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1.You can see this kind of suffering in life, the impermanence of life, which is the wisdom of your practice in your previous life, and it is sad that many people spend their lives only immersed in eating, drinking, and having fun, and do not care about anything else.

2.Shakyamuni Buddha saw this kind of suffering in life and became a monk to find a solution to face life and death. (See The Biography of Shakyamuni).

3.The Buddha summed up that there are eight categories of suffering in life--- the suffering of birth, the suffering of old age, the suffering of illness, the suffering of death, the suffering of not begging, the suffering of love and separation, the suffering of resentment, and the suffering of the five aggregates. And life after life is endless.

4.The only way to get rid of this kind of suffering is to learn Buddhism and practice and get rid of the six realms of reincarnation.

The landlord didn't find his cherished things.

Your parents worked hard to raise you, should you be filial to them and let them live a good life for the rest of their lives?

Isn't that what motivates you?

Friend, you're 23! It's almost like it's a good old man!

I'm a year older than you, and I've been working for a year. The more you think about this every day, the more you think about it, the more entangled you become, the deeper you fall, and you will accumulate illness for a long time! 23 What a good age, you should be busy with work and struggle, because you have to earn money to support your family and support your elderly parents in the future!

At a good age of 23, you can pursue love, and various material comforts allowed by realistic conditions, travel to see the outside world, play games, watch movies, sing KTV, and play billiards.

People of the same age are struggling, friends are sober and sober, what stage to do something, these questions will have time to think later, you should be carefree and "squander" at this age!

If you are not interested in anything, it can only mean that you are a failure, you don't understand anything, and your ability to adapt to the social environment is not good! You're still very introverted. But friends, people always have to learn to change themselves, to adapt to the environment, because they still have to live!

Isn't it nice to build a house because there are people who want to live in it, and it takes months of hard work to build a house, and then have a warm harbor for the rest of your life? As for ** and the like, if you guess that there will be a ** destruction of the house when you are building it, then you can go and buy a lottery ticket. A hundred years later, the house weathered and collapsed, and most of the owners lived in new nests.

Why do monks see through life and death? Because the monks see through the red dust! I have no concern for this world, on the contrary, through the recitation of the Zen scriptures and daily worship, I believe that there is still a Shakyamuni in the west waiting for him, that is heaven, will become a Buddha!

You can not see through the red dust, or you can not leave home, that is, when you get older day by day, the relatives who are older than you leave one by one, and then your friends of the same generation leave you, and then you are seventy or eighty, and you find that you are left with a widow and a widow, and your children and grandchildren are also happy, what can you not let go? You can go to another world and reunite with your spouses, parents, relatives, and friends who have gone one step ahead of you!

People don't live for anything, just to live. Now that it exists, don't complain. Find hope in despair, and then you are a philosopher.

Many questions need to be answered by your own experience, and you can't understand what others say. You have come into the world with your mission, first you have to find it. It's good to be confused at first, and many people live without wisdom all their lives, which is a pity.

If you have time to read more Buddhist scriptures, the answers you want are in it, the Buddha is the only enlightened person who understands the truth of life in the universe, and the Buddhist scriptures are the method to answer the truth of life in the universe, and the Dharma of the Buddha is reasonable.

Life in the face of the last moment of death of the perception, all things and even our sun also have death, life and death breath instant, in the face of death we should not be frightened and unwilling, to stay away from death to form a good habit of food and animal medicine, we do our best, after the arrival of the destiny of death, we must face death calmly with a smile, like Zhuangzi beating the drum and laughing to send off the deceased wife, born into death, into death The cycle of birth and death is eternal, the cycle of life and death is endless, genes through amino acids or other basic substances that can form complex organisms, and transmit the creatures between the parallel universes, this is eternal life, Maybe I write something meaningful to record the development of human history, or engage in some invention and innovation, which is the real immortality of information transmission!

I've thought about the same problem as you, which is quite scary, but when I think about it the other way, there's nothing terrible, because people are inherently dead, both life and death, and if you always want to die, then what are you going to do? If you always want to die, I think there's a better way to do it, which is to watch more comedies, or talk to friends, and get together. Actually, work is also a good way to keep you from thinking about it, and when I used to think about it, I used to clear my mind with cool water, and then I looked in the mirror and said to myself, I'm the best, the best And then put on a movie that you like to watch, or just watch football, drink beer, and wow! In short, you have to find your own values, ideals, interests, and only then will you not be lonely, you will not be cranky, friends, you have to remember that you are unique in the world, and at the same time, the best and most amazing in the world.

Don't want to die too much when you live, because if you die, you can't want to live anymore.

If you cherish the present, if you are still miserable when you die, it is because you regret that you did not cherish your life and did not live a fulfilling life when you were alive.

I don't feel much fear of dying when I'm old, but I'm disgusted and terrible about the boring, unfulfilled life I have now.

From now on.

Bear down. I don't know if anyone upstairs has ever experienced the death of a loved one.

In fact, it is not easy to be calm.

If you don't want to leave regrets.

Just spend some time happily with grandpa.

Don't think about whether you are dead or not.

You're too cowardly to uh if it's destined to end.

Then I'd rather choose to be beautiful and live to the end!

Actually, you should have hope.

Don't give up until the last minute! You love your grandfather a lot, don't you?

Then guard the love in your hands.

Sit down and pave the way for the miracle of life! Make grandpa happy.

Let grandpa be open-minded.

Fulfill grandpa's wishes, and everything will turn around.

Isn't it? Why do you keep thinking about those things that tend to fail!

Okay, plug your soul.

Plug your passion.

Close your eyes. For their own dear grandpa.

