Why are couples afraid of losing each other?

Couples can be said to be very sweet when they are together, when two people are together, they are often extremely warm and comfortable, and can do a lot of intimate actions to express their love for each other, and sometimes there are a lot of troubles between couples, such as one of the couples, especially girls, are often afraid of losing each other, I think the possible reasons are as follows:

The first point, because I love each other deeply, so I am afraid of losing, if there is no love, then it will not hurt to lose my heart, but it is because this girl loves each other deeply and cares too much that she will worry about the future between them, worried that the boy she loves the most will leave him one day. And if this girl's boyfriend has some hearty performance, the girl's feeling will be even stronger, because if a boy is really careful, I am afraid that he will really abandon her one day.

The second point is that this girl's ex left her with deep emotional scars, maybe this boyfriend is still very good to her, but because the ex-boyfriend in the previous relationship was because of the messing around with other girls, the relationship failed, and the ex-boyfriend left too much pain for the girl, so for this relationship, although the girl likes the boy very much, but she doesn't want to be hurt again, so she is often afraid of losing her boyfriend.

The third point is that some girls have a strong desire to control, and it can be said that they don't trust their boyfriends, because they don't trust them, so even if their boyfriends don't have any traces of splitting their legs, girls will still check their boyfriends' mobile phones if they are fine, and smell whether their boyfriend's clothes have the smell of girls, etc., which is because they are suspicious and worried about losing their boyfriends.

I used to be the same as you, when I was with the person I liked, I always wanted him to care more about me, and I didn't like him to be too close to others, hehe! However, man is always a whole, not someone else's thing, he always has his own thoughts and life, if he loves it, he will relax, if he is yours, he will not leave you, if he is not yours. You just don't stay with you.

Give each other space, and give yourself space. Life is good. Just cherish it.

That's because I love it too much, it's okay, as long as we have each other sincerely, we will live well together, give ourselves confidence, don't think so much.

What is yours is yours, not what you force you to do, if the other party really loves you, he "she" will take into account your concerns. ，