In the face of imaginary feelings, how should we choose?

Updated on society 2024-04-03
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In my opinion, it's better to give up. Feelings that don't mean much in the form of fictitious feelings. You can think about a person who doesn't love you, but if you are given a marriage, will you be happy, will you be happy?

    He can give you everything you want, but he won't give you affection, so what's the use of having more money? Some people may look glamorous, eat well, drink well, and live a life that everyone envies, but they don't know that behind this glamorous person, no one can care about him, care for him, everything is her own money that she can't spend.

    In the face of this kind of virtual feelings, if you can accept that you only need material things and don't need love, then you can continue to choose to go on. Some people's three views may not be the same, everyone's pursuit is different, now in this social environment as long as money does not have feelings for people is really too much, they feel comfortable with themselves, what do I want to buy, as long as there is money, it is easy to say, feelings are not important, I don't need feelings in my life, I don't want to make it comfortable, as long as I have endless money, I will live happily in this life, then I think the feelings that are virtual don't matter to them. <>

    But you are a person who pursues feelings, so I suggest you separate them. A marriage without feelings is really very unhappy, even if you have endless money to spend and a lot of material things that others envy, but in the end without you, the other half cares about and loves you, then I think you will not be happy in the end, this kind of feeling, you still choose to give up. After all, in the long-term concept of time, such feelings are just a façade and have no practical significance.

    In any case, everyone thinks differently and chooses differently. So I think it's good for everyone to feel comfortable in the way they like, and to do it in the way that is most comfortable for them. It's good to think you're good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you are facing a relationship that is not in existence, then give up decisively, don't let him consume your energy, and find the one that can give you positive and positive energy, because it will motivate you to grow and will not consume your energy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I am not married, we try to choose to separate, and if we are married and have children, we need to think carefully about whether it is really irreparable.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    We should choose to break up, so that it is fair to both of us, so that two people can find their own happiness again, otherwise it is painful to be reluctant to be together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is best to choose to give up, do not delay yourself, influence others, face the future bravely, and start your own new life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think that in the face of imaginary feelings, we should choose decisively and rationally, and let go and bravely pursue good love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's me who will choose to divorce and live with people who don't love me, I am very wronged, I can't get the care and love I want, why should I wronged myself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is no need to maintain a fictitious relationship, since the other party no longer cares, why bother yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It means that there is the same as not, and the other party's sense of presence is not strong.

    It's nothing. Interpretation] means that although there is a form, it does not work, as if it is not.

    Pinyin】 xíng tóng xūshè ] Source] Autumn "Yashe Sketch Not Also Fast": "Suddenly, I saw that there was an electric bell in front of the door of the house that was round and buried, and although the bell orange ant was set and often did not ring, it was not a fictitious thing, so I raised my arm and wrist, stretched out my index finger, and pressed and poked it on each button. ”

    synonyms] exist in name only, ethereal, nominal and unreal, and do not match the name.

    Not worthy of the name. Pinyin] [ míng bù fú shí ] Explanation] is a discrepancy between reputation and reality.

    synonyms] in name but not in reality, in name not in reality, in vain.

    Antonyms] are worthy of the name, worthy of the name.

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