that we should pay attention to, just live a chic and happy life.

There are many things in life that are not decided by our efforts, such as environmental factors, luck factors, and emotional aspects, so we should learn to be optimistic and open-minded, after all, even if we are very reluctant and unwilling, it is useless at all, it is better to be generous and rational. It is the great wisdom of life to take it and put it down, and there are not many people who can really do it freely, but we can adjust ourselves by ourselves, do it slowly, and give ourselves a little time to let go.

When encountering such a thing, I think the most important thing is to correct your mentality, and you must learn to be optimistic and open-minded. When encountering some things, even if we are very reluctant and unwilling, it is useless, it is better to be generous and sensible. You must learn to be a decisive person in ordinary times.

If you want to take it up and down, you need a strong heart, you have to understand from your heart that sometimes there must be in life, and there is no time in life to force it, so that you can not value one thing so much, sometimes we are perhaps attached to make ourselves into pain, in fact, I really see it, the so-called failure and loss are nothing.

In fact, you have to think about the cause of the incident and the final result, and you have to think about how he let go of your words, and why you can't let go of him. Everything is a two-way street, what you do to him, he will do to you, you are good to him in your heart, and it is better for him to disperse if he is not good to you.

Look away, know a little, sometimes you have to cherish in life, don't force it all the time in life, we should cherish what we get, and we don't want to force what we lose, face the gains and losses with a normal heart, whether the gains and losses will affect you In fact, it mainly depends on a person's realm, when your realm is higher than what you have lost, you will be at ease.

The most important thing is a kind of awareness, when something happens, when you meet someone, you must know that all this is your own chance, and you will cherish the fate between each other.

When a matter is over, when a person leaves, in fact, no matter how reluctant our hearts are, they can't change the result, it is nothing more than increasing sadness. Then start our new journey.

If you keep thinking about it, it will be difficult to let go, just like you are out of love, first think about what he did to you badly, since he is so bad to you, why can't you let go? So when you can't let go, think more about the disadvantages of this matter. In fact, as long as you think about it, you will do it.

Don't be so obsessed. When I was admitted to university, I was full of confidence and felt that I would be able to perform normally and be admitted to a good school. Because of the previous mock exams, the exams were all good.

But after failing the college entrance examination, there are several big question types, all of which I am not good at, so I have not performed well as usual. But I can't help it, my own knowledge is not comprehensive enough, so I can only admit it.

Think about how others put you down and learn like him. He will give you epiphany and make you grow.

Summary. The greatest happiness in life is to be able to afford it and let it go. Being able to afford to let go is the highest state of life.

The times create heroes, and when the great luck comes, raise your arms and do the next career, which can be said to be affordable. The deadline has not yet arrived, the rapids retreat bravely, and take the initiative to give up fame and fortune, which can be said to be able to let go. In ancient times, there was Han Xin, when the world was in turmoil, he was sealed and worshipped, he crossed the secret in the open, attacked everything, was invincible, and was a hero, how much beautiful talk he could afford.

Birds and rabbits go, the bow is not hidden, the world is decided, forget to return to the hometown, and cause the disaster of killing, because they can't let go. It can be seen from this: "mention" can become famous, and "put" can protect oneself.

The so-called can afford to lift and put down, just like a bucket for well water, which can be lifted and put down. We see a lot of politicians and entertainers, once they are not satisfied, they can't let go. Even ordinary people, if they are frustrated in love, in business and property, or even if they fail in student exams, they will not be able to let go; If you can't let it go, you can't lift it, so you will feel that the future is difficult, and in serious cases, you will even have suicidal thoughts.

How to be a person who can afford to take it and put it down.

The greatest happiness in life is to be able to afford it and let it go. Being able to afford to let go is the highest state of life. The times create heroes, and when the great luck comes, raise your arms and do the next career, which can be said to be affordable.

The deadline has not yet arrived, the rapids retreat bravely, and take the initiative to give up fame and fortune, which can be said to be able to let go. In ancient times, there was Han Xin, when the world was in turmoil, he was sealed and worshipped, he crossed the secret in the open, attacked everything, was invincible, and was a hero, how much beautiful talk he could afford. Birds and rabbits go, the bow is not hidden, the world is decided, forget to return to the hometown, and cause the disaster of killing, because they can't let go.

It can be seen from this: "mention" can become famous, and "put" can protect oneself. The so-called can afford to lift and put down, just like a bucket for well water, which can be lifted and put down.

We see a lot of politicians and entertainers, once they are not satisfied, they can't let go. Even ordinary people, if they are frustrated in love, in business and property, or even if they fail in student exams, they will not be able to let go; If you can't let it go, you can't lift it, so you will feel that the future is difficult, and in serious cases, you will even have suicidal thoughts.

Thomas Edison once said, "There is no choice without giving up, and there can be no development without choice." "There is not just one place in life that is picturesque, and other places may be more beautiful.

When you are frustrated, you might as well savor the philosophy contained in this sentence. If you look at the history of successful people, you will find that there are many examples to learn from. Life is not only one brilliant place, embrace the past, integrate the future, create a new spring of life, life will be more bright and charming.

It's never too early or too late to think seriously about how you should live and behave in the world. You have to let your mind soar to the fullest, the higher you fly, the farther you look, and then you can get out of the rigid boundaries of your eyes and break through the existing preconceptions.