Sing a strong song.

Brave ballads!

I've thought about this question before.

I'm a little younger than you.

I'm not afraid, though.

Why? All men are mortal?

Which heroic figure can live for a thousand years.

Death is not terrible, but the mentality you have to face.

It can be seen that there is something wrong with your heart.

Don't think too much about things, just do everything well, why think so much.

Let's watch more fun things.

Such as Xingye's funny**.

I also always think about this problem, I am afraid of illness, I am afraid of death, I am afraid of pain, it is really painful, I often feel very scared, that kind of fear is really strange, inexplicable, there is no reason at all, sometimes I also think of others dying, in short, it is too depressing, I don't know how to face it. The answers given by the above layers are already very good, and some people have told me that in fact, there are a few people who are not afraid of death, but they are not as afraid as we are, and they are not as much as we think. It's just that sometimes I still think about it when I know the truth, in fact, I just want to say, I'm afraid anyway, but fortunately, I'm not alone.

I've thought about this question before, and I want to tell you how I avoided this idea, because I believe that death is not painful (predestined) is like a person is going to die, his soul has left in advance, death is just a process, so that's it, I know what I said doesn't make sense, it's not that I don't believe in science, because I've experienced it, it's very profound, so I believe that everything exists, it's just that everyone is in different borders! Human death is not terrible!

Die. >?

Is it scary.?Grandpa God brought you into the world.

Will always bring you back.

What is terrible about dripping to die.

I even want to die quickly...>

Although you are not encouraged to act like a couple.

But don't be afraid of death.

If you had been born decades earlier, you wouldn't have been a devil. /?

Call. Death doesn't have to be bad.

I believe in the couple. As long as I cherished the present drop of life.

Be worthy of yourself.

It's not in vain that Grandpa God brought you into the world.

Death is death.!...

I don't know what to say, although I'm scared, just don't think about it, the question I'm most afraid of thinking about is how this universe came into being, what if it disappears one day, I think about this problem, I have a feeling of going crazy, I've been thinking about this since I was in elementary school, I'm really scared when I think about it, I haven't thought about the horror of death! So it's better not to think about something!

Think about it yourself! Everyone will die, don't be sad, you have promoted to school, which is the greatest reward for your grandfather!

Live life to the fullest, maybe at the moment of your death, you don't have any regrets is the best.

The most terrible thing is not death.

But when I left, there was still a lot of things I wanted to do.

It's the last moment to know what you've missed in this life.

So, do your best to do what you want to do the most.

Live well. For those you love, for those who love you, for yourself.

If you don't want to affect your own mood.

Then go take some medicine yourself.

Soon it will be fine.

Won't worry about your exams.

You can also pick up your grandfather below. Believe me.

Rites of passage.

This is the law. No one can avoid it.

The reincarnation of this life and past lives.

It's going to be this way.

Think about your own shortcomings and do it to the world.

Life is like a dream, and people who wake up from a dream are dead.

How to face death, you have to think that you are happy and happy for a day, and unhappy and unhappy for a day, so why don't you open your heart to face the death that will eventually come!

Life is an eternal topic, all living things are alive, and human life is only continued in the endless reproduction, so don't be afraid of death!

The fall of a new star is the birth of a new life! Try to walk the road under your feet now, walk wide, and live in the moment!

Human beings are certainly afraid of death, but first of all, we should understand why we are afraid, because human beings have a fear of the unknown.

Death is uncharted territory. Then, if we understand what will happen after death, we will not be afraid and will face it calmly. There are also a lot of studies on death in modern times, such as some near-death experiments, religion also explains death, people will stay in the body for a period of time after death, according to the different situations of different people, there are explanations in religion, like the folk first seven have been verified, so I won't talk about these.

In fact, death is the destination of all people, but it exists in another way, because it is impossible for matter to disappear, so after death, people just arrive in another parallel space and exist in another state, so there is nothing to fear, so you can face it calmly when you think about it.

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Look at a book bai: The Bible

This is a book full of wisdom. Truth be told, it's very out of this world.

There are very few people who can face death calmly, and so am I, but after studying the Bible, I can face it calmly! Because death is not terrible, and people have no soul after death, they will neither go to heaven nor hell to be tormented by eternal fire.

I'll explain it a little bit here. Our thoughts, sensory responses, all come from the brain, and since the brain is dead, our thoughts and senses cannot function alone. And the existence of the soul must have a mind and a sensory response, right? So, how can a person still have a soul after death?

Ecclesiastes 9:5 says, "The living know that they will die, but the dead are unconscious." ”

Psalm 146:4 says, "As soon as a man dies, his thoughts are destroyed that day." ”

The Bible compares death to sleep, and death is like a person who sleeps so deeply that he doesn't even have a dream. (John 11:11-14).

But there is hope for the resurrection! In the world to come, God will resurrect those of us who have died.

Isaiah 26:19 says, "Your dead will come back to life." Our corpses will be resurrected. Wake up, ye ye who dwell in the dust, and shout for joy! For thy dew is like the dew on mallow ground, and the earth shall raise up the dead to life. ”

In fact, I don't know how to face death calmly, but how many people can face death calmly? Let it be, death is something that everyone must and have to face, so it is the best choice to summon up the courage, be calm, and live a happy life.

"Analects", life and death are fate, and wealth is in the sky.

Tao Te Ching, Zhuangzi, go with the flow.

Diamond Sutra", all appearances are false.

Those who can truly face death calmly must be people who can live, and they must be believers who cherish life. He can live with a calm atmosphere.

Suggested reading: Tolstoy's The Death of Ivan Ilyich.