It s so tiring to fall in love, it s really tiring to fall in love, is that so?

Love is not difficult and tiring, nor does it annoy people, but people themselves increase pressure on themselves and ask for troubles. Loving someone should be a very happy thing.

We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and you should be happy with her happiness and happiness with her.

Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifetime of happiness!

Meeting the wrong person at the right time is a game!

Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh!

It's ridiculous to meet the wrong person at the wrong time!

If you really love her, take your time with her, she will want to open it, but it may take a long, long time.

Hehe, there is a generation gap.

People are young, and they don't think about getting married when they fall in love.

You're thinking too much. Find someone around 24 years old. In this way, the mind will also mature a little.

Scold. I'm 20 years old, my boyfriend is five years older than me, maybe I'm more mature in terms of thinking, I don't think there is any generation gap between me and him, I think it's all the efforts of both parties, to manage this love together.

Stay with her slowly and see if your plans change?

Snub him for a while and see how he reacts...

1. The reason why you feel tired when you fall in love.

1. Long-distance relationship.

I believe that many people have experienced or are in a long-distance relationship, or some friends around them are in a long-distance relationship, and they will know that this requires more energy and time to maintain a relationship than ordinary love.

Because of the distance, we can't be together very often. When you need each other, but the lover is not around, then you can only carry it by yourself.

Therefore, a long-distance relationship will make people feel that it is tiring and difficult to fall in love.

2. The object is different from what you expect.

At the beginning of a relationship, many people's personalities will be a little restrictive, this is because they want to show a perfect image in front of each other.

But when the love relationship is deepened, it will slowly show its true nature. Then, in the run-in of feelings, it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions.

If these contradictions cannot be dealt with in a timely manner, a big problem will gradually become formed between two people. Therefore, when many small problems are gathered together, it will feel very tiring to fall in love.

3. Discomfort with love.

Some people will prefer to be free and easy after being single for a long time, and at this time, they will suddenly have all kinds of unaccustomed habits when they fall in love, such as what they want to eat, or if they want to go to ** travel, they have to ask each other, and they can only go with his consent or permission.

Then, after a long time, when things start to get more and more, you will feel very troublesome, especially if the other party is more clingy, you will feel that he is more restrained in his actions and feel very tired.

2. How to deal with feelings of tiredness when falling in love.

1. Strive to recover.

I once watched a movie, and there is a line that there are thousands of people in the world, and it can be said that it is a very rare thing to meet the right person and fall in love together.

Therefore, even if you feel that love is very tiring, if you feel that you still have a glimmer of hope for redemption, then you might as well let go and fight again and try to redeem it.

After the action, even if the final result is a failure, you will not feel regret in the future.

Therefore, if you find that the relationship between two people can still be saved, you might as well calm down, try to understand and be considerate of each other, and then make changes together to face future difficulties.

2. Be obedient to your heart.

Of course, not all couples can make it to the end. If you find that the reason why two people often contradict each other is that they have incompatible personalities, living habits, or incompatible views.

Because everyone's lifestyle, education, and work experience are different, it is difficult to change them at once.

So this is very necessary to think twice, if you find that the other party is really not suitable for you, you really feel very tired in this relationship, and you don't want to do anything to change, you can put down your hands and let the two of you go to find your own happiness.