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Don't listen to the guys above if that's what you really think.
That's okay, it's not okay, it has nothing to do with cowardice and so on, this kind of hat is buttoned up to others as soon as it comes up.
It doesn't solve anything.
The crux of the matter is:
1. There is nothing wrong with not getting married, but if the reason is that you don't have to take responsibility, you don't have to make a contribution.
This reason is somewhat premature.
2. The idea of always relying on relatives must be abandoned sooner or later, because people can only live independently.
Only by taking responsibility can we have an independent and complete personality and truly mature.
3. Marriage doesn't have to be as monotonous as you see it if you find someone to spend your life with.
Someone you truly love then you will definitely involuntarily give him or her these things that you are doing today.
It seems like a very boring and hard thing because these things come from love, as long as there is love.
Instead of feeling pain, you will feel content and happiness.
4. If you really don't like family life that revolves around chores and labor.
You can choose to be celibate and do what you love to pursue your hobbies and interests.
5. There is a side of helplessness and troubles in any life Don't think that everything will be fine if you don't get married.
So first of all, we should accept the hard and suffering nature of life, and then create as happy a time as possible.
Hope you can find your way through life!
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May I ask you a woman and a man? If you are a woman, you are naïve. Little girl character. If it's a man, it's a husband. Don't dare to face it. It's impossible for your parents to take care of you for the rest of your life. To understand the satisfaction and repayment. The basics of being a human being.
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No responsibility, no responsibility, you are a man, you are not a little manly (not a man) You are a woman, the secretion of estrogen is too low (no maternal love) If you don't change your mind, you will never be happy!!
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Hehe, I think so too, mom is the best!
It's too weak for a man to say that, it's not that you were forced to marry!
Women don't want to get married because they are afraid of getting old, and it's not naïve to be afraid of becoming the sister-in-law we often see.
It's thinking about yourself, who doesn't want to go away in style.
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When Ziwei and Xiaoyanzi got married, Ziwei said: I thought that marriage was the end of a story, but in fact, it was the beginning of another story.
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Whoever says this will definitely get married. If you make up your mind, you won't say that you don't get married. Ha.
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A person lives well, some people will adopt a child, and some will choose to become monks. These are all options for people who do not get married. People who don't get married, some will live well, and some will die alone.
There are also many situations of not getting married, if a person lives without any burden, then he can not get married, and if a person lives too stressful, then he may also choose not to get married. People who don't get married may end up living alone, because they feel that they can live alone, have no burdens, and don't have to think about others. If he doesn't get married, he may live alone, and then no one will care about him.
What happens to people who don't get married? Some of them will choose to get married, some will choose not to get married, but no matter what, they will have their own lives. What happens to people who don't get married, I think there are a lot of people who don't get married.
They are all doing well, and some may choose to adopt a child and live the life they want to live.
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Like many singles, she yearns for freedom and is afraid of the ties between marriage and children, so she chooses to be single, and she is also like many older leftover women, living a free and comfortable life, going wherever she wants, without thinking about the people and things around her, but this is also what everyone looks like.
But leaving behind all the prosperity, in the dead of night, perhaps only I can experience this loneliness. Whether it is a man or a woman, only a family can warm people's hearts, especially for a woman, life needs to be extended.
About marriage: I saw a movie called "The Leftover is King" before. Sheng Ruxi, a 35-year-old unmarried young woman, has a successful career, but the gap in her relationship has become a topic that her family and friends keep mentioning, and she is facing her mother's constant forced marriage.
Probably every unmarried young woman between the ages of twenty-five and thirty-five can find herself in it.
Tortured by forced marriage, she muttered to herself: Since I was a child, I have always felt that everything can only be achieved with hard work, such as a degree, a job search, a salary increase, and even **, work hard to become beautiful. But how to work emotional matters, in the vast sea of people, where do I go to struggle, and who do I find to struggle?
What I still remember is that in the second half of the film, Mr. Jin has a long shot as his father. She shouldn't have married her parents, and she shouldn't have listened to crazy talk outside. She should think about getting married with the person she likes.
The head is held high, the one is particularly tough, the one is longing, as if he has won. I don't know when that day will come, but I'll stand with her. Because I am her father, she is with me, and I can only be happy.
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There was a good-looking, fair-skinned, handsome woman, who was in her forties when I met her. At the time, I thought she was quite beautiful. It has always been strange why she didn't get married.
Later, I learned that she had always had a boyfriend for nearly 20 years, but this boyfriend was married and had a family. In this way, she missed the marriage. He is currently retired.
It is said that you have a leisurely life. However, it is conceivable that when you are alone at home at night, you should be very lonely when you are alone in your home.
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People who don't get married end up not getting married and have a life of not getting married. It's also quite happy and good to live a single life on your own.
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What happens to the people who get married in the end That is, people who don't get married are prone to loneliness and old age.
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Everyone's ending is different, there are good and bad, so you have no solution to this problem.
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It's not going to be okay, it's not good to make a conclusion about whether you're suitable for marriage for the time being, after all, this kind of thing may just be a judgment before you experience it, so I think it's better to go with the flow, which is also related to personal wishes.
If you know that you are not suitable for marriage, then whether you want to get married, to be honest, you still have to consider many aspects.
may still choose to get married, after all, marriage is not necessarily about finding a partner in the sense of marriage. It can be friends to get along with, respect each other, and become relatives. There are many things in life that will not be exactly what you want, and the same is true in this matter, and it is impossible to say that you completely feel that you will receive a lot of influence from the state, such as the admonition of family and friends.
In a life of complete solitude, you may also choose a new experience. Such a choice can also be the result of a combination of socio-cultural, family expectations and the potential influence of others' travel.
Also, even if you feel that it is not suitable now, and you don't want to get married now, who can say clearly what will happen in the future, after all, people's opinions will change.
Regardless of the choice, marriage is a complex decision that requires careful consideration and deliberation. For those who don't think they're fit for marriage, it's even more important to recognize your feelings and needs and find a lifestyle that suits you. Sometimes, marriage is not something that everyone has to pursue, it is important to pursue the happiness and fulfillment that you really want.
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