Why is it so difficult to unify love and marriage

Because love is a feeling, and marriage is a contract.

Marriage is the sublimation of love.

I can't, I have to turn one for love.

Isn't marriage an extension of love? What's wrong, regret it?

Love and marriage are not a concept in themselves, love is a feeling.

You'll understand when you experience it.

Maybe it's just appreciation from afar.

will be in a frantic heartbeat.

Maybe it's the sweetness of being together ordinarily.

Hand in hand. Shopping.

Watch a movie. Your heart will be filled by someone.

I miss it when I can't see it.

Love itself is simple.

It can be love at first sight.

It can also be morning and twilight.

Marriage is the result and involves a lot of practical issues.

Families on both sides.

House. Job.

Daily necessities of life. So there is a saying that love is a matter of two people.

And marriage is a matter of two families.

Because life is tangled together.

Because love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families.

Love is an idealized situation, life is the actual situation, and the distance between the ideal and reality is the distance between love and marriage.

There is still a difference between love and marriage, love is "emotional love"; Marriage is "rational love".

Generally speaking, during the relationship between two people, the proportion of emotional love will be larger. The feelings for each other are attracted to each other, full of romance and fantasy. Even if the actual conditions do not allow it and the personalities are not suitable, the two are still willing to take the trouble to fall into inseparable.

Marriage tends to be more rational thinking.

The eyes of the two are not only on each other, but also on the life they face together.

Therefore, practical issues are particularly important: whether the personality is suitable, whether the door is right, whether the three views are the same, and so on.

After weighing all the pros and cons, many people would rather choose a person who is not much of a liking but has conditions that match them very well.

Marriage is the highest state of love, and marriage also represents a kind of responsibility, on behalf of the willingness to be loyal and responsible for each other, willing to give their sincerity to each other, but also responsible for each other, together to form a type of love nest, to establish a small family of their own, is a mature and stable willingness to accept the test, and a willingness to selfless dedication! Mori is rented.

However, under normal circumstances, when many of us step into marriage, because after a love relationship and exchanges, we all become more familiar and understanding, and after determining the lifelong relationship between two people through marriage, our hearts will also appear more down-to-earth and have a sense of security and achievement!

Because the rocks of the Mushu block in love are pure and rough, and they are simple, and they are together because they like it.

The purpose of marriage is much more complicated, so relatively speaking, the difference between the two is still relatively large.

Because love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families.

Falling in love and getting married are definitely not the same. The process of falling in love is more romantic, and there are no worries. However, after entering the marriage, it is not the case, the consideration of the problem is more practical, and the problem of bridge consideration is also hungry for a long time.

After all, love always keeps the best side of themselves, marriage will allow the two to have a more comprehensive understanding, and the two of them are also more real to get along, and there are many realistic things to face.

Love is a pursuit, marriage is a responsibility; Love is a personal relationship, and marriage is a collision balance of the family!

During the love period, the two parties do not work hard for eating, drinking, sleeping, sit-ups, quick sleeping, walking, wealth, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, children, wives, mothers-in-law, mothers-in-law, and fathers-in-law. If you fall in love with one mind, the whole world is beautiful.

After getting married, the above problems slowly surfaced, and there were contradictions and disagreements, and there were still so many troubles in the world?