What happened to the people around you who don t marry and live alone?

There are some older men and women around me who have never been married, in fact, they can no longer be used, I see that they have already called them uncles and aunts, after all, they are already the same age as my father, and everyone looks at their lives.

I'll just pick an uncle and an aunt to live in, and don't ask me why I don't tell them about it.

My uncle is 45 years old this year and has never been married, and I have known him for a long time, as can be seen from his life:

Advantages: Life is very regular, I am good at health preservation, plus because I am not married, I especially like to read, and I have adapted to a person's life, I am more modest and quiet, always smiling at everyone, and I can't see angry, because I have younger brothers and sisters, so I am not in a hurry, but sometimes there are people around me to introduce, and he is not opposed to the introduction, which is an advantage.

Disadvantages: Sometimes very withdrawn, very much like a person, sometimes stubborn, what advice we put forward is to listen, but no, it may be because I have been alone, I have a little expectation of marriage but a little fear, because many people who chat with him will say how bad the marriage is, it may also be to comfort him that he is not married, resulting in a different view of marriage and many people around him.

Then there is the aunt, forty years old, who is not married, but has been preparing to get married, but has not succeeded until now. I don't know much about my aunt, but I will see each other often.

A little: I have a lot of time, I often participate in various activities in the city or other places, I live alone, sometimes I am in love, I have pets, and I am very well-behaved, I am also a slash youth, in addition to my own work, I have a lot of additional careers, and I also founded some local youth activities according to my hobbies.

Disadvantages: The shortcomings are also very obvious, I don't trust anyone, I want to be a prick, I don't care about anyone's feelings, I do what I want, I can say whatever I want, even if it's in the library or a very quiet place, I will talk loudly, I can't talk to young people, and I think I have a good relationship with many people, <>

Having said that, I found that they don't get married and live alone, the advantages are obvious, the advantage is that they can do a lot of what they want to do with more time, and the disadvantages are even more obvious, I think it may be because there is no marriage and the other half of the run-in caused by the sharp and angular personality, but there is nothing bad, but I don't think more about other people's feelings, and I have been expecting others to take care of their own feelings, which I can't accept a little.

They should also be looking forward to love and marriage, I think.

What about the people around you who don't get married and live alone? When I was young, I lived a more chic life, and when I was old, I was more lonely.

In fact, if people don't get married for the rest of their lives, not only will they be lonely, but they will also have a lot of inconvenience. Because when you are young, you can earn your own money, and you can spend your own money to support yourself, but when you are the oldest and need someone to take care of you, it is not particularly sad that there is no one by your side.

It's really lonely, everyone needs someone to help them in their lives, and find a partner to partner with each other. Supporting each other. Care for each other.

If you have anything to say, you can discuss it together, and if you have something to say, how good it is to be a companion. Why choose not to marry for the rest of your life? That's not going to work.

It's better to find the right person to marry. What a warm thing it is to have someone who cares for you and cares for you. Finally, I wish you happiness.

If you don't get married, you won't be lonely if you have a companion together. But if you don't have children or daughters, you have to die alone.

You won't be lonely for the rest of your life, you can have a lot of friends without getting married, you can get together when you have nothing to do, the world is so big, you can go out and see if you have time, feel different cultural customs, and you won't feel lonely.

If you don't get married for the rest of your life, you will definitely be very lonely when you get old. Because. It is a feeling of happiness and joy for men and women to like and love each other, and after marriage, they care for and tolerate each other, and each other accompanies each other.

has been growing old together, this kind of relationship is a kind of true love is the happiest couple.

Is it scary to be single for the rest of your life?

Because of the unknown, each of us cannot give a definitive answer.

We had to look for references around us. The uncle in the next village, who has been single all his life, did not have the constraints of his wife when he was young, did not have the pressure of raising children, worked for a day, played mahjong for a day, and lived a very chic life.

That year, at the age of 65, he fell ill alone in a cold house, and it was snowing heavily, so he left. It took a week before he was discovered, and the villagers helped him settle the aftermath at will, and no one was sad.

His tomb has no inscription and has never been memorialized.

When there are such real events around us, it will also affect our value judgment of marriage, so we will choose to get married, raise children to prevent old age and die (this concept is deeply rooted in our parents' genes, which is the most valuable motivation for them to get married and have children).

These are the values of marriage for a generation.

However, society has developed into the 21st century. Raising children to prevent old age has become raising children to "gnaw at the old", and death is also another form of life. So, what is the value of our marriage?

If we are single all our lives, what are we afraid of? Afraid of loneliness? Afraid of destitute? Afraid of getting sick?

However, all of the above fears can be addressed with money.

Nowadays, nursing homes are fully functional and have a rich life, so there is no need to be afraid of loneliness.

When you are young, you should plan to do some pension financial management, plus a certain amount of pension, so you don't have to be afraid of poverty.

When you are old, if you are really seriously ill, you can live with dignity if you have money.

Therefore, in the 21st century, it is not terrible to be single for a lifetime, and now many people over 50 years old, they live a very chic life, do what they want to do, travel the world, and do not see a sense of crisis.

They don't have the constraints of marriage, they don't have the burden of their children, and they don't have to worry about anyone, they have a feeling of being a fairy.

A rich single life is really cool, and it will be cool all my life.

Yes, it is very lonely for a friend not to get married for a lifetime, and it is the happiest life for two lonely people to live together, so when you meet someone you like, you must pursue a confession and let the other party know that living together is the happiest.

