My boyfriend is 5 years older than me, does it matter, will my parents agree to be together in the f

Updated on society 2024-05-01
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It doesn't matter, the five-year-old gap is not big. If he was sincere with you, your parents would agree. Isn't your happiness more important?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it will, some parents won't, so thank you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Age is not a problem, height is not distance, just love each other.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal to be five years older, but no one knows if your parents don't agree.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's okay.,Five years older than the normal range.,I know it hurts more.。。 If you're only fourteen or fifteen years old, you've been deceived.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Normally, if your boyfriend is in the same place as you, they won't disagree.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's nothing, the girl should find someone who is five or six years older than herself, because he is more mature in his thinking.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I am 9 years older than my wife, at first his family did not agree, after a long time, I really couldn't be separated and agreed, now I am very happy, the child is very smart and cute.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My girlfriend and I are also 5 years old, and I'm fine, you want to be more, just be nice to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My previous boyfriend was 11 years older than me, love doesn't need age, nothing can stop love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love knows no age, as long as you want.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's only when you're married, and it's just fun if you're not married.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's normal for men to have seven female freshmen.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should be 15 years old and your boyfriend 20 years old

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm twenty-three years older than my girlfriend.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm twelve years older than my wife.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    5 years old is nothing, 10 years old is not too old.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Your attitude and expression are very important, if you are convinced that he is the person you are looking for, you should communicate more with your parents and tell them what you think. Praise him more in front of your parents, especially the details, don't say those sweet words, maybe it's not just a matter of age, if your boyfriend is in line with your parents' expectations in every item, your parents shouldn't worry about age.

    Your attitude towards marriage is a major event, and your parents will still consider the problem as a person who has come before. Your boyfriend is a lot older than you, and he is not married, whether he will be unreliable, or he has rich emotional experience before, etc., will be a question for your parents to consider.

    We should use reasonable and effective ways to communicate and communicate, so as to understand and tolerate each other, after all, true love needs to be brave to cross the shackles. When two people are together, it seems that it is just a matter of two people, but in fact, it is not like this, because everyone is in a certain social relationship, so the combination of two people is more of a union of two families.

    But it is not easy to get two families together. When a person loves a person very much, he will change for the other person, he will love everything that the other person loves, even if there are very real problems in it, he will try to break through the shackles and let others understand, this is true love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not a problem that your boyfriend is five years older than you, your parents don't agree that you are probably not optimistic about your future, you should show yourself well, let actions prove that your choice is correct, communicate well with your parents, and believe they will agree. First of all, your parents are right to care for you, and secondly, they think you are too young to see you deceived. This mood is understandable, this is mainly because, I don't know this young man very well, you are really moving towards this step of marriage, so let him communicate with the people in your family, if you can't communicate, you can entrust some elders and people who are familiar with you and his family to say yes, so that the success rate is higher.

    Parents do not agree, in the face of such a situation, you must understand your own mind and thoughts, and do not change your emotional attitude because of your parents' thoughts.

    1. Recognize your own thoughts.

    I believe that age is not a problem, even if there is a big gap, as long as each other has a heart, they will overcome all difficulties and obstacles, and they should understand their minds rationally in the face of such a situation. If in this relationship, you really like each other, and your boyfriend is sincere to you, I believe that the parents' obstruction is not a big problem, and the final choice is in your own hands.

    2. Gain the understanding of your parents.

    Parents all over the world have the same heart, they all want their children to be happy, and they don't want their children to be unhappy in their married life from the beginning. Parents do not agree with their own factors, at this time you should take the initiative to communicate with your parents, understand their parents' real thoughts, and at the same time tell their parents their inner thoughts. Many times parents will easily conclude because they don't know each other enough, they should take the initiative to get along with their boyfriend and parents, enhance each other's understanding and understanding, so as to change their parents' attitudes and ideas, I believe that getting the blessing of parents is the greatest happiness.

    3. Feelings are based on oneself.

    I believe that marriage is a matter of two people, even if the parents do not agree, you should stick to your own ideas, life is a matter of two people, and parents cannot live for themselves. In the face of opposition from your parents, don't shake your resolve easily, otherwise you will lose the people you love the most and the happiness you want.

    Happiness is in your own hands, and don't give up easily in the face of parental opposition, so it's easy to miss the greatest happiness. If you love someone, you will win courage, and a firm determination will be exchanged for each other's cherishment, and only by breaking through all obstacles will you witness great feelings, so don't easily give up loving yourself and the people you love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you two are truly in love, your boyfriend is five years older than you is not a problem, and your parents do not agree that you are probably not optimistic about your future, you should show yourself well, let your actions prove that your choice is correct, and communicate well with your parents, I believe they will agree.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Age is not a stumbling block in love, parents can try to persuade them if they don't agree, as long as you are in love, love each other, understand and tolerate each other, and respect each other. I sincerely wish you all to be a happy couple, grow old together, and live a safe and healthy life.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Parents don't agree with you being together, this can only be said to be the opinion of your parents, whether you want to be together or not, the key depends on the feelings between you, communicate well with your parents, and believe that your parents will agree.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Age is not a problem, as long as the two of you truly love each other and your parents' work communicates slowly, they will agree to live together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Age is not the distance of love, if you really love each other, you can try to move your parents, with emotion and reason, so that parents understand you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's okay to be five years older, the key is why your mom doesn't agree to figure it out. Parents are people who have come over, and they will see people more comprehensively than you, and you don't visit and ask your parents what is wrong with the boy, so that you can decide what you should do.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In fact, parents are also thinking about themselves, if they like each other, and the relationship is more compatible, then do more work as parents, and be reasonable with facts.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Let him behave well!

    If it doesn't work again, it's good to get together and disperse! Let each other relax and unwind.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It is not a problem for boys to be five years older. The question is whether your parents' objections are valid.

    I think it's better not to marry people whose parents don't let them marry.

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