A friend who got back together with her boyfriend came in and talked about it

I'm afraid that his feelings for me won't return to the original state"I think there are two points worth thinking about when this sentence is said, the first point is that your boyfriend has been tolerant of you for a long time, when a person who is habitually tolerant of you speaks out about your shortcomings, no matter how he says it, it means that he has reached the limit of patience.

The second point, I am afraid that he will not be able to return to his original state, which means that he wants to return to his original state and propose to break up with you because he cares about you, but his expectations for you are disappointed.

In response to the first point, I think you should reflect on what is wrong with your **, since he has already expressed his dissatisfaction, you should change it in a targeted manner. I'm sure you'll change it.

In response to the second point, do you know that men love face, like to be respected, and like the feeling of girlfriends and birds. At this very moment, you have to "keep your voice down" a little, for the sake of happiness, this is nothing. Contradictions, you have to believe that they can be resolved, and the best in the world is not violence, but psychology.

Use psychology to influence him.

I'm a guy and you're very similar to my girlfriend.

I'm afraid I won't be able to get back to my old feelings.

I can't get back to the original feeling - that's certain, you didn't know each other at the beginning, you didn't know each other's faults. The brain is full of sweet love. But now, this love is not as lush as it was at the beginning.

Fear – why fear? Afraid of what? I think he's afraid that your inadequacy will continue, and he's afraid that he'll have to endure these things.

At this time, his heart was confused, confused, and he needed a heart booster. I think this heart booster comes from you.

At this time, you must all feel wilted, and it is estimated that two people are weak when talking together. The gaze that is no longer spiritual will only bring a blow to the other party, and there is no hope.

If you really want to go on, refresh yourself, go to him with infinite energy and hope, infect him with your enthusiasm, and make him hopeful for your future.

People are wonderful creatures, one person's feelings can change with another, and if you can't conquer his emotions, then you will lose your faith just like him.

I hope you understand what I mean, and I hope to help you.

You haven't known each other for a long time, you can let go of your worries and continue to work hard Sincerity will never be in vain But the words have to be clear He used to think that you had a problem, why didn't you say it before If you didn't say it in the past, it was equivalent to silently accepting it Why did you wait until it was irrelevant to bring it up again Now it's not good to settle accounts together So before you really pay, you have to think about whether the two of you are really suitable If you can communicate with both sides to improve, you can really pay

1. I hope that I will give you the feeling of zd, not repeatedly, and I also hope that we are not new together, give each other a little time, and make eternal promises.

2. Even if you are sad, don't be sad, because you don't know who will fall in love with your smile. 3. Before we meet the person in our dreams, God may arrange for us to meet someone else first; When we finally meet the person we like, we should be grateful.

4. The worst thing about losing someone is that he is close to him, but it is like he is far away. 5. Love is long-suffering, and there is kindness back; Love is not jealousy; Love is not boastful, not arrogant; He does not do anything that he is ashamed of, he does not seek his own good, he does not be quick to anger, he does not count the evil of men; He does not like unrighteousness, but only the truth; Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things.

Love never ends. 6. If you fall in love, you are in love, even if your heart has already been hurt and is no longer complete, you still love. No wheels.

Because loving him has become my only mission. 7. I love you, not because of what kind of person you are, but because I like the feeling when I am with you.

It is necessary to express sincere repentance.

Start with a sincere heart from the moment you decide to redeem yourself. At the same time, it is necessary to prepare, once a woman encounters this kind of thing, it is not so easy to forgive, so be prepared and insist on using actions to sincerely influence your ex-girlfriend.

It is still easier to talk between women and women through the girlfriends of the ex-girlfriends, so it is possible to start through the girlfriends of the ex-girlfriends. Since it is a best friend, it must be a good relationship, and if you want to redeem it, if you can get the approval of your ex-girlfriend's best friend, it will be much easier next.

Therefore, I must sincerely promise my ex-girlfriend's girlfriend that I will be good to her in the future, so that my ex-girlfriend's girlfriend will recognize me, so once I approve it, my ex-girlfriend's girlfriend can persuade her a few words at a critical moment, and the possibility of redemption is relatively great. If you start through the other party's parents, because the two broke up because of their own impulses, then the ex-girlfriend's parents must have an opinion about themselves.

If the ex-girlfriend's parents have an opinion, it will be a big matter, and there will be obstacles. So I have to think of ways to remove this obstacle, find a way to start from the parents, make a guarantee to the parents, and buy some gifts to please the ex-girlfriend's parents, the best way is to make the ex-girlfriend's parents believe that they are correcting through their own actions, so that the ex-girlfriend's parents will agree to the two reunite, so that the obstacle is gone, and the next reunion will not be a problem.

Looking at the attitude of the ex-girlfriend, if you have done all the above actions, you have said all the good things, and the things have been done, and the ex-girlfriend is still worried about not wanting to get back together, then you should not be too anxious. Women are inherently insecure, and this kind of thing is more likely to make women insecure, so this matter cannot be rushed, and it must be considered in the long run.