Of course, when you are young, you can do whatever you want, and you don't care what you want to do, and it's the same when you're old, no one cares, and no one asks you to be lonely to death.

If a person does not get married for the rest of his life, then when he is old, he must be lonely, because when he is old, he has no children that day, and he lives alone, which is really lonely.

Yes, although most of today's children don't live with their parents after getting married, they still have children and grandchildren happy during the New Year's holidays. If you don't get married, you can't be lonely.

People are afraid of loneliness and need companionship, so your lover is the one who will accompany you through your life, so people need marriage, love is not something that family and friendship can replace.

In a sense, people are inherently lonely, and a person cannot be fully understood by others, because no one has the same experience, so it is easy to feel lonely when they are not understood.

No, there are quite a few who are not married.

It will be very lonely if you don't get married, and when you have a child and see the healthy growth of your child, intimate words, your heart is full of hope, and your child is the future.

Absolutely, it's okay to die happily, I'm afraid that I can't die if I'm afraid, it's definitely going to be very painful.

Some people are born with this, and the Bible says so.

Because you don't want to do it, you don't do it. It's enough to enjoy yourself.

Whether to marry or not is only a choice for people, not the way to go.

Sometimes I feel lonely.

I think I will still be lonely, especially when I am older, I will feel very lonely, and I will feel sad to see that others have families and children, and he will feel sad when he is alone.

Yes. A life is very long, and there will always be moments in the process that make you feel lonely, especially when you are sick, and you are especially eager to have someone around you who can take care of yourself, and when you celebrate the New Year, the family of others celebrates lively, and you don't even have a place to go.

People always pursue love and eternity, but they always forget how to maintain and manage their marriage. How many people still stick to the vow they made at the wedding, "no matter what the situation is, always love him as one" When in love, the wind and snow can be expected, and each other is showing all their love to each other all the time, and the occasional small surprise will always move the other party. Once you enter marriage, only firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea remain, and you will no longer talk about romantic surprises.

Because some people don't like the feeling of being bound, there will be more responsibilities to bear when they get married. Nowadays, people have a great reputation, and men need stools, houses, cars, and bride prices. When a woman gets married, she leaves her family of origin to join the man, has children, earns money and does housework.

When I met Ma Bao Nan, it was just a matter of getting worse. As for not being lonely, either get used to being lonely or enjoy being lonely.

Times are changing with each passing day, our ideas are also changing, marriage has not been the standard that determines whether a person can live a good life, from the perspective of idealism, there are many benefits for a person to live a life. For example:

1.One is freer. Your life does not have the trivial daily life of the family, you can do whatever you want, you can cry and laugh at will, you can go on a trip...You won't be tied up by your family, you can live for yourself!

2.You can dedicate yourself to your work. Getting married means dealing with relationships with your partner and his family, housework, taking care of children...These make us have no skills, especially as women, if we don't get married, we can focus more on our careers, work hard to make money, and our careers are more reliable than marriage, and we can live the life we want!

3.Don't worry about betrayal and deception. There is no perfect marriage in the world, and in a good marriage, there will be cracks.

After getting along for a long time, there will always be some contradictions, and then you will be suspicious and guessing, and you will always worry that the other party will do something sorry for you. If something like this happens, you will feel very sad and hopeless.

4.You can always be in love. Without the shackles of marriage, we can talk about more love, we can love as much as we want, we can love boldly, we don't have any scruples, how happy we are!

Of course, I'm talking about ideals, and these are the benefits of not getting married, and now there are more and more unmarried people, but we finally return to reality, before you decide not to get married, have you seriously thought about a few points?

1.You can tolerate loneliness. When other people's families are reunited during the Chinese New Year, you may have no one around you to accompany you, so you can only go alone, after all, your parents cannot accompany you for a lifetime.

2.Think about the future pension problem. When people reach old age, others are full of children and grandchildren, and they don't have to go out to make money to support their families, but you only have yourself, and when you can't walk, you may have to go to a nursing home.

3.Can parents pass that hurdle? The traditional concept of our parents is to hope that their children will be able to start a family in the future, you think that if you don't get married for the rest of your life, can your parents agree and accept?

4.Money matters. If you live alone, you must have enough financial reserves. Because in the event of a major change or accident, you will be under more pressure if you don't have a partner to take risks with you, so be sure to have enough money.

Finally, I would like to say that whether you get married or not is to make your life more comfortable. Once in a lifetime, we have to try our best to choose the way we want to live our lives.

If you don't want to get married, then be sober for the rest of your life! Also, don't make up your mind too early, maybe one day, your fate will come to hail

Of course, you can live alone for the rest of your life without getting married, but any choice will bring both positive and negative sides, and there will be advantages and disadvantages.

A life can be relatively free, and you can do what you like without having to communicate with others. Your world is up to you.

But on the other hand, not getting married means that you are doing something that does not quite fit the definition and regulation of happiness for most people today. Even if you choose a path that is less traveled, it is obvious that you will naturally be pressured by a large number of people, possibly friends, relatives and parents. So you first have to be able to withstand pressure from all sides.

Living alone means that all things in the house, especially moving heavy objects, water leakage, power and water outages, changing roof light bulbs, etc., must be done by yourself. Of course, you can find a male friend to help you or hire someone, but trust me, sometimes it's hard to find outside help for big and small things in life. Especially when you're sick.

Living alone means that you must be financially independent, have a stable or sufficient living expenses to support yourself and even retire in the future.

If you can be clear about the good and bad sides of this choice, and have the courage to accept it, I believe you will be a strong person at heart.