How do I reject an accepted girl?

I think it's good that you want to explain it to her.

You're going to tell her.

First of all, I'm sorry because she's a nice girl.

I've been chasing you for a long time.

You're so impressed that you want to have a relationship with her.

But when you really get involved, you find that being moved is not emotional.

You think she's good, but you don't love her.

So I don't want to lie to her, if this continues, you still don't love her, and sooner or later they will break up.

It's irresponsible for all of you, and it's going to delay her.

Tell her that she will find a boyfriend who loves her in the future.

Before, it was too simple for you to think.

If she's still angry, there's nothing she can do.

Tell her that no matter how angry she is, whatever she says about you, you will accept it.

But you have to break up with her, or you're sorry for her.

If she's a sensible girl, she won't not understand what you mean.

You're a man, so be quick and cut through the mess.

The more this kind of thing drags on, the more troublesome it becomes.

I know a girl chasing a boy for 6 or 7 years, and the boy didn't agree, and the girl was gone, but it's still a friend, and it's a lie to say that there is no pain, but from the beginning the boy didn't dare to give her hope, and in the end there was a chance to be friends, but you accepted a girl who liked you but you still didn't like her after getting along, why did you accept it in the first place?! Well, in fact, it's useless to say anything now, let's sit down with her and have a good chat, but how the ending is very cruel to that girl, if that girl really likes you and loves you, why can't you feel it well and give her something in return, there must be one party in the relationship who pays more and one party pays less, human nature always lets itself pursue the person you like but ignores the person who likes you, is you ignoring her, or you really don't call. If you don't call, cut through the mess quickly!

No, you say, I'm sorry, I don't think we're a good fit, and, according to what you said, your relationship is not very good, and it's easier to refuse.

The more time passes, the more she invests, the deeper the damage, and the faster the knife cuts through the mess.

Just tell her what you are saying now, as an outsider I understand, she will understand, to be honest, than to drag, or not to say anything, kinder ......

It is recommended that you disconnect from her immediately, the longer it lasts, the greater the damage, and the bigger the scar in her heart.

said to her: You don't feel it, and you are looking for her because you are moved. Introduce her to one more object.

If you don't like her, you accept a hair, hurt others and hurt yourself.

Indecision does not solve the problem.

Your indecision has taught people another lesson, hey

1. Don't be in a hurry to break off the relationship.

In fact, some romances in life start with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't rush to break or give up the relationship.

After rejection, the first thing you have to do is to figure out the reason for the rejection, whether it is because your impatient personality is causing pressure on the other party, or because your relationship is not yet in the heat of that official relationship.

However, no matter what, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reason and don't give up easily. If this rejection is just because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship, then you might as well give each other more time together, and maybe next time you can keep the clouds open and see the sunrise.

2. Confession needs to be sincere, don't use jokes to hide your inner fear of failure.

Boys love face, so they are always worried that they will lose face if their confession is rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking in their hearts that if they fail, it can be said that they are just joking with each other.

However, you never thought that this kind of tongue-in-cheek confession would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling, and if the other party is a careful and cautious girl, then they will definitely reject you.

Therefore, when a boy confesses, it is better to be sincere and not too casual. If this still fails, then it comes down to the first point, don't be in a hurry to give up, after all, people will change, and if you don't feel anything at this stage, it doesn't mean that you will always be without feelings in the future.

3. Calmly and maturely face failure.

After being rejected, you seriously reflect and understand the reasons for the failure, and find that the other party really just treats you as a friend, then you don't have to be sad, difficult to close up, and there is no need to "self-deprecation", because love can never be obtained by reluctance.

At this time, what you have to do is to face up to this relationship, summarize the reasons for the failure, don't let negative emotions plague your life, take this failure as a kind of learning, and the next time you make a move, you can grasp the opportunity with more confidence and find your own unique love.

I think you should still let go of her instead of letting go of her, letting go of her is to be an ordinary friend, if you can't do it, you can directly invite someone other than her, even if she knows it, you don't have to care, so as to show your attitude towards her to let go!

