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Because people now live a life of subsistence and clothing, which is too easy than before. In the past, when I didn't eat or sleep well, people lived in fear every day, and their brains were full of blood. Actually, we're pretty much the same, and it's easy for me to think about it.
Although we can't change this era, we can change ourselves. When you are cranky, you go out and take a walk, look at the world around you, look at the surrounding environment, look at the flowers, look at the grass, look at the trees. A blue sky, clear white clouds, low-flying birds, faint meadows, everything is so peaceful and beautiful.
You also have a girlfriend who likes you next to you, and you try to imagine again, the current population ratio, out of balance. You have a beautiful woman in your arms. Don't you feel so happy?
So cherish the beauty in front of you!
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Maybe it's because at the end of the year and the beginning of the year, everyone will be nostalgic and want to be together again, and there will be opportunities after graduation.
There is also too little communication between you and your girlfriend, since it is your girlfriend, talk to her if you have any troubles, she will understand you and accompany you
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It's normal to feel this way, it's okay.
In fact, in this era when we don't have to fight and don't have to worry about food and clothing, our inner emotional problems are increasing day by day, and we often feel empty in our hearts, empty heads, and empty hands, and we always want to talk to someone, or want to stay by someone's side
Is it true that girlfriends can't make friends? Is it because you are not sincere enough to find out?
The former classmates are all going their separate ways, and they don't have anything by their side? If the desire is really strong, then give them a ** or get together together.
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Change girlfriends. She's not what you want.
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Hello, most people feel insecure because of their own family environment, lack of parental care since childhood, developed a relatively autistic mood, coupled with the day after tomorrow because someone or something is hit again, it is easy to lose confidence in life. Fear of being alone, but not daring to trust anyone, this is very contradictory, you need to give yourself a little confidence, but also give others a little trust, try to slowly accept the friends and family around you who care about you. It's best to take your time, socialize with others more, and get used to getting used to getting used to it, I think most people feel insecure for a reason with their own family environment, lack of parental care since childhood, develop a relatively autistic mood, plus the day after tomorrow because someone or something is hit again, it is easy to lose confidence in life.
LZ is afraid of being alone, but he doesn't dare to trust anyone, this is very contradictory, please give yourself a little confidence, but also give others a little trust, try to slowly accept the friends and family around you who care about you.
Again, the insecurity you mentioned seems to have a lot of most people, curled up, like black and white, innocent smile, go to bed late, cold war, don't like to talk, put your heart in the most tender place in your heart, wear clothes without pockets, you don't know where to put your hands, eat a lot or don't eat: always like the same place: eat always do the same place in the restaurant, miss the old, hug your arms, afraid of the dark, I have these, I believe many people have, don't think so much, others have not lost confidence in you, Don't lose confidence in yourself, you're like most people.
Like to talk to yourself, like to role-play, that's because you're so lonely, what about your friends? Didn't you? If you don't have it, look for it, and if you have it, talk to them more, friends, often the people who can tolerate you the most.
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I don't know if it's because I need soulmate because I'm lonely or if I need soulmate, but I can't get it.
Come on, in fact, everyone's life is not easy, and there are things to get married when you get married. Don't have too many good expectations for the days when you are accompanied, which will make it seem sadder and more difficult to be single.
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You are timid! It's time to practice your guts.
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I want to find someone to accompany me, but I can't find it, right?
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Hahaha, you're lacking love.
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The first is to treat troubles correctly. Trouble, like happiness, is just an experience that will disappear naturally or for a lifetime. That is, the affliction is changing, and if you despise it, it will disappear; If you value it, it breeds more troubles.
The second is to maintain a peaceful mind. When the external environment cannot be changed, people should take the initiative to adjust their mentality, adapt to the environment, and live safely in the existing environment. The reason why some things in the outside world affect an individual's mentality is that the individual takes himself too seriously.
In fact, people are just like dust, and when society doesn't need you, you can be thrown away as garbage and never see the light of day. When society needs you, it will treat you as fertilizer, soil, or even a treasure to make you shine and enjoy glory. It is to be a big tree, there are also different fates, some big trees live in the deep mountains and old forests all the year round, not known by outsiders, once found by outsiders, they are respected and admired by thousands of people.
The third is to drug the cause and eliminate the root cause of trouble. If a person is troubled by troubles and is in a situation where he is struggling, he must get to the bottom of it. Is it a personal self-inflicted passion?
Or is it that others are entangled in other things and involve themselves? Or do you feel that family, work, society and other factors make you feel that life is better than death? ......Start from yourself, find it out little by little, and then dissolve it little by little.
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Regardless of going **? They are afraid of being alone, so they want to be accompanied, this is not inferiority, this is not dare, they are not used to loneliness.
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No matter where you go, you're scared, you want to have someone to accompany you, and you're a little inferior, maybe you're not brave enough, if you want to find someone to accompany you, then hurry up and fall in love, find someone to accompany you.
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If you want to correct it, you must first develop the ability to do things on your own, and if you succeed in going down several times, you will have confidence in the future.
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No matter where you go, you are afraid of being alone, you want to have someone with you, and you feel a little inferior?
