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I am afraid that it is very difficult to really do this. In fact, there is no absolutely right answer to many things, and of course there is no absolute error. Personally, I believe that there is a pure friendship between men and women!
Because people are lonely animals, they need the care and love of others, they need someone to talk to when they are troubled, and they need to have intimate friends (regardless of gender) After all, there are only a limited number of people in this world who can become boyfriend and girlfriend, and there are more factors to consider in romantic relationships than friends. Friends only need to fall in love and get along with each other happily, especially there are many kinds of friends, and they may only need to be good friends with you in a certain aspect. However, if friends of the opposite sex have too close a relationship, or if the relationship gradually changes over time, it is also very likely to develop into lovers.
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I think men and women really have the right to friendship, but this kind of real pure friendship may be rare, and most people approach each other with a purpose. I'm okay with my partner having good friends of the opposite sex, but after falling in love with me, I hope he can introduce his best friends of the opposite sex to me.
Although many people think that there is no real pure friendship between men and women, in fact, there is still real friendship between men and women in real life, and they choose to become friends because the things they like are very similar, and the relationship between two people does not conflict towards the relationship of lovers. I also have friends of the opposite sex with whom I have a good relationship in real life, and I would believe that there is more appreciation between us and no other ideas. And friends can actually get along longer than lovers, because lovers can only be strangers after breaking up, but friends can also be good friends for life, and when there are conflicts, they can be solved and explained more quickly.
You know but not all men and women become friends, they are only group friends, and some boys actually want to become a couple with each other to make friends, but in the process they may be worried that they will be rejected, so they have always chosen to be friends.
In the process of falling in love, I can accept my own object, and I have good friends of the opposite sex, because I think everyone has their own circle of friends, and when we have difficulties in life, in addition to our family, we think of friends. As long as they don't get too close to each other or talk about something more sensitive, I won't say anything, and I won't ask them to keep their distance. But in fact, I also hope that the other half of myself can introduce his best friends of the opposite sex to me, because then we can have a conversation when we go out for dinner or chat or something in the future, and we will not doubt the relationship between them.
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Yes, but too intimate acts can easily go wrong and turn into hyper-friendship.
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There is a good friendship between boys and girls, and in the author's opinion, there are the following: men and women are friends who grew up together, men and women have the same values and worldview, and men and women can cherish each other. The interaction between people, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, in order to maintain a long-term and stable relationship between each other, must be the result of the joint efforts of both parties.
When friends get along with each other, they must know how to understand each other. Everyone is this independent, friends usually because of their own living conditions, can not often contact each other, busy, do not even have time to reply to each other's messages, when the other party is sad, can not be with each other's side, must know how to understand each other, do not rely too much on each other.
To maintain a long-term friendship between friends of the opposite sex, the most important thing is to grasp the distance and scale of getting along. In the friendship between boyfriend and girlfriend, you must figure out your own emotions, that is, whether you have more feelings for each other than between friends. Men and women can become good friends, both sides must appreciate each other, once this appreciation is invested in other emotions, then, this friendship will no longer be as simple as friends, both of you are likely to come together, if you both have no object, the probability will be higher.
Therefore, if a boy wants to maintain a long-term friendship with a girl, he must keep a distance from the other party after recognizing his feelings, and don't let the other party have unnecessary misunderstandings.
A boy is more rational in his external interactions, but it is difficult for him to grasp the distance and scale of his interactions, because he will not be as imaginative as women. Girls care too much about the opposite sex and are prone to admiration, while boys treat female friends as brothers when they treat each other, so it is very important to grasp the distance and scale.
Yes. As long as the people you trust the most know that you are friends.
Yes, of course, there is, pure friendship is a friendship that trusts each other, cares about each other, and is not driven by any interests, and most importantly, both parties can understand each other, tolerate each other, and there are many such friendships in life, but the reason why we can't find out is because we can't be tolerant, and there are two ways to get such friendships: one, wait, and two, from now on, try to be kind to everyone around you, and you will have such friendships.
Of course there is, but very little, because in many cases, boys and girls are not so pure after a long time, especially when they are older, they will always have some ideas, but I have a friend of one sex and we are really pure friendship and there are no distractions.
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