How do you get through the days when you just broke up?

Make a list of all his faults, write all your grievances, and when you hate someone enough, you will never think of being with him again. Disgusted enough with him in your heart, it is a shortcut for you to get rid of him as soon as possible. Because you still remember his goodness and are still reminiscing about the beauty of previous love, it is difficult for you to get out of your world.

A lot of times, you just can't afford to forget.

Although the days after the breakup are very painful, I comfort myself that as long as time does not stand still, there is nothing that cannot be passed. It's been more than three years since we were separated, and I'm fine now, I've found my own happiness, and I hope he's the same. We don't have much hatred, we can't be together just because we don't have fate, we don't regret knowing him, and now we silently wish him happiness!

The new love is good enough, and the time is enough. Some people say that forgetting the previous relationship is a slack in the new relationship and irresponsibility for the current one. Moving quickly to the next stage is the best way to forget about your ex, especially if your new love is much, much better than him.

But please don't find someone to fill your loneliness just to forget your ex, I know you're not such an irresponsible person. There is no predecessor that cannot be forgotten, only the current one who is not good enough.

I'm busy enough and my schedule is tight enough. Keep yourself busy, keep yourself occupied, and leave yourself with no time to miss. If you don't have much to do, go on a trip.

Bring your best friends and brothers, and let the beautiful scenery in front of you stop your love for the past. It's too late to miss when you're busy.

After a breakup, you will definitely be in a bad mood, and there is no other way to do what you like, or go out to play or travel. Let yourself feel good and let yourself forget bad memories.

I have always believed that there are many important things in life, love is not all in our lives, some boys or girls, after a breakup, want to die or live, can't do anything, there is no love, the sky is falling, this approach is the most naïve, think about how beautiful life is, how many more important things are waiting for us to do. Do more things that interest you, such as girls can choose to go shopping, beauty, and chat with girlfriends. Boys can ask friends for tea, talk about work projects, put all their experiences on work, set work performance goals for themselves, and turn grief into motivation to make money.

Sports and fitness, it turns out that exercise is the best way to think, many ideas are generated in the process of exercise, we can think about problems while running, think about your future life plan, think about how to prepare for the next wonderful thing. It's all about the way. In short, life is short, happiness is also a day, sadness is also a day, adjust the mentality, live happily every day, let us live a wonderful life!

Breaking up requires a reason, since it is natural for two people to break up if they don't love each other, you don't have to care too much, let alone how to face your future life. What I am afraid of is that people who love each other or have feelings and have to separate, so they can't face the future life! This requires courage, the courage to afford to let go, love depends on fate, since there is fate to break up!

There is still a long way to go in life, so why bother with temporary emotional gains and losses. I saw the clouds and the wind light, and I saw the scenery in life!

We know that since we broke up and can't be together, don't think about whether he (she) will call me **, whether he (she) will send WeChat. Put aside everything and indulge yourself, or a rational person can think about your future plans. Some people do indulge themselves when they break up, but they indulge for too long so that they lose themselves, and in the end the gains outweigh the losses.

There is a time limit for indulgence, one day, two days, and at most three days. After a long time, I hurt myself. In fact, in addition to this, you can find friends to eat, go shopping, and travel for a few days are very good choices.

Get out of the haze of broken love as soon as possible, let the most beautiful self be presented, and meet you.

Breaking up is a very painful thing, especially on the first night. During this time, you may feel lonely, sad, and afraid. This is normal, and you should allow yourself to feel these emotions.

In the meantime, here are a few things you can try to help yourself through this difficult time:

Exercise: Exercise can help you release stress and boost your mood.

Get professional help: If you're struggling to cope with the stress of a breakup, try seeking professional counselling.

Breaking up is indeed a sad thing.

In many cases, the breakup is not a breakdown of the relationship, but also a number of helpless factors, such as facing graduation, family reasons, financial problems, and so on.

