Urgent!!! I m very inferior, I m ugly, what should I do, I m a boy

It's not that you have a personality problem, but your mentality is not correct, you always feel that you are inferior to others in many places, you have no self-confidence at all, you see others so trendy, and then look at yourself and feel that you are an ugly duckling, and you have low self-esteem and quickly escape from the crowd...

Actually, you don't have any inferiority, you are a sound person, but your appearance is not as outstanding as others, but you can think about where you are better than others, don't always compare your appearance with others, so you can never find your own excellent place, first of all, you have a good mentality, although you are not handsome, but you have a cheerful personality, there are too many people in the world who are less fortunate than you, but others can live the same, you can't live because of this little shortcoming, then you are too cowardly, you are a coward. Secondly, when you see others dressing up, you also want to, then you go boldly dress up, no one will deprive you of your beauty nature because you are ugly, as long as you like it, don't always think about what others think of you, finally, you have to be confident, you are the same as normal people, they can do the same as you, and you have to work hard to do better than them, you have to become excellent yourself, improve your strength, do you think this is the truth?

I think you lack self-confidence, men should hold their heads high, there is nothing to be afraid of.

Get yourself stylish and keep up with the trends!

Try talking about a girlfriend on the Internet, you will talk to someone who is helpful, or call ** to consult a psychologist.

You should improve your connotation, the appearance can only confuse people for a while, the inside is what can stand the precipitation of time, and there is a lyric that sings, although I am ugly, but I am gentle. Many beauties in life end up picking ugly husbands, otherwise Jitai is coming.

The extreme ugliness is also a treasure. A lot of comedy stars are harlequins.

In psychology, low self-esteem is a weakness of character. Low self-esteem, that is, a person makes a low evaluation of his own ability, quality, etc., and always feels that he is inferior to others, pessimistic and disappointed, and loses confidence. In social interactions, people with inferiority complex are isolated, isolated, and inhibit their self-confidence and sense of honor, and when they are belittled, ridiculed, or insulted by those around them, this inferiority complex will be greatly strengthened, and even manifested in the form of jealousy and self-deception.

Low self-esteem is a negative state of mind and a huge psychological obstacle to the realization of an ideal or a certain desire.

How to overcome professional inferiority complex?

Some people have an inferiority complex because of a bad working environment, that is, a sense of professional inferiority. For example, some cleaners, funeral workers, coal miners, and self-employed workers feel that their professions are inferior to those of others, so they are reluctant to talk about their occupations in their dealings with others, and even do not want to report the name of their units or the type of work they work, so as not to be looked down upon by others. The sense of professional inferiority is acquired, and there are both objective and subjective factors.

To overcome and eliminate the inferiority complex in the profession, we can make efforts in the following aspects. First of all, build your own strong character. Whether a person has an inferiority complex in his or her profession has a lot to do with his personality traits.

A person who is plagued by low self-esteem and loses his enterprising spirit is usually related to his cowardly character and weak will, while those who have strong self-confidence and the courage to forge ahead tend to have a more cheerful, bold and strong-willed personality. For people who have shown signs of inferiority, it is necessary to pay attention to cultivating their strong character through exercise, self-education and other methods, and secondly, to learn to maintain psychological balance, inferiority is a mental state that loses psychological balance, to restore this disordered psychology, it is necessary to understand oneself from comparison, according to one's own conditions in all aspects, put forward psychological requirements, and often reflect and adjust one's own requirements in a timely manner, for example, can be such a self-balancing and inclined psychology: recognize that any profession has a special role, Every profession has infinite mysteries, and it is not easy to be competent in every profession, and the regular use of this method to investigate psychology can enhance professional self-confidence and professional sense of honor.

If you are handsome and have low self-esteem, you have no confidence in yourself! What's there?

Is this still inferior, let's be friends.

They all said that they were handsome and had low self-esteem.

Drink more and talk to others.

Inferiority complex, hundreds of people have a handsome person, you do it on purpose???

Why is this so?

Have you thought about it yourself? It should be a good thing, why is it the other way around?

Be sure to praise him, give him a formula.

Ask for a picture, let's see ah handsome guy.

When I was a kid, I thought I was okay, but the older I got the uglier I became. Until one day, I saw a sentence from Bill Gates and I didn't care so much. He said:

The world doesn't care about your self-esteem, people only care about your achievements, don't overemphasize your self-esteem until you succeed, because the more you emphasize your self-esteem, the more bad it will be for you.

I don't think it's important to be beautiful or ugly in this society, as long as you can make money, as long as you can handle things, as long as you don't eat and be lazy, as long as you have plans and expectations for the future, ugly is nothing. If you are uglier than you, how can others live if they are uglier than you.

I'm ugly, but I'm not afraid of being ugly. What's wrong with me being ugly, I'm self-motivated, I'm not lazy, I don't live to show others what I look like, I live to enjoy the beauty of the world. The kind of person who often evaluates others as ugly, 1 has no quality, 2 has no taste, 3 is lazy to do 4, in fact, he lives in vain Those handsome people make girlfriends either by money or by looks.

