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Such people are basically selfish and self-interested, so they will ignore the feelings of others. They all live more relaxed, as long as they are happy and happy, anyway, the feelings of others have nothing to do with him, and there will be no sad emotions. And I am precisely the person who cares about the feelings of others, which will cause me to live a tired life.
To say that people who ignore the feelings of others are not good, there is no ** bad, they just live more freely. Are you saying they're selfish? That person doesn't kill for himself, I think everyone is a person with this character, but they show it a little more obviously.
My colleague fell out of love, and then she was in a bad mood and began to put all her emotions on others, and we kindly comforted her and cared for her, but in turn she was beaten down. I'm so weird, do I still have to look at her face? I remember that time, when we ordered food at noon, she didn't eat this and didn't eat that, and then it happened that other people also needed to eat, and I saw that we didn't eat as much as he liked to eat, so I kindly reminded her, "Why don't you two order it, you don't like to eat this of us."
And she changed her face and said, "Oh," and she started to show me her face, and I was so drunk
Then, she turned around and said, "Ah, I've been in a bad mood lately, and I've been offending people all the time, so don't worry about me." So what's the point of saying that now? I won't care about anything with her anymore, I can only say that I silently began to reject it in my heart, and I don't have much of a good impression.
It's nothing to fall out of love, who hasn't fallen out of love, but you can't bring your emotions to others, and then hurt others and don't take into account interpersonal feelings Typical selfishness.
There are many more such people around me, such examples. Anyway, the final result is that as long as you do this, regardless of the feelings of others, you will definitely be cool and crooked in the end, anyway, you are happy, and your own interests are obtained.
So such people are really carefree and happy, they don't have to hurt their own interests or hurt their own feelings because they take into account the feelings of others. They don't do what they don't like to do, they don't care what others think or do, and they don't force themselves to do what they don't like anyway. They can say whatever they like, no matter what harm they do to others, they will be happy when they say it anyway.
Maybe they can realize that they have hurt others and made others uncomfortable, but they don't care.
Such a person may not be able to eat in this society, and it is easy to offend people. But if I can become such a person, I think it will be a good thing for me
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It doesn't matter, everyone has their own way of being a person, the kind of person who ignores the feelings of others, how he likes to be a person, then let him be! This is people's freedom, we can't control it, we can only say that if such a person ignores your feelings and makes you very uncomfortable, it is better to stay away from him. It's not a big deal, don't be angry or careless, everyone has a temperament, the pattern of life should be big, and it's yourself who is too tired of worrying, which is too cost-effective.
I often teach my children that if anyone makes you feel uncomfortable, you should stay away from him, and if he goes too far, then you have to make him feel more uncomfortable, in fact, this is not good, but children will not protect themselves, so it can only be so.
It seems that my personality has become impatient since I had children, and I used to be a very calm person, and my personality was very slow. I often meet the kind of people who have nothing to do with looking for people, which is annoying, but I always laugh it off, what about meeting people who ignore my feelings? It's good that he ignores me, so I don't have to laugh with him or respect him.
What a hassle! In fact, it's the same now, I don't care if others ignore me, now when I go out, I still hope that everyone ignores my existence and my feelings!
It's really hard to get along with people, there are always too many suspicions and calculations between people, it's too complicated, so when I go to a place where there are many people, I silently recite a sentence in my heart, I can't see me, I can't see me, I feel like I've done something wrong. But in fact, I really don't want to have any dealings with strangers, there are not many friends, it is enough to have a few sincere people, and other negotiations feel redundant. It's better to ignore my feelings so that I don't have to care about your feelings, more is better than less, why not be happy!
The two eyes are facing each other, you have me in your eyes and I naturally have you in my eyes, and I can't have you in my eyes when you don't have me in your eyes.
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Why should I value you if you ignore me, I am so good to you, but you turn a blind eye. I think about you everywhere and ignore my feelings, and I never think about how I will feel when I am left out in the cold by you. People who only care about their own happiness and don't care about the feelings of others have few friends.
In general, if I ask someone some questions and say that they ignored me the first time and ignored me the second time, then I won't say it again the third time. Because I know that even if I say it a thousand times, he still ignores me, he is the kind of person, no matter how many times you say it, he will not change his own inner thoughts. Therefore, when dealing with people who ignore the feelings of others, I have no choice but to use the way you ignore me and I ignore you.
Although this method is not very good for the relationship, it is also a solution to the problem. If he has something, he will naturally come to you, and if he doesn't, he won't come to you at all, so you don't need to pay too much attention to this kind of person's thoughts. If he ignores it, ignore it, as long as we see it ourselves.
It's also a day to be happy, and it's also a day to be unhappy, and you don't have to ruin your day's happiness for some unworthy people.
I think that someone who ignores the feelings of others is either cold and unsuitable for communicating with other people, or she hates you and doesn't want to talk to you at all. And the worst case is that this person has a bad temper, he doesn't know how to respect people, and he doesn't know how to communicate with people. This kind of person usually has few friends, because he doesn't know how to understand each other.
This kind of person who ignores the feelings of others is not suitable to be friends, even if you want to guide him to correct the mistake, it is very difficult. Because he doesn't know how to take into account the feelings of others and only cares about his own inner thoughts, he says, just be yourself. Don't care too much about what others think of you or how they feel about you!
Just go your own way and be happy!
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A person who never considers the feelings of others, only feels that he is the protagonist in life and in this society, never cares about the details of others, and does not care about anything about others, this kind of person will not even have a friend! A person who only thinks from his own point of view, will only think about himself, will never care about other people, will not care about what happens to others, this kind of selfish person will become more and more unreasonable, he thinks that he is the most important, no one can deny what he identifies, maybe his relatives will stay away from him! A person who only focuses on himself when he encounters things will only take himself as the focus of his affairs and love to be in the limelight!
He always thinks that he is the final winner, this kind of person will shirk his responsibility when he encounters bad things, and will definitely push his responsibility to the end! But in the end, it is still himself who is punished, and no matter how clever he says, it will be useless, because the eyes of the masses are bright! A person like this will not be cared for by anyone, and those who really love and care about him will not be able to stand his selfishness and leave him!
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