I m going to die, what should I do? About the wedding bride price

If you don't buy a house and pay back such a little money, it's a little less, I don't advocate living with the elderly, there must be contradictions, and then your husband can't help you, so you have no place to complain! If you don't add the money problem to your boyfriend, you can only admit it, at most your family will marry less, you must achieve a balance in your heart, don't bring so many things in the past, it's useless, at this time you should think clearly, your husband can't help you, one side is the daughter-in-law and the other is the mother, which side do you want him to stand, he can't stand well, or he is not filial, or let you be wronged, I hope you can weigh the pros and cons, and then say!

Oh my God, do you love money or your boyfriend?

How can you think so.

Marriage is a matter of two people.

It is a family business to give more money at home.

It's the two of you who will live in the future, not with their family.

Would you be happy if you were to give him money for nothing?

Ask yourself who you love.

Oh my God, you must have the smell of money all over you.

Let's be independent, let's be financially independent.

You're not cheap and your marriage to him is not a sale.

When you ask such questions, you are buying and selling yourself as a commodity.

Don't trample on your own personality.

Less than above, more than small"There is no contentment in people. A full man does not know that a hungry man is hungry.

However, no matter how you say that two people used to be romantic or plain, it is the most important thing that their hearts can be intertwined in love with each other and live happily together. Do what you can.

I can feel your feelings

Your boyfriend's house is pretty good at that, too. However, I think it's better not to make a fuss, after all, it's hard to put your boyfriend in the middle.

Your boyfriend's house isn't doing well. You should understand.

Think about it. If for the sake of face. and you are burdened with debts.

It's enough to do what you can.

Alas! In our case, the minimum bride price is 10w, 120,000 is too little!

Marriage because of the bride price contradictions, now this society is too much, many people because of the bride price caused two people who were originally very good feelings to become enemies, some are more exaggerated, the man's family conditions do not answer the guess, the woman's family wants a very high bride price. This was originally a very ordinary wedding, and the southern family borrowed a loan to pay the bride price. At the same time, it also created the fact that after the woman married the man, the two people jointly repaid the loan for the wedding, and the marriage of the two people was originally a very happy and auspicious thing, and both parties considered the future happiness and should make a step in the bride price.

I'm about to get married as a bride price.

What should I do at this time to break up?

1.In such a situation, I think two people should discuss with each other, and then Lun Nian should also mediate well, and don't break up because of such a thing, otherwise it will be a pity and regret. As a modern society, for a person there is an independent personality.

And women with high self-esteem, it is not such a decent and honorable thing for parents to ask for such a high bride price from the man, but like an item, it should not feel too good to be sold by someone with a fixed **. Many guys are willing to show sincerity when they establish a relationship and before marriage. But even if the man takes the initiative to propose, if the attribute of sincerity has great material value, you should be vigilant.

Because such a high bride price has a great impact on the feelings and relationships between the two people in the future, and there is no benefit.

2.Actively communicate and solve. When you calm down and communicate, you get to the point of the problem.

When communicating with your boyfriend about a problem or an incident, remember to seek truth from facts, treat things and people, and don't settle old accounts. Now you're going to solve the problem with your boyfriend. What you need to grasp is how to solve the current problem, not the other problem.

It's a bit unreasonable, it will keep things and arguments going on and won't help solve the problem at hand. Tell the other person what they think. One of the most important qualities in dealing with people is sincerity.

If, in the process of chatting, the two parties deceive each other and turn into chat, this kind of chat is meaningless.

3.Unmarried men and women should not give money to each other before marriage, keep it for themselves. As a person's basic appeal and life support, money should be separated from feelings, and the two should not be confused.

If you want to talk about money, make it clear. If you want to fall in love, put your money aside for now. For example, when two people talk about marriage and need to talk about money, they should try to put aside emotional factors, follow customs, and follow the needs of both families.

Don't use the other person's feelings for you as a reason to give less money. In general, people with good feelings should not talk about money. But in my opinion, people who have a good relationship should talk about money, and they should talk about money clearly.

At this time, you have to communicate and communicate with the other half of the year old, and consider it from the other party's point of view.

I think you should communicate well with the hail smile, you can take a step back, and Yuan Qingran has come to the step of getting married, which shows that the two ascended people have feelings, and don't break up because of the bride price.

Find a suitable opportunity to discuss with the other party calmly, the bride price is just an attitude, there is no need to be too serious.

