My girlfriend always likes to chat with other boys, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-20
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Oh, we have to analyze this problem from two aspects, the first is not your girlfriend? He has always been this kind of lively and cheerful, this kind of casual girl, if so, you should let him realize that you are unhappy, or realize that when the two of you get along, you have to have a sense of boundary with others, this is a matter of principle, second, if he is because you make her angry, and then she goes to chat with other people, then this is your problem, you have to learn to use the correct ability to deal with conflicts, you can go to study my column.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Love is a two-way emotional exchange, the admiration of two hearts, the joy of two feelings, and the spark of soul and soul collision. If two people love each other, they don't need to deliberately change themselves to please each other. If she (he) doesn't like you, it's useless to pursue it no matter how deliberately you try to pursue it.

    If you really like each other, it's too late to like it, and you need to be desperate to please them? Even if you move her (him) with sincerity, the feelings you get are a little reluctant, she (he) did not accept you so much, it must be that some of your conditions are not so in line with the requirements in her (his) mind, and you are moved by your temporary actions, but after a long time, if she (he) meets the ideal person in his mind, it is difficult to guarantee that she (he) will not change his mind. But it is often said that:

    I can't live if I give up on her, I love her (him) very much! In fact, this idea is ridiculous, in life, who can't live without it? Without whom, the earth cannot turn?

    Unless you really don't want to live anymore, no one can stand in your way. Usually what we think is the "only" thing is not really true, but we don't look for it with our hearts. True love stems from the heartfelt admiration for each other and is built on the basis of mutual affection.

    Anyone who is crazy about loving others without caring whether he is loved or not, or who only cares about taking and not knowing how to give sincerely, will not end well. How many fateful people will be encountered in a person's life? Those who love you, who you love, all pass by one by one.

    But the only thing you remember the most here is your first love. Experiencing the sweetness of love for the first time is deeply imprinted in my heart, so that the conditions of future friends are all based on TA. Maybe you still have the love letters of the year in your mailbox, every word is hard for you to forget, and when you can't continue to love, you can only turn it into family affection.

    When I see him again, I won't have the urge to do it again. A feeling in the palm of the hand and the back of the hand. What you don't get is the best.

    People are often like this, what they get is not cherished, they pursue a person for a long time and fail to get it, they feel the mystery of it, and they can't see his embarrassment. The heart is always a perfect image. Therefore, it is cherished and precious.

    What do you get? After a sweet love, the transition from the perfect image period to the ordinary. From strange to familiar, and even a few moles on the body, they all say that the long vulture bed is desolate and the wonton is slashed?

    The precious thing about love is not passionate love, but the ability to accept ordinary life. Women will love men 100%, but men will always have room to love, when one day the man said to the woman: you have to keep 30% to love yourself, the woman cried, because this sentence is too late, 100% has already been paid.

    Even if love is gone, life goes on, happiness is always in the future, but fate may be in your hands. Love is a duty, not a feeling; Please don't talk about love easily! Promises, promises for the future, if not sure, then, don't promise!

    Happiness is directly proportional to sorrow! Every love creates a myth, and love is mythical.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    She likes to talk to all the boys, and it could be her personality problem. Some girls have a personality that is more suitable for communicating with boys, or they have a boyish temperament, and they are simple and direct to get along with boys. And this kind of chat is not specifically limited to a certain boy, but is divided by gender, and I prefer to get along with boys rather than girls, in this case, there is no need to worry about it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't like your girlfriend and are always chatting with other guys, then tell him, I don't like you like this. If the girl doesn't accept your opinion, I think the woman doesn't like you very much, or maybe it's too selfish, because there is very little friendship between men and women, most of them are chatting together with a purpose, if the girlfriend insists on this I recommend it, and you consider it separately, then you can also treat him in the same way, you also find. Opposite sex chat.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My girlfriend is always chatting with other boys, and I believe that no boyfriend can accept it.

    You can have a good talk with your girlfriend, talk about your feelings and your thoughts, and at the same time, hope that your girlfriend will be able to empathize.

    Be sure to talk to your girlfriend calmly, tell him, I really care about you, I'm jealous, I really don't want you to talk to other guys, if your girlfriend likes you enough, I believe he can change for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If the girlfriend is always chatting with other boys, this is called ambiguous, such a girl will give people a sense of insecurity, you can open up with your girlfriend to talk, if she can't control this behavior, you can consider breaking up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Patience. If you really like her, you like it so much, you can't bear it, then you choose to be patient, and the result of patience is that every day's mood will be more tangled, helpless, and painful than the day before. 2. Give up.

    There are two ways to give up: one is to give up actively, and the other is to give up passively. Voluntary Waiver:

    Long pain is better than short pain, you choose to turn around gorgeously, leave in style, and still leave yourself with enough dignity. Passive abandonment: That is, one day she likes another man, or something happens to another man, and then she takes the initiative to give up on you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Girlfriend always likes to chat with other boys, I think there are two possibilities, the first possibility is that you are a person who is not very good at chatting, may have fewer words, and your girlfriend is indeed a more cheerful person, there are many topics to talk about, he can't talk to you, can only talk to someone else The second possibility is that you don't chat with him, then he can only find someone else to talk about what he wants to say. Either you take the initiative to join their conversation, or you act as if it's not the same, after all, you don't talk and don't let others talk about it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Chatting is the embodiment of the desire to share. When she prefers to talk to someone else rather than you, she may not like you as much.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A: You can talk to your girlfriend about your opinion and express that you don't like the situation and want her to consider her feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello, my girlfriend always likes to chat with other boys, that's because this girl has a little bit of eating in the bowl, but also looking at the meaning of the pot, although he and you are in a relationship, he may be thinking about whether the next one will be better, may have to keep a distance from you at any time, I think if this is the case, you need to talk to him well, since it's in love, there is already the other half, don't chat with the opposite sex casually, It's something that everybody understands.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your girlfriend loves to talk to other guys, so you show your mind. It's you who tell him, it's a formal communication, that is, you don't mind him communicating with other boys. If there is a problem, you just communicate.

