Should girls take the initiative in love?

Love doesn't seem to have a standard Love can't be measured Love is not a memory A process A result Love requires both parties to invest Tolerate each other Care for each other Love can't be said But it can be described in words Love can't open your mouth But it can make you regret it for a lifetime Love has laughter and tears There are bitter and sweet Love Ups and downs All kinds of tastes Love It's easy to start Breaking up painful Love The process is beautiful The end is not Otherwise, love needs to slow down Love Running too fast will fall Love is like a game of two people and three feet Love needs a little tacit cooperation Love Built in the hearts of both parties Love is not the only life But it is the focus of life Love transcends time and space and age There is no distance Love Let the two hearts be close Close to each other Love makes you ignore everything Love is a nonsensical joke Love can't catch love Can't be caught Love can't be appreciated Unable to feel love Can't be appreciated Love can't be appreciated Love can't be appreciated It exists love but can know its separation Love is only suitable for two people together Love can't be perfect But it always makes people look forward to Love is a kind of happiness Love is a cup of coffee with milk Sweet honey Love makes people powerless Love needs to be blessed Love needs to trust each other Love It's not a game, you don't have to win Love, you have to face it seriously, you have to face it seriously, you have to face it honestly, you don't run away from it, you have to learn too much, you have to understand too little, you can't start over love, it's not a game, love needs a lot of learning, love is hard, it's not easy, it's not easy, only the person in love can experience and bless you.

It depends on your own wishes If you take a fancy to him first, it is better to take the initiative Conversely, if he takes a fancy to you, then it is better for him to take the initiative.

For love, traditionally girls should remain reserved, but love also needs to be grasped, remember.

Happiness is earned by oneself, so it doesn't matter who takes the initiative.

Now everyone is equal in front of love. Girls also have to fight for their own happiness.

In the process of pursuing love, for young people, we should also consider some practical material aspects as much as possible, although the most important thing for two people to be together is to value each other's character, whether each other's personalities are compatible, whether the three views can be roughly close, is also to take into account the basic material conditions of two people, to ensure the normal life of two people, to ensure that two people will continue to love, of course, love is not the ultimate goal we pursue, but we can not ignore, after all, For the vast majority of young people, they are eager to enjoy the sweetness and beauty of love, and they can also have sufficient guarantees for their material life. Some people may feel that they don't like to be joked about in their own world, but the truth is, it is possible for each of us to make a bad impression on ourselves in front of others. Especially in a relationship, the other party is also a person, and it is very likely that he will have a bad opinion of you.

I once saw an example of a girl who had just started a relationship with her boyfriend, and the boyfriend might not spend much time with the girl because of work, and then found out and started saying to her boyfriend, "Aren't you working well too?" The boyfriend didn't care about the girl, and in the end the girl expressed her dissatisfaction.

At that time, the girl must have felt very uncomfortable, but she didn't tell her boyfriend why it happened, and the result can be imagined. Some people will say, I was wrong and I need to change ......But some people will tell her that I shouldn't have done this in the ...... in the first placeIf the girl says this about me in front of you, in fact, the girl just feels that she is disgusted by you and will find all kinds of reasons to refute it, in fact, the girl is also very aggrieved in her heart. Love a person must know how to let go Many people say that love is selfish and independent, love someone, you must think about when he will leave you, then you have to be willing to let go, don't always think that love is unconditional, in fact, love is also a kind of fulfillment, love a person needs to fulfill himself, when a person feels that he has no better choice, he should take the initiative to leave him.

In a relationship, a woman must learn to be moderately proactive, so that the man can understand that your bottom line is **, so that he can know that you can leave at any time.

Some women always feel that if they want to win the other person's heart, they must be very proactive, take the initiative to contact him, and take the initiative to be good to him, otherwise he will leave him.

In fact, the person who will leave you, no matter what you do, he will leave you, because he doesn't really love you, and you are dispensable in his heart, and you should not take such a person too seriously.

More importantly, you have to understand what to do, so that he can understand your good, too active must not be, this will only make the other party feel lucky or you can't do without him, he will only be more unscrupulous.

Take the initiative to shout moderately, not everything has to take the initiative, only by taking a good sense of proportion, can he become more and more inseparable, in the relationship, women do three "initiatives", which will make men cherish more.

Take the initiative to speak out about your heart's needs.

There is a lyric like this: "Don't guess the girl's mind boy, you can't guess it", many women always like to let the man guess, he can't guess that he will be born there for half the weather, which makes both of them unhappy.

In fact, sometimes, you don't have to be like this, you can take the initiative to say your inner needs, so that he understands what you want, instead of he can't guess and can't guess, and after a long time, he will feel unhappy.

As for the matter of giving gifts, I used to think that you had to let the other party take the initiative to guess your needs and send them to your heart, but most of the time it will not be possible.

This doesn't mean that the other party doesn't love you, it's just that some people do not have romantic cells, you have to take the initiative to tell him what you want, he also saves the process of guessing, you will be very happy to receive the gift, and the relationship between the two people will not be affected.

On the contrary, when you don't want to say anything, just let the other person guess, when he loses patience, it will also end the game, and at that point, you can only regret it.

From ancient times to the present, love has been the thing that people yearn for the most and are most unwilling to lose. Everyone longs for true love and hopes to be happy in love, but what is true love? Perhaps, really'Love is never extravagant when you meet each other, as long as you can be quietly by his side, you are very satisfied, and you don't want anything in return, Shiwang just selflessly wants to be good to that person.