Legal analysisBride price disputes are generally settled by both parties through negotiation first, and if the negotiation fails, the court will make a judgment according to different circumstances. Bride price disputes are generally premised on divorce and involve the question of whether the bride price is returned. The scope of the return of the bride price is mainly limited to the situation where the man and the woman are not married.

If the marriage is not registered, the bride price paid by the man shall be returned. If the marriage has been registered, the marriage has been relatively short or has not been living together, the substantive conjugal life has not begun, and the parties have not established a relationship of rights and obligations between husband and wife, the bride price paid by the husband shall be returned. If one party has absolute hardship in his or her life due to the payment of the bride price, which is insufficient to maintain the local minimum standard of living, it may conditionally support one party's claim for the return of the bride price, and for the husband who has been married for more than one year, in principle, the claim for the return of the bride price will not be supported.

Legal basisArticle 1042 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages, and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage. Therefore, where the bride price is paid according to custom, it should be within an acceptable range, and it is not allowed to buy, sell, arrange marriage, or interfere with the freedom of marriage in the name of the bride price.

If you are talking about marriage, because of the bride price issue, two people fall into a cold war situation, at this time you can choose a person in the group of relatives and friends to reconcile the relationship between each other, if you know each other through a blind date, you can find a matchmaker to communicate, the matchmaker is the middleman, and a bridge is also an effective way to deal with the Cold War.

2. If you have been entangled in the problem of bride price, this is not an impossible thing to adjust, both people can lower their stature and make a concession appropriately, this attitude of willingness to compromise may be more appreciative of the other party and moved.

3. If two people were once caught in a cold war and communicated with each other, it is not practical to communicate with each other, then they can use the online platform or write a letter by hand, showing sincerity to inform each other of their difficulties and the solutions they think of, and at the same time they must let the other party understand, not just accuse each other. The above is an introduction to how to solve the Cold War because of the bride price, I hope it will be helpful to you.

How to negotiate wisely about the bride price.

1. When talking about marriage, most men are very disgusted with the woman's bride price, and the woman can not take the initiative to put this matter on the table, and ask the other party to use the bride price to prove whether the man loves himself or not, which is an act of moral kidnapping, and also affects the feelings between two people.

2. Try to let the man take the initiative to give the bride price before opening the mouth, many people think that the bride price is two different things to give you and being asked to give, if the parents of both sides have established a good emotional foundation, then they clearly expressed their willingness to give the bride price and then proceed to the next step of negotiation.

Dear readers, we regret to note that in our society, contradictions and disputes over the issue of bride price have become a common problem. This problem has seriously affected family harmony and emotional harmony, and we need to face and solve it with a rational and mature attitude.

First of all, we need to make it clear that the bride price should be a state score that increases the happiness of the newlyweds' families, not a source of family conflicts. In the process of selecting and agreeing on the bride price, we need to take into account the financial situation and individual needs of different families, as well as the personal wishes of the couple. Excessively high bride price requirements can put families under undue financial pressure and may even cause unnecessary disputes and friction.

When solving the problem of falling out because of the bride price. Here are the main steps we should take:

1.Communication and understanding: First of all, both parties need to remain calm and rational, and understand each other's positions and expectations through in-depth communication. It is only through mutual understanding and respect that we can reach a consensus on the issue of bride price.

2.Establish reasonable standards: Agree on a reasonable amount of the bride price based on each other's financial situation and the general criteria of the bride price. At the same time, the cultural significance of the bride price should also be taken into account, rather than simply being regarded as a transaction.

3.Respect for traditional culture: Although bride price is a traditional cultural practice, it is not immutable. When dealing with the issue of bride price, we should respect traditional culture and take into account the actual situation of modern society.

4.Seek mediation: If the parties encounter a situation where the bride price cannot be negotiated, they can seek mediation from a third party, such as family elders and professional counselors. They can provide objective advice and assistance to help both parties reach a proper solution.

In fact, the key to solving the problem of falling out due to the bride price lies in the rational communication and understanding of both parties. We need to approach this issue with equality, respect and understanding, and avoid confusing emotions with money. While maintaining family harmony, it is also necessary to respect the rights and wishes of individuals.

We call on all families and individuals to deal with the issue of bride price with maturity and reason, so as to avoid unnecessary disputes and contradictions arising from this issue. Let us work together to solve this problem with understanding and respect, and make our society more harmonious and welcoming.

Thank you for reading.