My girlfriend has been in love with her ex boyfriend for 9 years, can I marry her

I think whether you marry or not depends on whether you love it or not, whether you are willing or not, and the opinions of us passers-by do not represent her status in your heart. In fact, I think if it's true love, who cares about the past, I also had a colleague who broke up with my boyfriend of eight years, and now I also get married and start a family, and it's very nourishing? Besides, she has been dating her previous boyfriend for eight years, she should be regarded as a particularly dedicated girl, it is better than many girls who are dating today and breaking up tomorrow with boyfriends everywhere, it is inevitable to care about it, after all, that relationship is not short, and many things have gone to the bones, so I think if I love, I should go straight forward, and I should cherish her, and my happiness is grasped by myself.

Hehe, silly boy, I hope you can come out of this shadow.

If after getting married, her ex-boyfriend comes back to her, or is lonely, and looks for her to catch up with the past, it seems that you have to wear this green hat!

You know so much that you don't have any other ideas? If you can handle it yourself, you'll be fine, but my advice to you is to forget it.

Personally, since she offered it, I should agree to her.

Think about it carefully and don't do things that you regret.

If you love each other, you should come together, and the other questions are not the key, the key is whether you love her or not.

It's the equivalent of saying that you've married a divorced woman.

Personal advice NOT goes unexplained.

If you believe in love, do you care about this...

Then it depends on whether you really love her, if you love her, you will tolerate her past, if you don't love her, then you don't marry her.

Yes. If you love her as a person, then you have to accept everything she has. You can't irresponsibly abandon your girlfriend just because she's been with someone else before.

When you ask this question, don't you already have the answer? It's good for everyone to disperse early, while the tragedy hasn't happened.

Of course, it's normal to have an ex-boyfriend, and you can't expect others not to be touched by other men.

If the strength allows, I will never marry.

Sometimes time is not the deciding factor, don't be unconfident in yourself if something goes wrong. Everyone has a past, you can't decide, you can only decide the present and the future. As long as you have made a decision, you should trust yourself and him.

Now that they are all together, don't pursue each other's past, and don't worry about it needlessly. Otherwise, many problems have already passed, and they may surface again because you care, and it may also affect the relationship between you.

The relationship between two people together cannot be measured by time. He and his ex-girlfriend can still break up after six years, which means that there are still problems between them, otherwise after six years, would they still give up breaking up? What's more, they have only been in love for six years, and some of them have been married for a few years, and even have children, aren't they also divorced?

Isn't the bond between them deeper? But have you found a new love that suits you? Don't think that after they have been talking for six years, there will be a lot of reluctance, a lot of nostalgia or something.

Whether the two people are suitable or not is not determined by time. It is to see if you have found the right person, if you have not found the right person, you may not be able to come together for a long time, if you find the right person, you will know each other at a glance. It may have been love at first sight.

Now that your boyfriend has made his choice, you have to trust him and cultivate a good relationship with him. Of course, having a six-year relationship is still quite precious, so you have to understand your boyfriend. You have to understand that he may still have unforgettable feelings in his heart, and you can't make him not think about the past at all.

All you're worried about right now is your worries, and you don't feel like your boyfriend is in a state right now. Has he said goodbye to the past and started a new life with you? Or is it obsessed with the past?

You have to make a good judgment and then prescribe the right medicine, not just imagine it yourself.

If you want to get a good love, you need to work hard. This is what the relationship you choose is like this, so if you still want to continue to persevere, then you have to be mentally prepared, and if you want to win his heart, you may both have to work hard.

There is also a key point to remember, no matter how many years it is, you are already an ex-girlfriend, and you are now a legitimate incumbent, don't you have self-confidence yet? Don't bother yourself, people haven't done anything yet, you think about it every day. That's how a lot of questions come up, so be sensible and be smarter.

Just talk about your relationship, everything else is in the past. I wish you all happiness!

Not to mention talking about it for six years, even if it has been talking for ten years, what is the use? She's his ex-girlfriend after all! "Before"!

Listen, it's an ex-girlfriend! If the two of them really don't have anything to do with each other, or if the ex-girlfriend has found her new boyfriend, then you don't have to think too much, follow your feelings, like him, then put all your worries aside, as long as he can be sincere to us, you say, right?

It is understandable that he has no feelings for his ex-girlfriend, and it is understandable that sometimes he often thinks of his ex-girlfriend by your side, after all, he has been dating for six years, if he can forget it all at once, then for this kind of ruthless person, I don't think you need to have any more relationships with him. Think about it, after six years of dating, you can break it off, and forget it so simply? Besides, you've only been dating for a few months?

So, since you've decided to be together, it's time to give him some time to spend with him and forget about this sad past. I hope to be able to use your warmth to evoke the pain in his heart.

