Do you think girls should complete their marriage and then study for a doctorate?

After completing the marriage event, you will face the problem of having children and taking care of children, and you don't have the energy to study for a doctorate......In addition, I think that if a man meets a female doctor, he doesn't even understand the character and personality of the female doctor, and directly defines the other party as a third type of person who can't be dated just because the other party has a doctorate, then this kind of male pattern is also a big sesame point.

It is a social prejudice that female doctors are not easy to marry. Or the result of stigmatizing female doctors. The purpose is very clear, to force female doctors to give up their studies and withdraw from the academic circle that originally belonged exclusively to men.

It is the result of the convergence of the two major social "ideological trends" of smearing female doctors and forcing leftover women to marry.

Although it is the 21st century, many men still feel that men should be stronger than women, and they can't reach the realm, and women have reached it, and they feel that it hurts their self-esteem, so they have disgust and fear.

You can study for a doctorate at any time, unlike graduate students, it is normal for 30+ to study for a doctorate, and I feel that it is more beneficial to try the workplace or fall in love when I am young.

No, because after finishing studying, my horizons have become higher, and the level of people I know has also been greatly improved, unless my husband himself is very powerful, he will not be able to catch up with your pace, don't ask me how I know t t

Now that education is no longer very valuable, men with less educational qualifications than female bloggers are still more or less weak-minded. This is probably the most important reason why it is difficult for female bloggers to marry.

The main thing is that they are older and not married. If you are married, and the man is also a doctor, then it is not scary, my teacher and her daughter-in-law are both doctors.

I went to help in a research institute of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, there are about six people in an office, most of them are women, all of them are postdoctoral fellows, all unmarried...A sister said she regretted it while tinkering....

Why is there so much prejudice against female students in society, what's wrong with female doctors, don't steal, rob or cheat, rely on their own struggle, chase their dreams, even if they bear so much mental and physical age pressure, they still work hard to ......The so-called marriage and childbirth and secular vision are outdated and old-fashioned, female doctors are ten thousand times stronger than those women who rely on men, and it is better to rely on no one than to rely on their own ......Female doctors should be self-reliant and self-reliant, and they should win respect and support ......

Let it be, this kind of thing, no matter how well it is planned, it depends on fate.

See if the other half supports it, and discuss the ...... with the other halfBoth men and women ......I've had a good life around me, and I've also read half of the divorced ......If you have an idea, you must discuss it with the two of you and make a plan, it is very difficult to study for a doctorate, and it is easy not to be understood.

They decide for themselves what path they want to take in the future, but they have to bear the risk compensation in the future, and no one determines what the perfect life looks like!

Why don't you finish your Ph.D. and then complete the marriage event?

If Liang Jiguo likes each other very much, I think it is necessary to wait for my boyfriend, when my boyfriend is studying for a doctorate, I can also improve myself through study, although at present, the pressure is relatively large, but after you also study, the pressure will definitely be reduced.

Studying for a Ph.D. in itself is not in conflict with getting married. But the scum is that there will be conflicts when many factors are linked. You discuss it together, plan well, and everything will be easy. If neither of you has the idea of going one step further, it is advisable to treat it coldly.

Marriage is more important for every woman, with the continuous growth of our country, the continuous progress of social development, every year there are batches of high-achieving students graduated from prestigious universities, and in these operations, there are many female elites among the elite, as far as the current big data is concerned, many female doctoral or postdoctoral students are also year by year, when we are happy that they have made great contributions to the country, at the same time they are also dedicating their youth and talentsAccording to effective statistics, the marriage rate of women with a doctorate or postdoctoral degree or above is about 40 45%, that is, 5 or 6 out of 10 female doctors are not marriedWhat is the reason for such a high single rate? In my personal opinion, there may be the following factors:

1. Focus on learning

It is undeniable that the reason why they can be admitted to the doctorate, or even postdoctoral, is that they must be very passionate about learning, and on the road of focusing on one field, they must have invested a new enthusiasm in their whole body, so that they have no other energy to think about other things, so they have delayed lifelong events.

2. Constant procrastination

In fact, in the minds of every girl, they have dreamed of themselves, in the best years to meet a very beautiful relationship, but they also love learning, in the case of fish and bear's paws, they want to temporarily let go of personal feelings, always plan to complete a period of study, in the consideration of personal problems, so that while constantly completing the goal of learning, but also delay their marriage.

3. The vision is too high

Doctoral or postdoctoral degree will generally have a good job after graduation, even if the salary is average at the beginning, then their academic qualifications are destined to their extraordinary income in the future, so after they get the job and the corresponding achievements, they will definitely have a higher vision when they choose the men they match, which is also a major reason for their singleness.

