How do people with cancer view their later lives?

Although the end point of all people is death, people with cancer know that their lives are limited and can die at any time, so their hearts are either self-defeating and decadent; Either cherish life, with dignity, and happily welcome the end at any time.

Actually, it's not terrible to be sick, it's terrible to give up life when you know when you don't know when your life will come to an end at any time. Those pessimistic people, when they learn that they have cancer, they are sad, disappointed, desperate, and feel that they have not treated themselves well, and they have not taken good care of themselves when they are healthy, and now they are sick and do not know that they will die at any time, so they are even more remorseful, remorseful, and wondering, and feel that God is not fair, why do you want to target him like this? He obviously didn't do anything wrong, his life was not smooth sailing, and he couldn't do things well when he encountered them, and he couldn't learn.

It's already one step slower, so why make it worse? When he thinks of this, the sick and pessimistic person repeats itself over and over again, in a vicious circle, and becomes depressed all the time, and eventually his mood gets worse and worse, and the sickness torments him, and his life expectancy may be reduced as a result.

On the contrary, an optimistic and positive person, even if he is suffering from cancer, he may live a few more months or a few more years because of his strong will, even if he cannot be cured, but in his opinion, this life has been in vain. Someone who is passionate about life, when he hears the news, he thinks, oh my God, this can't be true, right? He will verify, then, when his heart is shocked again, he will silently tell himself in his heart, since I know the length of my life earlier than ordinary people, even if it is a little shorter, then I must cherish my life and let myself have no regrets.

In addition to listening to the doctor's words and actively fighting against the disease, we must also be kind to everyone around us, not willful, and kind. Make your wishes come true one by one, and even if you are going to the end, you will face them with a smile.

My dad is an advanced esophageal cancer patient for seven years. Twice a year, although he seems to live like a normal person, in fact, he is really different from a normal person.

First, he was always ready for that day to come. My dad saved some money for my mom and repeatedly warned my mom that no matter what the circumstances, this money should not be taken out, this is money for my mother's pension. Dad felt that he would definitely not be able to accompany his mother to the end of this life, so he had already made plans for him to leave.

Second, there is a lack of hope in life. Dad seems to live freely every day, but in fact, his psychology is always tight, and he is afraid that he will not be able to do it one day. Therefore, he pays attention to health, exercises regularly, and pays attention to taboos when eating.

Many times he is not afraid that he will not be able to do it, but that he is afraid that he will fall, which will have a certain impact on our family. Especially for my mother, he is the pillar of her life. I think he's actually pushing himself to get better and take life seriously every day.

But I think that's a good thing for him. It is better to live responsibly than to live without responsibility.

Third, you can say it, but you can't do it. Although we often tell ourselves to live each day as if it were the last day of our lives. He also said that if I had cancer, I would travel the world.

When you actually have cancer, you don't think that way. There is such a landmine buried in the bottom of my heart every day, which really makes people live a very depressing life. Few people can truly forget their pain.

And what we do is to enrich every day of life, so that he does not leave regrets.

Late stage pain, bed life can not take care of myself, long bed in front of the barren, only to remember that the father who hurt me has passed away, and the daughter who is attached to me is too young. No one pours water but thirsty, when to drink? How many times?

And it's cooler, and the hot spots are not up to you. Don't drink pull down. Defecation and defecation, outside of the scheduled time, attract boredom, too many frequencies and reprimands, and sometimes it is really difficult to scream.

Turning over couldn't help, I forcibly turned over, and the wound sprained again and again. Now I am still taking care of my mother's relatives, if I am a nurse, it is strange not to be slapped? How to swallow that breath and end it smoothly.

I hope my daughter doesn't be sad for too long. How could I be terminally ill, and my daughter must be forced to accept that her self-confidence will be severely damaged?

I want to open, look down, let go, I am a cancer patient with multiple metastases, live my own every day, live a happy life, anyway, everyone has a death, I don't want anything, play optimistic and positive.

Ten years ago, I learned that I had cancer, I made a wish to Guanyin Bodhisattva, if I could, I worshiped the Buddha all my life and did good eating vegetarian, now ten years later, my body is very healthy, thank the Buddha Bodhisattva for his mercy.