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Friends can walk together in the rain with umbrellas; It's possible to roll on the beach together; It is possible to indulge in some kind of ** reverie together; It is possible to wander together in the sea of books and swim; Friends are sad, I will shed tears with you, and I will laugh silly with you when there is joy......Friends may not always be in touch, but they will not forget, every time they think about it occasionally, they still feel so warm, so cordial, and so tender; Friends put care in their hearts and hide their concerns in their eyes; Friends are accompanied by one period of life, and spend one evening after another together; Friends are more joyful when they think of it, and more gentle when they remember it. Friends are like alcohol, strong and easy to get drunk; Friends are like flowers, elegant and fragrant; Friends are autumn rains, delicate and poetic; My friend is May in December, pure and proud. A friend is not a painting, it is more gorgeous than a painting; A friend is not a song, it is more beautiful than a song; A friend should be that meaningful prose, written yesterday and looking forward to the future.
The beauty of friends is not long in the future; Friends are really instant and eternal, and they know each other instantly; The preciousness of friends is not because of the years they have gone through together, the most rare thing about friends is that they will still think of them from time to time after separation, and they can still remember: you are my friend. The days when I have friends are always sunny and the flowers are bright; When I have friends, I realize that I already have everything.
We can lose a lot, but what we can't lose are our friends. Friends may not be an eternity, friends may just be a passerby at a certain time in your life, but because of this origin, life becomes more beautiful, and the emotions of friends are more vivid and precious. What does it matter if there is no future?
At least, once I walked the path of a friend with you-
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Yes, I'm not sure, but there hasn't been such a friendship around me yet.
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Yes As long as you believe that people's hearts are exchanged for their own hearts.
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Yes, but it's best not to trust others.
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When I was a child, the friendship was not very demanding, basically everyone had about the same time, the age difference was not much, and it was okay to be able to play together.
When I grow up, it's different, and when I grow up, what kind of use do you have for me, and what kind of help can I bring to you? To put it bluntly, it is an exchange of interests under the guise of "friendship", but this is the case in this society.
For example, if you are in the same circle, then you can still talk together, you are a master's degree, I am also a master's degree, you studied in Europe, I studied in the United States, you went to the returnee job fair, can you share a little information with me? I have a job offer here, and if the opportunity is right, I can also mention you to the interviewer.
But if you talk about your childhood friendships, maybe you became a civil servant, but your elementary school classmate opened a small restaurant, how do you keep in touch? At most, you go to his house to eat and cheer, can you still take the people in your unit to eat and cheer every three or five times? Not suitable, right?
If your elementary school classmates want to open a branch and come to you to avoid taxes through the back door, but you are new to the workplace, not to mention that you can't reach it within your ability, even if you have this ability, are you willing to take such a risk?
Therefore, those childhood friendships, if they are not in a circle, those who live close and study together, in fact, the general environment has changed; Those with similar personalities and common factors are not important when they grow up; As for those who can't get rid of the world, relatives and friends, at most it is just a superficial coping.
When I first graduated, many of my classmates had master's degrees, and they once went out to play together, and I asked, why don't you call me, I can take a day off, and take a weekend. There was a girl who seemed to be trying to show "high emotional intelligence" and said that you didn't go to work?
But now that I think about it, if people sincerely want to call you, they will definitely wait for your time in advance, and they don't think about you at all, so you can just find an excuse to say that it is for you to work.
To put it bluntly, I just feel that there is a deviation in my academic qualifications, and I am not a person of the same world, so I am very realistic. Of course, I don't care now, because I am developing from multiple angles, and they are still content in one of their own workplace fields, as for the friendship when I was a child, then it will be scattered with the wind, right?
I think: No.
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