After all, no one wants to work hard for a long time and finally get a doctorate, and they haven't done anything for this society, but in the end they have to become a housewife, which no one can accept. Different ideas and concepts make different choices between them.

Most of the girls who come out of their doctorate have their own thoughts, their own thinking, and know what they want and what they don't want, so this is why they choose to marry late or even never marry for life.

Female doctors basically have their own culture and cultivation, because it takes a long time to study, and their work is particularly busy, so they all choose not to marry, and some even get married very late.

These have a lot to do with her academic growth, she is dedicated to her studies, focusing on her academic future, and not thinking about love. So the marriage is later married.

Cause and effect are reversed.

It's because I don't want to get married that I continue to study for a doctorate.

After studying for a doctorate, I was at least almost 30 years old, and I could only get married very late.

Normally, the age of female doctors is not young, and they are relatively old when they are married, and they are more concerned about their careers, and there are too few female doctors, and she must have high requirements for the object, and she will not marry if she is not suitable, and she has enough financial ability to support herself, and she is at ease, and her personality is also quite independent.

The characteristic of a female doctor is that she has a very high degree of education, but she is not the same as a successful woman, because most women can only accept that they are better than themselves.

In fact, this is not surprising. But people with high academic qualifications are generally more superficial. So he is pretentious and looks down on others in all kinds. Because she will never understand that ability is more important than academic qualifications.

After studying for too long, when I wanted to get married, I was almost thirty years old, and the yellow flower girl was no longer there, and she began to move towards the yellow-faced aunt, and everything no longer attracted the eyes of the opposite sex.

Maybe it's because the female doctor is not too young after finishing her studies. In addition, the female doctor has a very rich heart and a very witty mind. I know what I want, so I won't blindly choose marriage. If you don't meet the right one, you won't get married.

This is very normal, after the end of school, the age is already high, and then zhi says that he has a high education, and the eye dao world is also high, and then to the other.

Half of the requirements of the version are also high, if the other party's academic qualifications are too different and I am afraid that there is no common language. But boys with the same education like young girls, and they also have higher requirements for their other half. Therefore, it leads to female doctors getting married late or even not marrying.

Have you done any surveys? I think that things like marriage depend on whether you have a wide range of friends, and if you are more homely, you generally get married late. Most of the female PhDs I know are married and still studying.

After graduation, he will be thirty years old, and he is highly talented, which is not looked down upon by ordinary men. And at this age, most men are married, and even fewer good men, so what!

It's normal, or I got married when I was a doctor, and I didn't have the heart to start working after finishing my doctorate.

Educated people just like to get married later because they don't want to affect their work because of their family.

Studies have shown that the IQ of the mother largely determines the height of the IQ of the next generation.

Do you need a female doctor to get married? As long as the average girl is fine, can the family live with such a high degree of education? It is not a scientific research unit.

Got it, got it. The standard of living, the way to behave in the world, the communication of relatives and friends, all aspects will not be on the same level as ordinary people.

Because of the female doctor, the age of graduation is usually about 27. And I have the confidence and knowledge, I don't think it's important to find a partner, and I can live a good life, so I haven't met someone I like, and I won't get married casually.

Female doctors have more life choices, and if they can meet the right one, they will get married, and they can live well if they don't meet the right one. But girls who don't have much education are different, they don't get married necessarily to find love, but to exchange lives, and their non-divorce does not mean that they are really happy in marriage, it is just that they have no choice at all.

Because there is a dross in society, that is, girls who think that they are too highly educated, they are not suitable for marriage. And it may be because the female doctor's vision is too high and she can't find the right person.

I think this is largely due to academic delays, because studying for a PhD is really busy, and then there is no time to spend on private life, so I miss the best time to fall in love and get married.

The main reason is that after the doctorate, they can only graduate at the age of 30, and those with high academic qualifications seem to be a common problem, and it is difficult to find a partner, so some simply don't look for it and don't marry for life.

Because female doctors spend most of their time studying, and their standards for choosing a mate are relatively high, it is not easy to meet the person who meets his standards.

Why do you attribute other people's late marriage and lifelong non-marriage to other people's doctorate and high education, why don't you see the fundamental reason, it is such a person, so there are very few people in this way, so few people can fit her!!

Because female doctors read a lot of books and have their own views on the world. They are more in pursuit of spiritual fit, and if they can't achieve it, they may choose to be single.

Because female doctors will have their own careers, they all want to get married after their careers are successful.

Because female doctors are not easy to find a partner, many men are willing to find a partner with a higher education than themselves, and female doctors are not willing to settle.

Because female doctors, they have to spend a lot of time and energy in the process of studying, and they don't have time to have boyfriends and talk about feelings.

Shut your dog's mouth! The female doctors in our school are all married, so what's the point of always attacking the group with this kind of example?

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