    But I don't think it's necessary to stop it if it's a very normal communication. After all, although your girlfriend says to be with you, she also has her own circle of friends. If your girlfriend is talking to someone else, she is also keeping her distance, I think it's okay.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Girlfriends always like to chat with the opposite sex, you have to communicate well, if it's just an ordinary friend relationship, it doesn't matter if you chat with others, as long as he really likes you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Talk to your girlfriend straightforwardly, tell her that you will be jealous and sad, that you don't like her to get too close to other boys, talk too much, and show your attitude.

    Of course, you should also give your girlfriend her own privacy time appropriately, reserve your girlfriend's social circle, as long as it is within your tolerance, you can accept it appropriately.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If it's just a simple chat, it's just one of his preferences, and you don't have to care, because in his inner world you are her boyfriend, and he won't care about you because of chatting.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can clearly express your dissatisfaction with his approach, and if he still insists on going his own way, then you can choose to break up, because he doesn't care what you think.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The girlfriend is always chatting with other boys, so you can tell him that this is not right, and you need to chat with the person who is the boyfriend can accompany her.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your girlfriend always likes to chat with other guys, you can directly show him your attitude and tell him that you care about this matter, let him consider your feelings, if he still doesn't consider your feelings like this, and you can't accept it, then you can only break up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Your girlfriend always likes to chat with others, and for you, you may not have a common topic with him, so you should find a common topic and talk to her more, then she likes to chat with you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Well, that might mean he's boring, you usually have to spend more time with her and care about him, so he won't talk to other boys.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Girlfriend always likes to chat with other boys, at this time you should be a little jealous, you can say it, let the other party know your mind, this is better, he will control his desire to chat with others.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is definitely not normal for a girlfriend to talk to another guy a lot.

    This kind of thing is completely unacceptable, love itself is two people who trust and understand each other to make love last, if you do this kind of thing, you don't take each other to heart at all.

    My love is very perfect until the end, precisely because I treat this love equally. Cons and my friends and I can talk about the world and each other in this love, and the love of growth will have a perfect ending.

    If there is really such a girlfriend in love who often chats with boys every day, as long as the following points are maintained, there will be no conflicts between the two people, and the relationship between them will be more stable.

    1. Protect your privacy.

    When girls are chatting, they don't want to tell each other their personal privacy completely if they have a feeling, which is a respect for their friends. At the same time, don't tell the scars of your love to strange boys, even if you are closest to yourself, you must keep a little secret. As long as you can do this, you can completely maintain your love, and you will not be hurt by the outside world, and at the same time, you will not let your personal privacy rent be completely chaotic.

    2. Make the chat public.

    If a girl can do this, it is to put her trust completely in love, and she will not leave a little secret to her boyfriend at all. When chatting with a guy, you can let your friends know about this process, and don't leave a little privacy, because this is responsible for your own feelings, and at the same time, it will not hurt your boyfriend.

    Love is inherently selfish, if a girl talks to another boy every day, looking at it from the other person's point of view will reveal the truth, and if you want to make your love last long, you should be honest.

    In love, sometimes girls are better off not doing this kind of thing, because some boys are very jealous of this kind of thing, and they don't like to share their love with others, and they don't like their girlfriends to chat with other boys.

    Girls think about the consequences of this, since they have stepped into a feeling of companionship, don't let yourself have an external heart, and when you are single, you can't compare, because it is two people's things that must be taken care of and understood by each other, in order to work hard, and finally there will be a perfect love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A lot of men look gentle and clean, so this kind of man is very popular, and there are many girls who want to talk to this kind of man, or have further development. If a girl is in a relationship with such a boy, then the girl will face trouble, and this trouble is that her boyfriend is very popular, and many girls like to chat with their boyfriend. So what should I do about a lot of girls who like to chat with my boyfriend?

    Here's what I think:

    1. A guy chatting with a lot of girls, there must be something wrong with this guy.

    No matter how popular a guy is, even if there are a lot of girls who want to talk to him, when the man shows that he has a girlfriend and doesn't want his girlfriend to be jealous, then these girls will definitely not talk to the guy again. So when a guy is going to talk to a lot of girls, there must be something wrong with that guy.

    Second, when you face your boyfriend and always talk to other girls, you can give a warning.

    If you are very angry that your boyfriend is constantly talking to other girls, then you can explain the matter directly to your boyfriend and hope that your boyfriend will stop talking to other girls. When you give this kind of warning, the guy who really loves you will definitely restrain his behavior.

    Third, it is indeed more troublesome to be with a boy who is very attractive to girls.

    Because there are not many high-quality men in this world, if a boy is better among boys of the same kind, then this boy will be very popular. It's really troublesome to be with a guy who likes girls very much, but even so, girls should not wronged themselves and express their demands clearly.

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