Should I give up or should I chase it? New, to give up, or to continue to pursue... Very confused

Yes, to describe your state is: you can't go up, you can't go down.

There will always be only love or no love. The key is how you love. What to love.

Maybe sometimes seeing her happy is not to give yourself happiness? What you get is what you have in your life, and what you can't get may be something you shouldn't have. If you're sure you love her and don't want to see her smile on her face, then you're domineering with her.

People, in fact, are very fragile, many times need the help of others, but lose themselves, never know how to grasp and cherish...Take your own path and choose your own problems, so that you will give yourself a reason to continue and give yourself a strong pursuit...

I thought, I'll bless you pinch...Hehe!

Very well written. Very impressed.

I feel like I need something like that, too.

My story.

Be friends first and go with the flow.

I've had the same problem, and now I've figured it out, no matter what, I'm always going to have her in my heart.

Personally, I don't think it's good to be in the state of stay

Either end it early and let yourself be relieved sooner, or let's be together sooner. Give each other a chance ... Detention is the most important thing.

1 may all ......Love is just a dream.

Disappointment is sometimes a kind of happiness, because there is something to expect, so it will be disappointed. Because there is love, there will be expectation, so even if you are disappointed, it is also a kind of happiness, although this happiness is a little painful. The most poignant distance in the world is that two people were originally very far away and did not know each other, but suddenly one day, they met and fell in love with each other, and the distance became very close.

Then one day, no longer in love, two people who were originally very close became very far away, even farther than before.

If you like someone, there will be no pain. Loving someone may be painful for a long time, but the happiness he gives me is also the greatest happiness in the world.

Two people are together for happiness, and breaking up is to alleviate pain, you can no longer make me happy, and I can only leave, and when I leave, it is also painful, but you must be more painful than me, because I say goodbye first, and I am the first to pursue happiness.

Everything has a price, and the price of happiness is pain.

At the beginning, we knew that there would always be an end.

The origin and extinction of the fate, the strong fate and the weak fate, are not something we can control. What we can do is to cherish that short time when we meet by chance.

It's better to meet once than never to meet.

It's hard to love someone, and it's even harder to give up your beloved.

When love comes, of course, it is also happy. However, this happiness comes to be given, and it is also necessary to learn to accept disappointment, pain, and parting. From then on, life is no longer pure.

The greatest act of crush is fulfillment. You don't love me, but I fulfill you. A true crush is a lifelong career that doesn't give up just because he's away from you. Without this sentiment, don't talk about crushes.

Love has always been a matter of a thousand turns. If you have never been forsaken or hurt, how can you know how to love others? Love is an experience, and I hope it lasts a long time.

Friend, you made a big mistake, then put her too high... The more beautiful the girl, the easier it is to get it. Generally, beautiful women are like standing on the 2nd floor, and those who pursue standing on the first floor, the first floor and the second floor will be in a state of looking up, and the attention is all in one place, in turn, the 2nd floor is disdainful of the first floor, the so-called first floor is the person who often gives gifts and pleases women, but this is useless, if you want to chase her, you have to stand on the third floor, she looks up at you so as to attract her attention.

To put it simply, no matter how old the woman is, you treat her as a little sister of what age she is, for example, if she points to the place where ice cream is sold and wants to eat, then you should reply like this, "Hehe, do you want to eat?" Sing me a song and say, "Anyway, you have to treat her as a little sister, no matter how bad you are, you can't even deal with a little sister who is a few years old?!! In addition, it is easiest to get started when the woman is injured.

Give it up, if you like it, you would have agreed a long time ago, maybe you are a good friend to her and don't want to lose, and continuing can only make it difficult for both of you.

What does it mean to like something you shouldn't like? Be bold to pursue, come to a perfect courtship plan, life is actually very short, don't leave yourself with regrets.

Let's put it this way, maybe you love her, but he is not the person you are destined to be, and it is not better to find the most suitable for each other. Bless her for the best.

Whoever is serious loses, this has always been very reasonable... But if you don't take it seriously, you will lose just as well.

I don't know how to say it.,It's not a bad thing if you work hard and don't get results.。。 It's hard to say about fate.,The feeling of love can't stand the test of time.。。 It will feel lighter.

Calm thinking, decisive handling, the answer is in your heart... Now, whoever tells you the answer, it's a suggestion or an opinion in some way.

Brother, I can understand your feelings, but I can help you analyze it:

First of all, it is necessary to find out whether the other party has someone they like now, whether they are still talking and are not separated, or whether they are temporarily separated because of awkward quarrels.

Secondly, whether she can accept that she has lived together, and whether she cares about this, you need to ask your heart, otherwise it will have an impact on the future. Parents will think that the girl is not very procedural, so if you can accept some things, it is best not to let your parents know.

Third, since the other person has allowed her boyfriend to be able to chat with you in his name, it seems to be hinting at something to you, which means that she is still with this man, whether she likes it or is emotionally dependent, which is a fact for you.

Fourth, ask yourself if you really like this girl, and what do you like about her? Is it just the feeling of first love, or the first cause effect, or do you really like it? Because it's possible that after being together, you will find that it is not what you imagined.

After thinking about the above questions, if you still really like it, then be brave and adopt some strategies.

Don't be too anxious, you can refrigerate it first, the more anxious you are, the more you will force the other party to be closer. Therefore, waiting for the opportunity, the two will definitely have a conflict and quarrel, and when the time comes, they will definitely be caught. But pay attention to the strategy, show care and care at the right time.

Like, just like, don't attach too much. For example, your mother and his mother are classmates, which is useless.

Hope it helps.

Let's break it down for you.

1.You said that she is not the kind of casual girl, but she also held your hand and hugged your waist when crossing the street, which shows a problem, she has a good impression of you and gets up casually in front of you.

2.For the boy who pursued her, she decisively rejected others, which shows two points, one is that she doesn't like each other; Second, she has a boy she likes, and the second point is a little more likely, because she hasn't rejected your pursuit.

3.You have known each other for 4 years, and you should know each other very well, and when you confess to her, you are not rejected by her face-to-face, which shows that she has a good impression of you and is willing to give you a chance.

In response to the above three points, I think she likes you. So it is advisable that you chase her and don't give up. You have a 90% chance of success.

In fact, the girl has already confessed, and he has agreed to you to be her boyfriend.

She had acquiesced, but was embarrassed to say it.

Let's go and chase it! Love is earned by yourself!

Chasing, didn't agree but didn't refuse, depending on how you perform,

If you love, please persevere, love is not easy.