Take your time and try to be on your own.
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From the above performance, it shows that you are very fragile in your heart, you are a person who is afraid of loneliness, and you like to be accompanied, so you must play with your friends in order not to be lonely.
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It may be that you are too insecure, this may have something to do with the environment in which you grew up, or maybe your parents did not give you enough companionship when you were a child, which made you very insecure, and then you are still very afraid of being lonely.
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People have to grow up, so they must learn to go out and get out of the arms of their families.
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This is the case for people who are not very sociable and those who haven't been out for too long. But there is nothing to be afraid of or inferior. With the first time, there is a second time, and when you are brave enough to talk to others for the first time, you will not have such low self-esteem.
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This is normal, people are originally collective animals, and it is normal to want to hug the group, and I also like to go shopping with people, and I don't like to eat and watch movies alone.
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This should be the hottest kind of autism recently, almost 20 out of 100 people have this kind of autism, and they are afraid of being alone in an environment.
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This has something to do with what you experienced as a child. It shows that you have been dependent since you were a child and rarely make your own decisions.
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You may have grown up insecure and lacking friends. That's why your heart is closed, which is why you have the inferiority complex you have now. I suggest you open up to your friends, be bold and get used to it.
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It's not that you have low self-esteem, you're just introverted, you don't like to deal with strangers, just connect with more friends, and slowly expand your circle of friends.
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It may be that I have too little contact with society, but it would be good to have a little time when I started to enter and leave society recently.
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You have an inexplicable fear of the new environment, a little social phobia, you just want to stay in a familiar place and familiar people, it's okay, go out and see more, overcome psychological barriers, this is not a big problem.
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What is caused by the lack of companionship and love from your family, and the lack of security in your heart, you have to talk to your family about this problem, learn to be strong, and you have taken the first step in life.
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I think this is human nature, and you can overcome it on your own, because it is impossible for everyone to have someone with you all the time, and many times you need to do something by yourself.
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This is the lack of friends will make you feel inferior, and you can make more friends in life and you will not feel lonely.
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If you are not very confident and rely on others again, you can strengthen your heart and make yourself stronger.
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You are an introvert. Insecurity. So you will be scared when you go to **. You have to exercise yourself regularly and go outside to do some things alone. Slowly, you will feel that you are bolder, and you will not be so inferior.
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Maybe it's just because you have less contact with the outside world and have a bit of social phobia. You should be bold and go out and communicate with people. It's going to get better.
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That's because you're not independent enough, brave enough, and not fulfilling enough, so you want to find someone to give you condolences, but you're living a fulfilling life, and you're afraid that you won't find the right person?
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When I'm alone, I always feel lonely. I always want to find someone to accompany me all the time! First of all, you have to have something to do, you can read and study, you can draw, you can sing. In short, there is something to do, and you don't feel lonely.
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Then you know that it's time to chat.
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Learn to be strong, learn to be alone.
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The landlord can record all your thoughts in dense secrets, and you can show them to the right person when you meet them.
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Everyone will have their own experience of walking alone, loneliness is to let us see ourselves more clearly, and then protect ourselves, know what we want, and then work hard to fight for it! Come on!
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As the saying goes, people are more popular than dead, and living and healthy can realize our dreams and values. It is advisable to go to the intensive care area of the hospital to see the patients who are stuck with tubes all over their bodies and dying and struggling, and they will feel full of vitality. Come on, come on!
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It's up to you to decide what you want to live
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Enrich yourself and get out of the fog.
Facing the sun. See the light again.
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I'm in your case too, I think it's 1Not very confident in yourself, not very sure 2Lack of spiritual pursuit, no goal 3There is no normal social circle.
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Accustomed to relying on friends, that's all.
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It's normal, everyone is lonely and seeks a comfort.
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This is a sign of insecurity, you can try to find some travelers to go out and have more fun, make more friends, and exercise self-control, so that you can become more optimistic, and you will be more able to make friends with people and get along with friends. Relationships between people need to be kept fresh, so don't feel that your friends don't need you, and you can usually go out for a meal and chat when you are free. When everyone sees your sincerity, cheerfulness and optimism, everyone is naturally willing to revolve around you.
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Uprooting, low wages, lack of popularity, loss of dreams, and despair are understandable and unforgivable.
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Like you, I'm scared of a space, I'd rather walk around the road alone and watch those cars drive than go home alone, and I feel scared at home alone, and that feeling is suffocating. I was curious to know if that was a sign of depression.
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It may be that you are too depressed and helpless for a while, try to communicate with friends and family more.
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Change your mindset and participate in more sports will make you more confident and sunny.
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You can actually live a good life alone, why rely on someone else's.
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Hello! If you like someone, you will always think about the other person, and you will feel happy! That's love! Thank you! Can you send me an adoption? Happy New Year to you!
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Like a person, as the name suggests, is to understand each other by any means, and like to be accompanied by someone, you can know it by feeling.
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One meaning is that the person you like wants him to be by your side, isn't that the truth?
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If you like someone, you will think of her when you do something, and then you will think of her often!
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