Maybe we are not rich, but we are willing to return to our friends and give everything for him. When you meet true love, you will definitely leave the tenderest side of yourself to that person. True love, many times it can't be expressed in words, actions and many small details are more likely to reflect a sincere love.

Perhaps, you have never imagined that you will care so much about a person, and will treat him as the whole and the world, but the moment you meet that person, he becomes the person you care about the most, your world, your everything. You want to spend your life with him and stay with him. True love may be a lifetime when you meet, and there is no one else in your eyes.

A lot of love does not always have results, but true love is that no matter how good or bad the ending is, I will still love you desperately. I'm not afraid of the outcome, maybe it's a good ending, maybe it's a bad ending, but no matter what, I choose to love you. Love is beautiful, and everyone has their own imagination of love.

There is also a tragedy in love, but in the vast sweet love story, it is not worth mentioning. Maybe you have also been hurt in love and gradually disbelieve in love, but please remember that at the right time and place, you will eventually meet true love, so that you can abandon your fears and fight hard.

In love, it is not necessarily the girl who takes the initiative, it should be the girl who takes the initiative.

If a girl encounters a boy she likes, she still has to take the initiative, otherwise she will be snatched away by others, so she will strike first, so as not to regret it.

If it's worth it, you should take the initiative.

In the relationship, a lot of "unfairness" is due to the reason that they love each other, because love often makes people very blind, even if there is a sea of swords and fires in front of them. Therefore, in the relationship, if you want to get your own happiness, then don't always blindly take the initiative, because your initiative is likely to be exchanged for not the gratitude of the other party, but the disgust and rejection of the other party. Therefore, you must pay attention in the relationship, you can take the initiative, but you can't turn this "initiative" into a condition for the other party to look down on you.

Many times we can't help it, the reason is that we love each other deeply in the relationship, thinking that our efforts can be exchanged for equivalent gains. But this is not the case in many cases, and your continuous efforts will only make the other party feel that you are easy to talk about and have no opinions. Therefore, in the relationship, whether it is for a man or a woman, don't take the initiative in particular, because your initiative will not be appreciated by the other party at all.

In a relationship, although mutual respect and support between the two parties is the most important, the most important thing to test the authenticity of a relationship is the other party's attitude towards you when you are in trouble. Therefore, feelings are not as selfless as we see, because everyone has selfish desires, and this is also the case in relationships, and it is difficult to find people who are really good to you, so you must pay attention to yourself and strive for your own happiness in your relationship. Many times, those who are always very active will not only not get the respect of the other party, but will only come with the disdain of the other party.

In fact, the relationship needs to take the initiative, because each other's initiative can inject vitality into the relationship, but if the initiative is excessive, it is likely to be the opposite.

Therefore, in the relationship, you must not be too proactive, because many times people who will only blindly take the initiative will not get the happiness they want at all, and will only become a slave of feelings. And those who have not taken the initiative will occupy a very important position in the relationship, which everyone must understand. If you want to take the relationship to the next level, you must find the common ground between the two parties in the relationship, rather than just blindly taking the initiative.

Therefore, in the relationship, it is difficult for those who always take the initiative to get the happiness they want, but those who have not taken the initiative will cherish each other more, which everyone must pay attention to!

Should girls take the initiative in love, it depends on the situation, if it is worth entrusting, it should be able to take the initiative.

In the past, I thought that girls should be a little reserved in love, but they also have to divide what kind of boys they meet, and if they meet more wooden ones, they still have to take the initiative.

As long as you meet someone you like, it is necessary to take the initiative, and there is no such thing as whoever takes the initiative is inferior.

How to take the initiative in love, but not everything needs to be active, girls can take the initiative appropriately, let the boy know what he means, but don't take the initiative in everything. If a girl thinks about everything for the boy, cooks for him, cleans him, and washes his clothes, then the boy thinks you are good at first and thinks that you are a snail girl, but over time he will feel that all this is so taken for granted, so in love, these trivial things of life need to be done by both parties, rather than taking the initiative to do it. There are many girls who won't confess to boys, thinking that this is chasing back, thinking that this will lower their identity, even if I can't be with you, it doesn't matter if I miss you.

At least I'm in front of you, and I can proudly pretend to be nothing. When you think that the guy should take the initiative to come to you, that person has the same idea as you, he thinks he is not playing, he thinks you have no feelings for him, so the two of you guess each other's dumb riddles, and they all miss it. When we are in love, we are often very emotional, even if it is a little thing, it will be captured by our keen sensibilities in an instant, so it breeds an unusually sweet sense of happiness.

When we are in love, we tend to magnify each other's strengths and weaken or even ignore their shortcomings. For example, admiring your boyfriend's informality and ignoring his carelessness; likes his girlfriend to be obedient and well-behaved, so he tolerates her over-dependence. When we are in love, we look forward to every date, and we will do our homework in advance, carefully plan and arrange, and every time we get along will turn into a good memory in each other's hearts.

When we are in love, we will always do everything possible to please our lovers, hoping to make the other party like us, so we will do everything possible to show our strengths and charms.

I don't think it's right, I think it should be both parties taking the initiative, not one party working alone, if that's the case, then I'm willing to be alone, a girl is too active, in the eyes of boys, it may be cheap, so I think both sides should take the initiative together.