Of course, for such a boyfriend, you have to be careful, at least you have to understand why the two of them broke up, whether there is a possibility for the two to reconcile after the breakup, if possible, and your boyfriend just wants to use another relationship to forget the pain caused by the previous relationship, then you should think about it. At this time, your so-called boyfriend often says that he is sick and goes to the doctor, and his feelings for you do not come from his heart in my opinion. In the future, they also have a very good chance of getting back together.

So you must recognize the reality and not be fooled by your boyfriend's appearance. After a period of dating, I think you should know what he thinks in his heart. Otherwise you wouldn't be so entangled.

Isn't it?

Feelings are not determined by the length of time, if you really love your boyfriend, just stay by his side, understand and tolerate him, the ex is already in the past, don't be too entangled, cherish the present is important.

After talking about it for six years, it's just a thing of the past, nothing more! The scary thing is that in some long-distance relationships, the man obviously has a wife and children at home, and he still has to come out to cheat!

First of all, you have to have confidence in yourself, after all, if he chooses you, it will be more or less because he has forgotten his previous ex-girlfriend who will choose to be with you. Don't go overboard with his former girlfriend.

The question is now no.

Ask a question, he pays attention to her social software.

You found out this secretly.

1. Do you want to break up probably when you don't love him or he doesn't love you, and now you don't love him? Or does he not love you anymore? Let's check this first.

2, I can't see a good reason why he doesn't love you for the time being, the ex may have a heavier position in his heart, it is a better memory, if he wants to rekindle the old love, even if he is forced to break up with you out of guilt, then he will never say "It's all over, I will never contact her again." ”

3. He has a beautiful ex in his heart, it's better to tell you than to keep it in his heart and not say it, it's better to know this than not to know it, can he say it from a certain angle that he reveals the most important and sensitive secrets in his heart to you, and risks being jealous and angry by you, this can be understood as a kind of trust, quite a big trust.

If your ex-girlfriend didn't interfere with your relationship, why break up? If you can't accept that your boyfriend has been living with someone else for three years, it's best to let him make it clear to you and open your knot.

Break up, I've been living with my ex-girlfriend for so long, and it's just a matter of dividing it It shows that in his heart, women are not the most important.

If it's true love, don't break up. If you really can't stand it, then break up, after all, this news is a bit hurtful.

There's no need, ex-girlfriend that's in the past tense, don't dwell on the past, we have to look forward.

Why did you break up? She has become an ex-girlfriend, which means that she does not pose any threat to you, you and your boyfriend are truly in love, and you will not mind his past.

If you really like him, don't mind his past, it's all in the past, we have no choice, all we can do is to follow him on the road in the future.

If it were, I would definitely choose to break up, and no matter what, it touched my bottom line.

You see if they're disconnected, if they're still connected. Everyone has a past, and the future cannot be denied because of the past.

If he is sincere to you and can give you a future, then try to be together.

Parted. I don't love you, no need to question it.

If you love someone, the center of the world is her. You revolve around her, you are attracted to her, her ups and downs are your joys and sorrows, and you will not pay attention to the greater attraction.

Even, he doesn't love his ex-girlfriend. Feelings cannot be compared, and the side of comparison is the selfish side.

Even if you give it back to his ex-girlfriend now, he will be the same in a few years, missing some of your advantages.

A selfish man is not worthy of a girl's liking.

What's even more sad is that a girl who has no ego does not deserve the sympathy of others.

You don't know how to cherish yourself, you don't know how to respect yourself, what's the point of asking others here. This kind of thing, from the very beginning, you should seriously point out your dissatisfaction, don't be someone else's stand-in, let alone face such a man.

1 Because in general, the peak period of affection is between six months and one year, and it is the sweetest and most intimate.

After more than a year, the relationship gradually flattens, so sometimes the longer the relationship drags on, the more likely it is that one party will run away, and what you are talking about is a clear example.

2 Love life can also make people learn a lot, many times, the flowers should be folded, the right marriage, the woman should also learn something, when it is time to make a move, so that the relationship has a result and a destination, (not always dragging, dragging is easy to make a party can not see the result and future of the relationship, confused and run away from the relationship).

Therefore, whether it is realistic or progressive, a marriage with results is better than a relationship without results, and it can be regarded as learning and progress in the relationship.

In fact, the older two people are together, the more time it takes to run in, and everyone will be tired in the end, but it depends on who can't hold on first and proposes to break up, which is a personal problem! Some of them are family problems, and parents don't think it's suitable, so they don't agree'Because family background and so on are likely to affect. Half a year is a sweet period, eight months to a year is the easiest to quarrel, but as long as you insist on everything is easy to say, in fact, the most important thing is to be considerate and understanding, and know how to empathize can avoid a lot of quarrels.

Maybe people think at a glance that this is my mr right, and it's hard to talk about getting married, but it doesn't exclude material women.

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