My boyfriend has other women in his heart, can I accept that my girlfriend has other men in his hear

Then calm down, it's good that you have not thought about it yourself, the bits and pieces together, whether there are many things that are not done well with each other, whether they can be changed in the future, if they love each other deeply, they will try to change themselves, let him return to your side from the new, believe in your charm, come on.

Since he has another woman in his heart, I personally think there is no need to be together, even if you are together again because of your love now, the person in his heart will never be you, I am an example, my boyfriend has always loved others, I found out that after he told me that they would break off the relationship in the future, but he was so mindful that I cared about everything about him, until we got engaged, I still didn't occupy his heart, and finally I had to give up, and now I look at him, I still love that woman so much, Even that woman already has a boyfriend, so、Don't be stupid、

The text is written with emotion!

Don't say what you are, think how I am!

When blaming others, look at yourself first! Love needs to be managed. It's not a one-and-done one!

From your text, I only see that you are saying that you have someone else and that he is unfaithful to your feelings!! But didn't say how you loved him? What have you done for him? What can be done? With all due respect, you don't actually love him, you only love yourself!

Break up, or what? Or you cold him for a while and see how he reacts, if he still doesn't react then you should break up decisively, sometimes dragging you will make you more miserable. Of course, if you want to take revenge on him, then you have to live well, so that he can see that you are better off without him.

I suggest you break up for two reasons: 1. I have a problem, I have a bad temper, you can directly say that you want to break up, but it can't be a reason for you to have an affair with other girls. 2. If you let go completely, he can still come back, then he is yours, if you don't come back, then he never belongs to you, there is no pity.

And if he doesn't let him taste the loss of you, he will never know how to cherish you!

No matter how painful it is, no matter how reluctant it is, women, you have to fight for it! Love yourself to love others......

There is also a review of tolerance or breakup.

Anyway, whether you can accept it or not, that's your personal business, someone else.

I can't give any advice at all.

You can't accept this kind of thing in general! After all, love is all selfish.

To be honest, it's certainly unacceptable!

In fact, whether it is a man or a woman, if you really love your other half, then don't say that they have an ex in their hearts, that is, on the occasion of you, they communicate too much with other members of the opposite sex and ignore your feelings, I think you must be uncomfortable in your heart, not to mention that there are other people in your heart!

Some people may say that you are a man, this is machismo, which is unfair to women, but you think, if your other half still has an ex in your heart, and you can accept it, it doesn't matter, does that just mean that in your heart, your other half is not important enough?

I think as a normal person, don't say that your other half has an ex in his heart, just say that they are just ordinary friends now, when they contact, will you feel better? Wouldn't you be foolish? I don't think so, there will be more or less thoughts, jealousy, suspicion, and this will definitely affect the relationship between you.

So if a couple breaks up, then you have to break up completely, don't start the next relationship, you and your ex are still disconnected, I think the last hurt is not one person, but three people, maybe your second relationship will also end because of this!

How to say, as a man.

Of course I don't like this.

Kind of thing.