My husband always beats me, what should I do, my husband always beats me, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-12
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    This husband either lacks social experience and appears tender, or his quality is not high and he goes to school less.

    Usually a wife should not say to her husband, "We should sit down and talk" because men hate such conversations, but if you don't talk to her about how to be a good husband, he may not realize that he is making a serious mistake.

    Find a peaceful day, it's best not to talk to him after dinner, as a husband, you should take care of your wife, let your wife live a comfortable life even if she is not rich, it is a man's duty, tell her that you are not here to be his punching bag, a good relationship between husband and wife needs to be maintained by both parties, not to swallow the anger of one party in exchange for unfair peace, and tell him that a man beating a woman is a sign of incompetence at any time.

    Don't be tough when talking, take out the softness of a woman to resolve his possible anger, if you accidentally quarrel, because it's not night, so you can use the time after dinner to make up for it, don't quarrel with him, because arguing will only make things worse.

    Even if the conversation is overturned this time, I believe that he will consider your attitude in this conversation in the future, and then restrain his bad attitude towards you.

    In short, whether it is a man or a woman, arguing with a crossed waist is never an attitude to solve the problem, and it is reasonable not to raise your voice.

    If you are gentle with him and he always hits you more than 3 times, then you break up with him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's get a divorce! This phenomenon is not developed in a moment and a half, it is in the bones, and it will only get worse and worse over time

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Leave decisively, don't expect him to change. You are still young, and you will meet someone who knows how to love you better.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Try to stop him from hitting you again, and if necessary, call someone to stop the situation. Resistance is also a must. If you really can't do it, go back to your parents' house first!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not easy to start a family, and it's certainly not possible to avoid some small friction in the lives of two people with different personalities, but I think it's prudent to beat people.

    1. A man who beats his wife will always beat his wife, because he is a person who bullies the weak and fears the hard. Unless you are divorced and marry a bad old woman. No one dares to bully a woman who is harsh in stockings.

    2. Seriously, a man who beats a woman can't be forgiven for the first time. I used to forgive constantly, so I suffered a lot of losses. My advice is not to forgive. The country is easy to change, but its nature is difficult to change.

    3 , it doesn't matter if the husband beats the wife or the wife beats the father !Even if we have done something wrong, we should not do it, and there is a way to solve everything, and it is not a way to solve the problem, but it will only make the feelings of the two people drift apart, and there is only a peaceful solution.

    4. It is normal for husbands and wives to fight against each other, but the man who beats his wife is incompetent. You don't expect him to change in the future, he beats you because this is the only way to make him feel his own authority, the only way to control you. It is not for nothing, so that he can learn to respect you and communicate very well.

    5. Give him another chance for the time being, and if he does it again next time, you should not be attached to him. If he really loves you, he won't hit you again, and a good man shouldn't hit the person he loves, it's too late to hurt! And it's also very important to have self-esteem in front of men, and if you think you're right, don't say it.

    If you still love your father, give him a chance and smile tactfully every time he loses his temper and hits someone. He will be very unkind and guilty. It is not easy to build a family, and it is better not to give it up if it can be recovered.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. A man who beats his wife will always beat his wife, because he is a person who bullies the weak and fears the hard. Unless you are divorced and marry a bad old woman. No one dares to bully a woman who is a cruel woman.

    2. Seriously, a man who beats a woman can't be forgiven for the first time. I used to forgive constantly, so I suffered a lot of losses. My advice is not to forgive. The country is easy to change, but its nature is difficult to change.

    3 , it doesn't matter if the husband beats the wife or the wife beats the father !Even if we do something wrong, we should not do it, everything has a solution, and it is not a way to solve the problem, but it will only make the feelings of the two people drift apart, and there is only a peaceful solution.

    4. It is normal for a husband and wife to spear and shield, but a man who beats a wife is the only one who can hold it. You don't expect him to change in the future, he beats you because this is the only way to make him feel his own authority, the only way to control you. It is not for nothing, so that he can learn to respect you and communicate very well.

    5. Give him another chance for the time being, and if he does it again next time, you should not be attached to him. If he really loves you, he won't hit you again, and a good man shouldn't hit the person he loves, it's too late to hurt! And it's also very important to have self-esteem in front of men, and if you think you're right, don't say it.

    If you still love your husband, you give him a chance, and every time he loses his temper and starts beating someone, you give him a gentle smile. He will be very unkind and guilty. It is not easy to build a family, and it is better not to give it up if it can be recovered.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Husbands should call the police when they hit someone. Where domestic violence or abuse of family members is committed, the victim has the right to make a request, and the residents' committee, villagers' committee, and the unit to which they belong shall dissuade and mediate. Victims have the right to make a request for ongoing domestic violence, and residents' committees and villagers' committees shall dissuade them; The public security organs shall stop it.

    Where domestic violence or abuse of family members is committed, and the victim requests a verdict, the public security organs shall give administrative punishment in accordance with the provisions on public security administrative punishments.

    Article 15 of the Anti-Domestic Violence Law of the People's Republic of China: After receiving a report of domestic violence, public security organs shall promptly dispatch police to stop domestic violence, investigate and collect evidence in accordance with relevant provisions, and assist the victim in seeking medical treatment and evaluating his injuries. Where a person lacking or limited civil capacity is found to be seriously injured as a result of domestic violence, faces a threat to his or her personal safety, or is in a dangerous state such as being left uncared for, the public security organs shall notify and assist the civil affairs departments in placing the exhumant person in a temporary shelter, aid management establishment, or welfare establishment.

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