Urgent need for answers: Help me, my girlfriend won t come home with me, I ll kneel for her

Updated on society 2024-05-01
56 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You are really ashamed, not only yourself but also your parents. And it threw away your dignity in front of your girlfriend. The dignified seven-foot man actually knelt down again and again.

    Don't you think it's very....Remember that you are a man! Doing this will only make your girlfriend determined not to go back with you. She's not the only one in the world, and you're going too far.

    Think for yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is selfish and great. Aren't many touching stories about willing sacrifices for the people they love? There is nothing wrong with your actions, and there is no shame in your actions.

    Maybe it's the marriage of the previous life, maybe it's the fate of the next life, the mistake is to meet in this life, and it will only add a fruitless grievance.

    Maybe the fate of the two of you has ended, so don't force it. She may have other reasons for leaving you, and you can't blame anyone who is right or wrong, and don't blame anyone for not cherishing anyone. After all, leaving is leaving, but our lives still have to go on, so don't think too pessimistically.

    If you want to open up, tomorrow's sunrise is still very beautiful. The days will be better in the future, and the one who belongs to you will come to you sooner or later.

    To tell you the truth, I was rejected the night before yesterday and I had tears in my eyes all night...

    Well, others can't walk their own way. Your stomach is hungry and no one will care about you... So you can only rely on yourself. What kind of identity and face? It's all colored, let's live a good life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The boy has ** under his knees, and the man has tears and does not flick.

    I couldn't agree more. Men must have dignity. So that the woman can have faith in you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hey, remember that you can't do everything for the sake of the people you love, you have to keep your dignity.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If it's a man, don't kneel down and beg your girlfriend, because she is not your wife yet, and it is forgivable to kneel for your wife, but it is not worth kneeling for a girlfriend who has changed her mind! You can only make your girlfriend look down on you, let your friends look down on you, you should not beg her, you should give her time to calm down and think about it, if she still wants to break up after thinking about it, just break up, you have given her a chance, if she doesn't cherish it, it means that she doesn't love you at all!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Lose face and throw it to Mars, find a piece of tofu and kill it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is this love worth it!?

    That way, they'll feel more justified.

    will look down on you even more.

    Don't chase girls too hard, but you will be more disgusted.

    She said she was going to break up, and you broke up with her.

    It's not a big deal, the world is meant to be divided and merged.

    I never went to his house.

    It's not the only woman in the world.

    There will always be someone who likes you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forget about it, don't think about it so much, it's not good to be too extreme, it's better to find something to divert attention, and find a better one next time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I want to say that the relationship is really not in place, parents will want to see what kind of person the other party is, but if the children do not take it home, they will not force it to be taken home, everything depends on the children's own ideas and practices. I think if she thinks that the time is ripe, don't worry, it's only been a month, you still have a long way to go!

    Besides, what if you take it home? Can you guarantee that she doesn't change her mind? Won't leave you?

    Don't pay too much attention to these external factors when you fall in love, these are not the key to ensuring happiness!! If you think that you have to go through these things to make you feel at ease, then I can only say that you have too little confidence in your feelings, in yourself, and in her!!

    The key to happiness is not to find a perfect person, but to find any person, and then work with him to build a perfect relationship, love is not buying soap shampoo, you can specify a certain brand, open the package and immediately use it happily, people in love should be like gardeners, seeds in hand, what flowers bloom depends entirely on the effort you put in.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    She was only eighteen years old ......You've only been dating for ...... month

    I don't know what you mean by being in such a hurry to bring it home now.

    Are you sure she's what you want? Will you get married? Then her age is not enough, I have been dating my ex-boyfriend for three years, and I don't know about each other's families.

    If you haven't come to talk about marriage, don't take it home easily.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Let's talk about it again, talk to you gf, girl, still.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have different ideas depending on your age! I feel like she doesn't want to let her family know so early because he hasn't treated you like a boyfriend who can marry and can be long-term! So I don't want to alarm my parents and let them know so much! Personal opinion!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Upstairs, please distinguish between "him" and "she" before asking questions. Confused by you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's only been less than a month, isn't it!! Give her some heart, don't always ask her to go, you can be in a relationship for a while, let him feel that you are a person who can be trusted for life, she will agree, bless you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The second floor is right.

    You've known each other for so little time.

    How can you take it home?

    Do you already feel like you know each other by now?

    Can you get married and live together for the rest of your life?

    Unlikely!

    Generally, it takes at least a while before you can get it home, and if you get it home, it shows that you have recognized her and recognized her as your wife!

    The last hurdle is the parents.

    Boyfriends and girlfriends can't be easily taken home.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Take your time, don't rush.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I guess that girl doesn't know how to face your parents. And what I am most afraid of in love is to see my parents. Not to mention that it is less than 2-3 years old to become an adult.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why do you take her home, it's not a very important question, my wife always says that she wants to go to my house to see my mother, if she sleeps at my house, I don't like to take her home, and I don't understand the reason, I don't understand, I feel.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After all, meeting your parents is a big deal, and meeting means that your relationship has gone further, and if she doesn't want to meet, it means that your relationship has not reached that point, so let's have a relationship for a while.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you're in too much of a hurry, you'll scare the girls.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's only been less than a month, so it's too urgent.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Everyone has a reason they can't say! ~

    I'm a girl too! ~

    I've been with my boyfriend for four years! ~

    And it happened to be in May to see his parents! ~

    Why? Do you want to know?