How many crazy men and women in the world are extremely entangled because they can't stay together, so sadness is inevitable. However, since it has come to this point, it is better to let go of what should be put down.

First of all, don't use alcohol to drown your sorrows, because it's useless, or divert your attention in some healthy ways to relieve your emotions.

Second, if you can't divert your attention, don't suppress yourself. If you really want to think about it, the more you suppress your thoughts, the more you can't forget them.

Finally, leave the pain of the breakup to time. Time is the best medicine for trauma, no matter how great the pain is, it will become worthless over time, and some things are useless no matter how others persuade them at the moment. But many years later, when I turned my head and looked at it, I realized that it was not a problem.

I couldn't sleep all night on the first night after the breakup, always reminiscing about the experience of being together, always trying to figure out the reason for the breakup, but I also needed to be brave to face it all.

Feelings are really a particularly mysterious thing, and some people have been struggling with how long it takes to come out of love to be considered long-term love, or really love themselves.

This time is really relative, different people have different attitudes towards feelings, and it is difficult to stipulate how long it takes to be true love.

However, through observation, if you really like someone, you will not choose to give up easily. Even if one day is really forced to separate, it will not be easily forgotten. If you really love someone, you will miss each other every day, whether you are together or not, or whether you can be together in the future, but the desire to be "together" has always existed.

If two people are completely separated, they will not find a new partner for at least half a year, because breaking up takes too much time and needs to forget the past, which is not something that can be forgotten overnight. The process is particularly painful, but if you don't go through this time, you won't know if you have loved someone, and if you don't go through this time, you won't know how important the other person is in your heart.

After about a year or two, the person in your heart who really lets go of your heart is particularly necessary for yourself and the new object in the future, and is responsible for yourself and your future lover, in this process, you will learn to comprehend more emotional essence, so that you can learn to grow in failure and will not repeat the mistakes of the past.

Breaking up is an unforgettable thing that many young men and women have experienced! Some people say that separation is a habit, and some people say that separation is a kind of past.

No matter how many things are said, it is undoubtedly painful for people who are going through a breakup! Everyone does things differently when they go through a painful breakup.

Some people smoke and drink alone, some cry and talk to friends;

Some people embark on a journey alone, and some people leave this sad city silently!

Netizen 'Likai': He is my classmate in elementary school, and he has gone through junior high school and high school together, and applied for the same university. Later, when we broke up, I went to the school where I met him and burned all the little notes that had been passed around when I was studying......

Netizen 'Solo Flying Sparrow': It's nothing, I'm the best, he doesn't know how to cherish it, it's good to get through that period of time when he is used to being by his side!

Netizen 'Flowers and Butterflies': When I drank, I thought I could drink and vomit, so I spit out all the past, but I was lying to myself!

Netizen 'stay in Thirteen Months': I have been in love with her for a long time, and she went to work in other places due to work. Originally, she had already said that she would get married the year after tomorrow, but when I was secretly planning a marriage proposal, she disappeared, and she didn't reply to WeChat**, and when she came back, she said she broke up, saying that I couldn't give her the life she wanted.

I compromised, but I didn't tell my parents, I didn't tell my friends. Because I know that when I tell them, they must be angry and must be on my side. If one day she changes her mind, at least my parents won't agree!

So, I pretended not to break up alone, was happy every day, and waited for her for a year, but she didn't come back ......

The Buddha said that if you put two identical oil lamps in front of your eyes and one in the distance, you will feel that the one in front of you is the brightest! But after they are all far away, they are all the same!

In fact, all living beings are the same, the one who once loved is the lamp in front of them in the heart and in front of them! One day the light was gone, and it was dark! As the days go by, you get used to it, so all the lamps are the same!

However, how can people in this world forget except for really suffering from amnesia! It's just trying to fade it as best you can, or hide it in the deepest and deepest part of your heart!

However, no matter how painful the process of falling out of love is, in the end, we will all end up in the same place, that is, to have a warm marriage!