How do you understand that my mother is going to remarry but doesn t tell me?

Your mother probably wanted to tell you about this a long time ago, but she thought too much, it was too complicated, she might imagine a hundred situations in her mind, figuring out your possible reactions, your psychology, but in the end she never had the courage to face this thing head-on, it's not that she doesn't care about you, but she cares too much, and the end of a person who cares too much often doesn't dare to do it, and in the end it all becomes an escape.

Since you understand and support her, tell her your thoughts openly and honestly, and open and honest communication is the best option. Your heart is puzzled, and she may also have uneasiness and guilt in her heart, and heart-to-heart communication will definitely wash it all away.

I think it's not that in your mother's eyes, you didn't tell you before you were mature, but I wanted you to get acquainted with it, accept it, and then tell you. Besides, I don't know your current age. If you are an adult, then your mother found her true love and did not tell you, you should understand.

Because love is, after all, a very personal issue. Besides, the environment around us is also like this, and few parents can discuss their marriage and love with their children. It's almost as good as discussing your love marriage.

In short, since she has found it, you are right to be happy for her. Understand her more.

If you don't tell you, there must be a reason, it must be good for you, don't think badly.

Actually, you just love your mom too much. I can understand that it was not easy for my mother to bring me up single-handedly. So sometimes I wish I could know everything about my mom and help her in any way I can. You don't have to worry about it, as long as the mother is safe, isn't that our greatest wish to be children.

In a country like the United States, it's normal to get married and divorced, whether it's your mother or anyone, you have the right to be happy, so don't worry too much. Mom doesn't tell you, maybe she thinks you can't accept the fact that your mother remarried, so she didn't tell you, don't worry, your mother loves you.

Bless mom silently Sometimes there are things you don't need to think about.

It's her own right, and she won't tell you maybe because you're too young to understand adult things!

As a child, if my parents choose to remarry, I will definitely support them. Because no matter how old you are, love and marriage are everyone's rights and freedoms, and others have no right to interfere. If the elderly have this will, be sure to support them and do not interfere with them for any reason.

First of all, when people are old, they need to have a companion. When you are young, you don't care about people, but once you reach old age, you want to have someone around you who can rely on each other and be able to talk. The children are busy with their own careers and families, and they don't have much time to spend with their parents all day.

If you live alone, you will feel very lonely. This is also the reason why many single old people, who came over alone when they were middle-aged, want to find a companion when they are old. As a child, support should be understood.

Secondly, the remarriage of parents can also reduce the burden on their children. Because the parents are old, the children must be particularly uneasy to live alone, especially when the elderly are incapacitated, they have to take care of their parents every day. After the old age remarries, the two old people can take care of each other, and the children can do their own things in a down-to-earth manner, and there is no need to take time out of the busy day to take care of the elderly, which reduces the burden on the children accordingly.

Third, as a child, when parents choose to remarry, they must take care of their parents. Although older persons do not need the consent of their children to remarry, children do not have the right to interfere with their parents' imitation marriages. However, the remarriage of the elderly will involve many problems.

As a child, you must remind your parents that when it comes to real estate and property, you must make it clear. You can't remarry in a vague way, so as to avoid many possible contradictions.

In short, I believe that when parents remarry, children should respect the wishes of the elderly. At the same time, the elderly cannot be refused to support the elderly because they have remarried.

I don't know how you feel when a child says that, but my heart aches. Why should a child at a young age pay for the mistakes of their parents.

Is there a phrase we often hear when you asked me when you gave birth to me?

What kind of mindset did we have when we chose to have a baby? Do we want someone to continue our bloodline, or do we want to give birth to someone we can love selflessly. Or more so for the so-called propagation.

If you choose not to give birth to him, but for the sake of others or yourself, I don't think you should give birth to him. Because in the years to come, you will blame him for all your misfortunes, and when you encounter a better life than you can live now, he will definitely be the first person you will abandon.

You still have a choice, and he is waiting to be chosen. You gave birth to him unfairly, and you have to abandon him halfway, I really don't know what the mentality of those who persuade you to abandon him is. And you're still hesitating.

A few days ago, I read the news that a person sent her child away from an early age, and when she was old and the child who stayed with her could not afford her medical expenses, she went to contact the child who was sent away to see if she could support her? You went to him for the desire to survive, so why did you abandon him when he needed you for life?