    One, I'm afraid that after meeting his parents, they will say that I am not good! ~

    Second, I'm afraid that after I see them, they won't let me be with him! There are a lot of psychological factors that lead to the shadow of oneself to meet each other's parents! So you should be considerate of her at this time! And not to force her! ~

    Things have to be done slowly, and it is not okay to be in a hurry! ~

    And girls are generally guts to hide their guts! ~

    So she didn't go, and there were also her personal reasons! ~

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Maybe she thinks you've spent a little less time together.

    Let's wait until your relationship is very strong.

    Let me say that your time together is a little shorter.

    What do you think?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I haven't seen each other for 20 days and then go home to get it, and I have a basic understanding of each other, and it's hard to say how it will develop in the future, and there is no need to go home to get it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Do you want to meet when you know it? I've known my boyfriend for more than half a year, and I've met his sister. Ask me to go to his house, and I don't think I'll say yes right away.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's only been a month! Don't rush!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then you don't like him that much. If you like a girl, you pay more attention to it, and it is to go to see your family on behalf of you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Why don't you want to take her home.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why don't you want to take her home.

    There's nothing wrong with your girlfriend going home with you

    Unless you don't want to have a future with her at all.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I don't know if you're more responsible, or if you don't have deep feelings for her

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    What are you afraid of and don't want to take him home.

    Could it be that you have an attempt?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There are very few people who are willing to go back, after all, they feel uncomfortable in an unfamiliar environment and unfamiliar people. Communicate well, and since you have been back, these obstacles are very small. Just coax.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It shows that she doesn't trust you enough, you don't do well enough in some places, and you two should communicate more.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think she shouldn't refuse after going to you a few times, isn't there a problem?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You say that the ugly woman must see her husband in the end.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I can maintain this relationship for you. But don't let love affect work and study, although you don't study anymore, but there are still a lot of things to learn, now a good technology in the future your love will be stronger. Parents will naturally approve.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    18 years old is really very young, it's okay to have a girlfriend, but don't get married too early, talk to your girlfriend well,,

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you like her very much, and he likes you very much, you can take her home on the premise that you have to convince your family to praise your girlfriend for being sensible and filial.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    First of all, go to the parents' representative to consider the issue of marriage.

    Then, her family is more against (you get married) because you don't have anything now, so it's not suitable.

    In the end, in fact, it is very clear, it is not a matter of not being able to see you, but that she has no intention of marrying you at all, so there is no need to meet your parents.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Of course, it's not difficult, but in the eyes of the world, when you meet each other's parents, then you have a feeling of settling, so people don't want to determine such a relationship with you now, so they are naturally reluctant to go into your family, so if this woman is very satisfied with you, very much like you get married, then she will want to meet your parents and family members very much hope to come into your life and understand you in your life, otherwise it is not that time. Think for yourself.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's difficult, generally meeting your parents means that the marriage is going to be decided, and you don't have anything now, and the future is all a question mark for her. Naturally, she didn't want to take the risk. You should work hard to dispel her concerns about the future as soon as possible.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    You know she wants to live a rich life.

    She should have come home with you to see your family background.

    If you don't meet her standards, it's likely that she will be cold to you or break up, oh, if your family conditions are not very good, it's best not to mess with such a woman, otherwise even if you get married, you will have a lot of opinions in the future.

    And she has to be lazy to do it, just waiting for you to raise it, which is very troublesome.

    Dude, you don't have any emotional foundation.

    This kind of woman doesn't last long, leave her early, and find someone who really loves you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    If you're not serious, don't take it back.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If she doesn't want to go to your house with you, then you have to ask her, if she loves you, if she really loves then she will definitely go. Maybe one thing that can't be ignored is that you haven't been dating long enough, and if she still won't go back with you after a long enough time, it means that she doesn't love you, or she hasn't thought about it yet, then I'm sure that if she loves you, she will definitely go home with you.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's a two-way thing, you can talk to your girlfriend and explain what you mean directly, if she just doesn't mean it, then maybe she's not dating you because of the premise of marriage. Threats are not necessary, so as not to leave a bad impression in the mind.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Women rely on coaxing, and if you coax her to be happy, everything can be done.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Buddy, remember, don't get used to women, especially girlfriends, otherwise you will suffer after marriage.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Well, my girlfriend met me for 2 days and took me to his house, and I was so excited

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Maybe she's not ready to give her a little more time.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Tutoring is better. This kind of girl is good.

    What can you do after 9pm? What would you do when I came to your home? She doesn't give you a chance to deviate.

    If you mind this, you will definitely do bad things to your wife in the future.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It shows that your girlfriend is a very traditional good girl, and you should love her well and love her. I wish you all happiness.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    If she lives alone or with friends, there are three situations:

    1. She may have another boyfriend or an ambiguous male friend.

    2. She is very wary of you.

    3. I really want to go home.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Quarreled over this???

    Apparently you started the incident.

    Saying this, you definitely don't like to hear it, are you too impatient yourself to play the game, have you ever played the h game?

    There has to be a process, if there is no process, it is interesting to ......

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    The state has national laws, and the family has family rules.

    There must be a reason why she refuses to go home with you.

    Or if there is something hard to say, after all, I am not married.

    She has her freedom.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    It's good, at least she's a person who is responsible for herself.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    How old it is, the specific situation is analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and you can't guess it, upstairs.

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