My parents don t accept my girlfriend, I m so annoyed

How can your girlfriend quarrel with your mother?

Respect for elders is the minimum virtue. It has nothing to do with your family situation. The important thing is that she is a junior and should know how to respect her elders.

Your mother is also her future mother-in-law no matter how she says it, and she dares to quarrel with your mother before she gets married, and she has to pay it back?!

Did you marry a daughter-in-law to make your mother angry? You should understand the principle of filial piety first, right? If something goes wrong, don't look for the responsibility of your parents first, you have to see if you have a problem.

I would like to ask how you and your girlfriend are getting along and whether you think you are a good fit.

Seriously, I think the "right match" is reasonable, but what I mean by the right person is not just superficial, but deeper, such as your thoughts, attitudes to life, values, etc., if you have a very tacit understanding, and feel that each other is very suitable, then why care about height, family background?

If you are simply people from two worlds, it will be really difficult to go on.

In addition, for your parents, the reason why they say things like that and they will think that way is because they have experienced a social era that we have not experienced. Just like my father's generation, he experienced famine, so he cherished food very much, and his family was not poor, but when a grain of rice fell on the table, he would still pick it up and eat it. These are things that we cannot change.

And what you said about the quarrel between your girlfriend and your mother, you have to figure out what is going on, don't just listen to what one party says, take care of both, and at the same time you need your own judgment, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really difficult to sort out.

The above is my own opinion, I hope it will be helpful to you.

What parent doesn't say their children are good or good? In the eyes of parents, children must be the best, other people's children are good and have nothing to do with them, so, your parents may not be harming you, at least the starting point must be good, you have to live with that girl for a lifetime, can you not be cautious? You first get in touch with the woman, get to know her better, and then make a decision how to convince your parents, and her parents' opinions?

You also have to be clear, and when you are all clear, you feel that it is appropriate to make the next step, don't worry.

Your parents are also poor, but they are also for your good. Tell your parents, there is no distinction between high and low, persuade the second elder, you say: I have no ability, it would be good to have a girl willing to follow me, maybe the short will fill in a boy for our family in the future, as long as you feel that the girl is good, you like it, and I will live with you in the future.

Hehe, maybe your parents are afraid that there will be friction in your life in the future if your two backgrounds are too different! Do you think about it, did your girlfriend do anything to provoke the second elder? In fact, the most important thing is how you get along with her!

Your girlfriend's personality matters! Looking at what you wrote, I think you are very partial to your girlfriend and hate your parents. Parents may have their reasons for doing this, and you can try to communicate with them!

As long as you two can get along!

Whether to go to your girlfriend's house to accompany you must ask for the woman's advice, if the girlfriend clearly says that she doesn't need to go, she won't go, and if she says she needs to go, you can prepare gifts. The gifts are as follows:

1. Zongzi or traditional festival food: Go to the woman's house to visit during the Dragon Boat Festival, and it is a very appropriate gift to send zongzi, but it should also be taken into account that most of the zongzi are made of glutinous rice, lack of fiber and high viscosity, and are not easy to digest.

2. Handicrafts: When you go to the woman's house during the Dragon Boat Festival, you can buy some exquisite handicrafts in advance according to the hobbies of your father-in-law and mother-in-law, such as wood carvings, vases, calligraphy works, paintings, etc., which can decorate the home environment more beautifully and reflect your mind.

3. Household appliances: When you go to the woman's house during the Dragon Boat Festival, you can send some practical household appliances to your father-in-law, such as washing machines, dishwashers, vacuum cleaners, etc. The hot summer is coming, and you can also install an air conditioner for your parents.

4. Health care supplies: When you go to the woman's house during the Dragon Boat Festival, you can bring some health care products or nutritional products to your father-in-law and mother-in-law, such as some Chinese herbal medicines, or calcium tablets, etc., send a humidifier to prevent asthma and purify the air, and send massage chairs, jacuzzis, etc.