We ugly people are looking for people who are genuine, and they are much better than them.

Uh, you think it's ugly. I'm the same as you, I think I'm ugly myself, but there are still so many people in the class who like me. You think you're ugly because you still want to be more handsome, in fact, you're already so handsome, there should be so many people around you who like you, but you don't find out, they like you and won't let you find out, because they will be shy.

Don't care too much about what others say and what they say. Maybe those people are jealous of you.

Face is not the most important thing, the most important thing is your eloquence and your self-confidence, and you only need these two things. Who can be perfect.

Medium! Most people do! Why are you inferior, don't compare with those who are very brushy, after all, they are a minority.

So what? Can't you fall in love if you're ugly? Does ugliness have to be abandoned? I'm ugly, it's not just a good life to be myself!

Fortunately, everyone has ugly and beautiful places, but the angle is different.

Dude, just make more money and go to the whole look.

As long as you have faith in yourself, there's nothing to worry about.

Be confident, you're actually quite handsome.

It's okay... Not ugly. But it's not handsome either. You must have the temperament to understand whether you understand or not.

It's not your fault that you have low self-esteem, it's your low self-esteem that is wrong!

The most important reason for the formation of inferiority complex in terms of ideological understanding is that we cannot correctly understand and treat ourselves, so in order to change our inferiority complex, we must start by changing our understanding. We should be good at discovering our own strengths, affirming our own achievements, and not treating others as perfect, seeing ourselves as worthless, and recognizing that others also have shortcomings. In other words, cultivate your self-confidence.

For example, you can try to do this, often remembering the things that you have done successfully through hard work; It doesn't matter if you do something you don't do well, others may not be able to do it well, and if you work hard, you may be able to do it well. Also, pay attention to what others say about you. Everybody always knows themselves through the lens of others, which means that people always evaluate themselves based on what others say about themselves.

If others have a lower evaluation of themselves, especially from more authoritative people, they will affect their own evaluation of themselves and underestimate themselves. Therefore, it is important to take care to capture what others say about you. In fact, not everyone thinks less of themselves.

There are always people who appreciate, know, and understand themselves, and the key is to catch them with their own hearts, and use the good evaluations they have captured as a coefficient of self-evaluation, so as to enhance their self-confidence. A person is a man who is strong in the heart, a strong person in social situations, a person with cultivation and knowledge, a person with good health, if his mind is empty, then he is just an empty shell; A sick and disabled person, if his inner world is rich, is like a flash of light against a dark background, he will be more dazzling and more loved by people. The main thing is to look up to yourself, and then you can hope not to be despised!

Remember that you are living for yourself, not for others to see!!

I hope you can come out of your low self-esteem!!

Personally, I think that the beauty and ugliness of a person's face are related to the person's personality charm, having confidence, living optimistically, smiling more, and being kind to others, I think such a person will make people feel good-looking, even if the facial features are relatively ordinary. Be confident. If you want to change the style of your hairstyle or clothes, you can also do it.

Maybe you're still in middle school, but you're probably going to be able to dress up more when you go to college. What's more, everyone's standards of beauty are different, some people think it's beautiful, and some people may not feel it. If a beautiful woman only cares about her appearance, it is not good if she does not have a good personality.

An ordinary-looking girl with a good personality is more attractive. I feel like I'm more important than I like myself.

Try to be yourself, no matter what others say, everyone's aesthetics are different, as long as you show your best side, you are the most beautiful.

People are expensive and self-aware, since you are fat, start with **, choose a ** method that is effective for you and you can adhere to, buy a scale, weigh it every day, start from the standard weight, when the weight reaches the standard, choose to match clothes, get a hair or something, not to mention that makeup is already very beautiful, I said...

Why bother with other people's words, we don't live for them, we live for ourselves!

Everyone's appreciation is different, it's just that you haven't met it yet.

Don't be the first, only be the only one, and be kind to the great beauty.

There will always be someone in the world who likes you waiting for you.

As a boy, I am very sincere to tell you, girls are beautiful, face height and body shape can not change those things account for less than 10%, will dress up is a plus, as the saying goes, there is no ugly girl, only lazy girl, and then temperament, this is dominated by thoughts, your knowledge, experience, ideas can completely change your facial demeanor, body language, and expressions, I have asked a lot of boys, the main characteristics of the perfect girlfriend in everyone's minds, the facial expression is rich, so it looks very healthy, sunny and psychologically beautiful, Then there is the figure, although the figure is slightly thinner than the temperament, but after all, it shows the most primitive reproductive value of women, so it is better to exercise well and give yourself a good figure, which will give men an unexpected effect.

There is also such a thing as scoring 6 points is not much, think about everyone has a perfect goddess in their minds.

There will be someone waiting for you!

Say to yourself, "I'm good".