Why is there betrayal in love, why is there betrayal between lovers, do you know?

First of all, you should find out which of you exactly he likes. Because he knows his schoolmate girlfriend in front and knows you later, there are several situations: first, he likes his schoolmate, but after meeting you, he feels that you are more suitable for him, but he can't bear to reject his schoolmate, after all, they have been together for four years and have feelings; The second is that he likes both of you, and he knows that this is not good, but he doesn't know how to solve it, so he has put it off until now; The third is that he has aesthetic fatigue with his school-school girlfriend, and wants to date you after meeting you in the early days, maybe he wants to finally decide whether to break up with his school-school girlfriend through a period of understanding you.

In short, you should have a good talk with him calmly, if he finally chooses you, forgive his past, if he thinks that his girlfriend is more suitable for him, then you should let go of this relationship and find your own happiness, maybe someone who likes you is waiting for you somewhere.

The root of a man's inferiority satisfies his own vanity、、、 and it is better for such a person to stay away from him 、、、

He may be lonely and wants to change his taste. Hey, this kind of man shouldn't be able to find a girlfriend, and how many people have been harmed for his own selfishness.

The first point: the psychology of luck.

In fact, before everyone betrays, they will have a fluke mentality and think that this matter will not be exposed, but the reality is that there is no impenetrable wall in the world, especially in the case of betrayal, it will still be known by the partner after all, although some people understand this truth, but the luck in the heart will continue to hinder, maybe at first they are also very resistant, but as the relationship between each other becomes closer and closer, the luck psychology will become stronger and stronger, and eventually, it will go to extramarital affairs, This is also one of the most important reasons for betrayal, if everyone does not have a fluke mentality, then there will not be so many betrayals, however, few people are able to restrain their psychology and end up on this road of no return.

The second point: being bewitched by ghosts.

After a person has a fluke mentality, he does not necessarily embark on the path of betrayal, after all, this psychology may still be suppressed, it still depends on personal perseverance, however, if a person is attracted to the other party, it is almost impossible to turn around, once a person is captivated by the so-called fantasy, even a beautiful married life may be abandoned, and the heart will no longer care about the so-called marriage, it is more like a kind of love, even if the other party does not give sincerely, it will not help, unless it is really hurt, it is likely to be happy, But at this time, the married life has broken down, and the partner will naturally not have any more chances.

The third point: moral loss.

In fact, the reason for a person's real betrayal is the loss of morality, when a person does not have the so-called morality, he does not care what others think of him, as long as he feels happy enough, so the so-called betrayal and extramarital affairs will become the norm, he will lose his conscience, and he will not have a sense of control over his desires, it must be said that the loss of morality is an essential problem, which is different from obsession, after all, how can a person without a conscience achieve the previous love? At least the first two will still feel regret and regret, but after losing the moral heart, this emotion will not appear at all, the betrayer who betrayed the moral demeanor does not have the so-called bottom line and sincerity at all, and living with others is also a process of playing with emotions, if you fall in love with such a person, then in the end you will definitely be hurt.

Because these couples find a better partner in the process of getting along, they will betray each other.

That's because there was a problem in the relationship between them, and both parties didn't trust each other very much, so there was a mutiny.

Because if two couples get along for a long time, there is no novelty at all. And they will be impatient with each other. will find someone else.

The betrayal between lovers, in the final analysis, is still not love. Therefore, if you want to find a different feeling, there will naturally be a situation of betrayal.