What should I do if my boyfriend likes a comfortable life, and I like an extraordinary life?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It won't be long before long pain is better than short pain, you know.

    Let's see what others have to say.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It won't be long before long pain is better than short pain, you know.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Isn't it quite harmonious, both of them are equally boring.

    You will give him a comfortable life and create extraordinary romance.

    He is in your extraordinary life, acting as a harbor when you are tired.

    2 are comfortable or 2 are not ordinary, the result is, either boring to the death of the whiteboard, or active to the point of ignoring each other, do you think?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Not a river of fish! Break up....

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Isn't it quite harmonious, both of them are equally boring. You give him a comfortable life, create extraordinary romance He is in your extraordinary life, acting as a harbor when you are tired Both are comfortable or both are extraordinary The result is, either boring to the point of whiteboard to death, or active to the point of ignoring each other, do you think it's good?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You don't fit together. Originally, I didn't want to persuade the split. But your ambition will be hit by him, if you are lucky, he will not give you moral support, when you are tired, he will blame you for not breaking in, and will let you stop, instead of soothing you at the same time, motivate you to continue fighting.

    The so-called Tao is not the same, and it will be very painful in the future.

    Finding a career partner and fighting side by side is a kind of enjoyment in life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    According to what you say! Different aspirations are not suitable for being together!

    A sensible breakup is good for both parties!

    Unexpectedly, two people who are together have been entangled all the time, but they make each other painful, sad, and sad!

    It's better to break up happily!

    You live the life you want, he lives the life he wants!

    Although it is said that it is better to demolish ten temples than to demolish one marriage! But in this era, it is very important to pay attention to the freedom of love!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this way, the personalities of the two people are also good, and the boyfriend will work safely and steadily, and there will be basic security. Girlfriend to break through, to realize their dreams, if the dream is successful, if you have the ability to let your boyfriend work with you, in case it is not successful, there is also a boyfriend This basic guarantee is also very good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You'd better break up, you're not destined to get along. If you can be together, either he compromises or you compromise. If he compromises, he will be seriously insecure, and after a long time, he will still break up.

    If you compromise, then you will feel that life is no fun, repeating the same things all day long, or you rarely have some new preferences and go out every day, and your boyfriend will still feel that you don't care about your family, and you will either suffocate yourself or wronged yourself. So under the premise of such a big disagreement, you can break up rationally first. Maybe you find that your boyfriend has built a stable harbor for you after breaking outside, and one day you figure it out and get back together, life is so unpredictable, and you can encourage you to go out for a walk while you are young.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the early days of reform and opening up, there were many couples who had a stable job as a stabilizer of the family economy, and the other went to the sea to do business to earn a lot of money, and in case they sank in the sea, the other party could support their families and not starve.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This depends on how much you love your boyfriend and whether you can change and pay for him. In fact, no matter what kind of life everyone wants to pursue, in the end, all they need is plain. There is nothing wrong with a stable job, maybe he has already experienced the days of breaking through and wanting to work steadily!

    Make money steadily.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Personality incompatibility is a problem, but personality is not immutable and can be changed, what do you think of other people's things in this world in this relationship, if you can take the initiative to change your personality, give the other party's personality a little understanding, such as sticky, sometimes relaxed, but the other party looks at your sincerity, time will change your heart, this is the process of character running-in, and the breakup is just Tao Yunwenhe.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, what is comfortable in your seriousness? What is ordinary?

    Some people may say that comfort means that you don't need to worry about food, clothing, housing and transportation. So I want to ask, what is your standard of food, clothing, housing and transportation? The standard of a beggar or the standard of a rich man?

    Of course, we must not be able to do without desires, but where can we be comfortable if we are dissatisfied?

    As for the ordinary, what is ordinary? Eating, drinking, and doing nothing, eating and waiting for death to be ordinary is ordinary? Living well is already an extraordinary thing, how many people have been confused all their lives.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's start a business! Starting a business is a wonderful thing! There will be difficulties, but there will also be greater wealth.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your question is so contradictory, I don't know where to start.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You're impetuous, right? In fact, there is no comfortable life except for the deceased

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    And sometimes he is silent, you don't want to be silent with him, it is also a good choice to speak appropriately, for example, when you find that there are some small things or emergencies around you, you can try to evaluate one or two sentences, and then ask his opinion. The chatterbox needs to be opened during daily chats. And when the two of them are alone, if he is very silent, he tries to simply open the topic, and if he can't open it, don't force it.