The entanglement and helplessness of the year after graduation, as well as the depressed experience

Don't worry too much, everyone has to lie down when they go from student to society, the difference is only at what stage and where to lie down. You have already felt it in the establishment, but don't forget to take care of the industrial and commercial taxation and public security in business, and deal with the boss, colleagues and competitors when entering the enterprise. Many things, indifferently, have passed.

It's really not good to do business. If you are not very good at business, start a small business first, and don't be afraid of being embarrassed by yourself. I'm in the clothing business, and if you want to do this, we can discuss it, and I suggest you do something business according to the needs and characteristics of your place.

Be a man on your own.

That's the way it is in today's society, and I've been in a similar situation.

Let's get used to it. No matter how much you give gifts, it's not as important as your own strength!

I'll say one thing anyway: it's better to prepare yourself for the exam than anything else! It's better to rely on nothing than on yourself!

The reality is indeed very impatient, there is a pursuit to put into action, I am the most reliable, motivation and dreams let us all move, come on, I am also a normal university, work together, I am going to be a freshman!

Those who rely on themselves and rely on trusts to enter in everything may not have a good time in the future; Only when you are really talented and learned to win it will have a clear conscience!

That's how society is! It's better to rely on yourself than to rely on heaven and earth!

Now that's it, there's no way, it's hard to ask for someone.

It's better to work your own, looking for a job is the back door of the relationship, but it's not all, as long as there is one percent or even one thousandth of your own ability, then we have hope, work hard to break in, and still rely on yourself in the future, come on!

I also want to ask, what kind of backdoor experience did you take the test? Public servant?

Only you can be relied on.

You can take the civil service exam, or you can try to change jobs, but it is better to take another certificate, only the English level 8 certificate is likely to be a teacher.

You work in your hometown, at least you don't have the pressure to provide for housing, right? You try it in a first-tier city, the salary is high, but you can't afford to buy a house for a few lifetimes. If you're not afraid of stressful life, you might as well try it while you're young. The outside world is wonderful, but it's actually very helpless.

I think you, you can find someone to substitute for you, you go outside to try a new life, let you say that I don't want to be a teacher anymore, facing graduation...

Like you, I graduated last year and have been working for almost a year now.

It has completely transitioned from the life of a student to the life of a worker.

In fact, to be honest, whether you are happy or not is not decided by others, but by yourself. Life looks dark, and when you can't see hope, your psychology will be very depressed, like an inflated balloon, which may burst at the slightest touch.

How to say it, I personally feel that the solution is not to always reminisce about the pain of the past, maybe this time in school is not very wonderful, so try not to think about him, we graduated, and it is a new starting point, and school life has nothing to do with us. All we have to do is work well and create a great future.

As an adult, we need to control our emotions and try not to let others see you, even if you are really in pain.

In general, no matter how good the student days are, they are only in the past, and no matter how painful they are, they are still in the past. What we have to do is not to remember it, but to say goodbye to him and take a new step, a step towards a beautiful and happy one.

Find out what makes you unhappy, and then ask your trusted elders or older friends to listen to other people's opinions.

Being out of society means that you are already an adult, an independent individual, and you are responsible for your own actions.

Who doesn't have that temper? That's how I was at first.

When I was in a bad mood because of others, my friend told me that it was a dog that bit me, do you still want to bite a dog?

If you want to learn to adjust your mentality, otherwise you will be easily eliminated by this society.

It is already good to realize that I am not good and willing to change, and I believe that LZ can be self-reliant, help me get out of the negative side, learn to find beauty, and be good at finding my own happiness in a plain and realistic life.

Actually, you can try to divert your attention and read some books. The key is to understand that there are many things that you can't control, as long as you are satisfied with your own will, and don't care about other people's opinions.

The personality is too introverted, so it is recommended to chat with people more.

If you have a bad mentality, you have to change it yourself, and no one will help you.

Hehe, it's like this when I first went to work, no matter what unit I just came to work in the unit, a group of post-60s Can you imagine my depression Now that I'm adapting, I'm very grateful for the days when I first came in, I learned a lot, and I have gained a lot of social experience.

You said that you didn't learn anything, that's because you don't care, how to pick up**, how to send and receive documents, upload and distribute, organize meetings, observe words, and get along with people, you don't have to learn anything, of course, you can't learn anything, you are still young, and it is understandable that you are white-eyed, but you must learn to experience with your heart, do things with your heart, and soon you will be at ease.

I feel that since your parents have sent you to a public institution, you should do it well. Maybe you've just graduated and feel like you should struggle for something or something. But it's not so easy, you can have a better job now, and there must be many people around you who envy you, and public institutions are like this, very idle.

But even though it's a place to keep idlers, you should also learn how to survive in a public institution. Hopefully, what I've said will give you some references.

If possible, you can take a month off work to interview for a job on your own. Only when you have experienced different lifestyles and compared them can you know what you want.

If you are not a genius, many of them will be boiled out slowly.

A long-distance relationship will indeed be very bitter, the key problem is not here, you don't study and she has studied in college, your knowledge accumulation, the vision is completely different, even if you are infatuated, it is difficult to ensure that there will be no change of love, this change is not what she thinks, but objectively it is very likely to happen. So, I think you can read the second batch of sports, even if you are not in the same city, you can still watch her! It's like you said to stay in your hometown and see her.

You don't have the kind of estrangement I said with her when you study. Because, the salary you are working for a year now is not high.

Emotional things are very delicate and unpredictable You can only say that you try to protect yourself I see that you like that girl very much But sometimes For example, "She comes to me 3 times a month" You are looking for psychological comfort But the girl will be very tired She doesn't say it now It will still be uncomfortable in the future You can't look at her too closely Sometimes things must be reversed Anyway, it should be better if you continue to study now After all, you have to thank you for the choice after your grade has come up.

People should not put their whole self on one thing or one person. You can love someone very much, but there is no one who is who is all.

If I were you, I wouldn't go to college. I will work hard for my career and make a name for myself. Then it is unlikely that she will leave you. For men, career is a favorable support for love. Even if he leaves, what can he do, and a successful man is afraid that he won't find a good girl?

If you love her, please believe in each other, you must hope to give your girlfriend the best material conditions, if you spend seventy or eighty thousand yuan to play for three years in order to accompany her for three years, I think that you don't trust your girlfriend, that is a kind of surveillance in disguise, if you treat each other sincerely, you should have enough trust to give her free space to develop.

I don't think it's interesting to go to accompany the study, if this love can stand the test, no matter what you are in, it should be okay, if you go to accompany the study and then it doesn't work, it's very depressing, if you don't go to accompany the study because of her reasons, it doesn't work out, it means that she is not worthy of your love.

Let's go to work first, as you said, it's not interesting to read like this.

You should believe her, I believe that your relationship can withstand the tempering of time and space.

You can trust her, the two of you communicate more, and you usually care more about her! Do your best to preserve your relationship.

I want to ask, why don't you go to the 2nd batch of sports.

Live simply, don't be depressed.

Don't be too yourself, this should be a process that must be experienced to grow up, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed, tidy up your mood, set goals, work hard, and believe that you will mature.

Don't think too much about it, just be happy.