Then you invite all of them in the group, it's her business whether the girl comes or not, and if she comes, she will be an ordinary friend, and you don't have to be strong if you don't come.

After being rejected by a girl, it would be better if you could get along normally, if you couldn't get along normally, then don't break off the contact.

If you think it's worth it, keep chasing it.

Although the saying goes, there are only three things, but the relationship is not something that can be explained clearly by the number of times, when a man meets the woman he likes, do you care if the other party refuses three times and does not continue to pursue? If you don't even say three times that you don't really like this woman, of course, there may be many other reasons for this. Let's analyze whether you should continue to persist after being rejected by a girl three times.

When you like a woman, you have to ask yourself a few questions, first of all, what do you like about this woman, is it her appearance or her temper or her background, etc.

If you don't know that you like each other, even if you catch up, you may still be separated after a long time of contact, if you just like each other's appearance and are rejected by the other party, then you don't have to stick to it, after all, there are many beautiful women, why waste time for a woman. So when you like a woman, you have to ask yourself what you like about her, don't just say that you like the other person based on feelings, this is too general, too irresponsible to yourself.

When you meet a woman you like, you have to ask yourself, can you change yourself for this woman, this is also quite critical, if two people are in love, naturally there will be no other party to reject you, if you are not in love, it is possible to change yourself for women, for example, girls like to eat spicy, and you can't eat, do you want to accompany her to eat spicy food, girls like to go shopping, and I don't like to go shopping, Will you change yourself because of the woman you like, accompany her to go shopping, of course, these changes are basically permanent, you can't say that you are willing to change for it when you pursue a girl, once you catch up with you, it's like a changed person, hit back to the original shape, think about whether you are different from before in the eyes of women, people are still willing to be with you.

Therefore, when you meet a woman you like, you should ask yourself if you are willing to change yourself for it.

Some people may say why do you always have to change yourself for women, why don't you let women change for men, don't forget, the topic we are discussing today is to be rejected by girls three times, is it necessary to persevere, have been rejected so many times, it must be that you like girls will do that, if girls like you believe it is the same, it depends on whether you are attractive or not. As for being rejected three times by the girl, is it necessary to persist any longer?

If you like this woman, of course, it is necessary, of course, here we must first consider the above questions, whether you can do it on the premise, of course, the point to be explained here is that the persistence here does not refer to the kind of stalking, otherwise it will be counterproductive, you must ask your heart clearly and then know what to do.

1.If you really like it, you can continue.

Confession is a fool's trick, and it's something we've always strongly opposed. Confession is equivalent to coercing a girl to sign a contract with you, and if the girl can't confirm that she likes you, she will definitely be rejected.

The confession itself is a mistake and subtract points, your confession has undoubtedly revealed your sense of need, which is equivalent to showing all your hole cards, the girl has fallen into the observer's perspective, and the position of the party is not calm, and you are in an absolutely vulnerable state. The confession is rejected, and the difficulty of continuing to pursue must be much higher than that of a new girl, and it is generally not recommended to continue chasing.

2.Non-explicit refusal.

Just because your confession is rejected doesn't mean you can't attract the other person at all. In some cases, the confessing party is too anxious, you haven't shown enough samples, the girl hasn't discovered your shining point, and she doesn't know enough about you. was coerced by your confession, and you rejected it in a hurry.

In this case, there is no problem with your own attractiveness, which is enough to match the girl. It's just that he confessed that he made a mistake, which led to the situation becoming very passive, and there is still hope for updating the strategy.

3.The girl categorically refused.

If you have been with a girl for a long time, and you have confessed your thoughts many times in the middle, the other party's attitude is negative, and you have clearly rejected you several times, but I don't like you and have no feelings for you! It is advisable to give up!

When your confession is rejected, either the other party knows you well enough, or the other party just doesn't like you and doesn't feel good for you. Whatever the reason, you can't continue to pressure girls. Otherwise, it will make the girl feel that you are very entangled, and eventually make a mess of the situation.

Continuing to pursue girls will make girls feel pressured. Trying to get a good impression of a girl by doubling down on her will also make the girl feel stressed.