Now some young people are always alone in their lives, what do you think?

Because young people's ideas are different from their elders, they are avant-garde, and they feel that they can't live alone, he, they can use their own money except for the elderly, they will not bear obligations for their children, and they will not have their own life is not as good as others, there is a lot less responsibility, they feel that they are happy enough, some girls want to open and their income is also related, they even have a higher monthly salary than boys, they feel that they support themselves very well, single is not a big deal for them at all, That like the previous generation, marriage and childbirth is a responsibility, in order to pass on the ancestry, it seems to be an indispensable task, the times have changed, the society has developed, the emergence of new things is not strange at all, the new things created by the times do not have to make a fuss, everyone in the world has the right to choose their own way of life, as long as life is happy, optimistic, integrity, integrity, how to be happy and how to live, there is nothing to blame.

Society is too impetuous, and individual people are also impetuous. People of our time are not imprisoned in their minds, have no ideas of their own, and are completely limited by the rules of society, as they were in the feudal era. It's not like the advanced youth at that time, who has their own beliefs and ideals.

At that time, they seemed to have forgotten everything and just burned themselves to the fullest. And now we all seem to be busy, money and power have become our only pursuit, and the only standard of success in society. Everyone is busy chasing what most people think is success.

We, the 8090s, too, because of the so-called higher education, have our own opinions, but lack recognition from ourselves. We are always looking for ourselves and our other half in confusion. only to find that everyone had no time.

There's no time to manage a relationship, there's no time to run in with each other.

In fact, I think it's normal, because there are many people who like to be alone and don't like to live with others, and there are even many people who don't like to fall in love and feel that it's too troublesome to fall in love

Today's society is extremely rich in material and spiritual civilization, people can get happiness from shopping, entertainment, film and television, tourism, pet raising, reading, fitness, social networking and other aspects, as long as they are willing to ponder, they will not worry about having nothing to do, and a considerable part of these things have affinity with alone.

Now most things are done online, so there are not many friends, some people like to stay at home, there are fewer friends, I think it is better to go out and socialize with people, as the saying goes: reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles, traveling thousands of miles is not as good as reading countless people, the fastest growth is to deal with people.

I think it's normal. It is precisely because of youth that it is the age of hard work, so it is normal to always be alone in life.

Because I am very busy at work, and I want to rest on Saturdays and Sundays, I don't have time to get to know others, so I can only be alone.

I am alone in my life, and sometimes I feel very lonely, and I can only solve things alone, and I feel very lonely.

When I was a child, I liked snails the most, so I had to have a space of my own. Every night when I go home, I play my favorite ** with the stereo, spin and dance, fall down, and shrink in the lazy sofa. Wake up every morning with a light cough, light a cigarette, and jump and water the flowers while brushing your teeth.

Oh yes, if there's another dog, what other half is needed? Isn't that a beautiful life?

I feel okay, I think I can make myself live better, and there is no need to find a partner.

There are some people in human beings who either like to live alone, or are not good at interacting with others, or choose to live alone after coming into contact with people. It's just that when the living environment was bad before, I had to work with people and collaborate with others. With the improvement of the living standard of modern society and the disintegration of traditional interpersonal relationships, more and more people in this part can be qualified to listen to their hearts.

1.Independent, self-reliant.

This is something that every young person must do, and it is also a prerequisite for talking about development. First of all, you have to rely on your parents, relatives and friends, and learn to rely on yourself, support yourself, and gain a firm foothold in society, instead of gnawing at home.

2.There's one thing you can stick to.

It's something that you love and can create value for you in the future, not just indulging in games, TV shows, or other entertainment all day long. Young people should find their hobbies and positioning as early as possible, know what they are good at, and stick to it, have the spirit of specialization, calm down and do one thing, and over time you will become a big thing.

3.Find a life partner and walk hand in hand.

It is indeed a lucky thing to be able to meet your lover at a young age and work together to create the future. This can not only solve the problem of starting a family, but also have the effect of getting twice the result with half the effort, and the work of both parties together will achieve better results.

Contemporary youth are the most active in society.

The most vibrant power.

They have been in everyone's attention.

It has a unique consumption concept and attitude towards life.

Takeaway, health, overtime, stay-at-home", etc.

But when unveiled under the appearance of everyone's "involution".

There is a part of the contemporary new youth.

Have a more optimistic and positive attitude towards life.

Enjoy more youth. Contemporary youth.

While wanting to enjoy convenient access, it is not restricted.

On the one hand, I want to pursue the prosperity of the city and keep up with the trend.

It is necessary to grasp this kind of "multi-enjoyment" just right.

Realistic youth. Focus on the inner richness.

I also want the appearance of good looks.

Quality life is not only about living a wonderful life inside.

It should be matched with bright and bright.

Creative youth. Have dreams, dare to think and dare to do.

This is the attitude of young people.

To be in the city center.

Half bustling, half quiet.

Go to bed early and wake up early, love to read, live a rich life, and occasionally exercise out. The distribution of entertainment, work and study is reasonable and substantial.

Study hard, work hard, work hard, be caring, filial to your parents, and be happy every day.

Go to bed early and get up early, eat breakfast, be good for your health, fish in the workplace, get off work early, and go home to exercise!

I think a young person's life should be colorful, play with friends, have their own living space, live hard, and live optimistically.

Young people should go out and break through, don't stay at home, there are opportunities outside, there are many job opportunities, and you can meet the right one if you are lucky.

Find your goal, don't mess around every day.

Because many young people are usually under great pressure, and the pace of work in destroying the town is very fast, they like to live alone, and feel that it is more comfortable for a person who has no time to feast, which is better for a withered silver person.

This is very good, because young people feel that if they live alone, they can reduce a lot of conflicts and make their lives very happy.

It is because young people are more yearning for freedom, thinking that life alone is very easy, and they don't have to care about what other people think, which is actually better.

According to statistics, there were more than 77 million young people living alone in 2018, and it is expected to rise to 92 million in 2021, and most of the "empty nesters" choose to live alone.

Sino-Singapore Jingwei did a survey (as shown below).

According to the above figure, we can see that most people take the initiative to live alone, and the reason for social development and the fact that people are now paying more and more attention to privacy and security, and avoiding emotional and social activities have increased the proportion of living alone.

In the first picture, what kind of care do empty nesters need? The answer is obvious, counseling and social activities get the same proportion, and this seems to be in our perception.

A sense of security, privacy, and social phobia are increasingly surrounding us, and the pressure from society, family pressure, and marriage fear make most people believe that they want to escape for a short time.

With the development of network technology, we receive more and more information, and what we know and see is far from shocking our three views, such as "Hangzhou sewer", "Thailand killing wife and cheating insurance", "refrigerator hiding corpses"...And other horrific events have been filling our nerves, the pressure of work, the pressure of family, the pressure of age, people's outdated ideas can not keep up with the development of society, prejudice, ridicule ensues...

It's all too much, and we're just young people in our early 20s, 30s, and many of us still feel like we're a "kid" and we need to take a breath.

Take a break, take a break, I'm so tired...

It's too tiring to fall in love, so don't talk about it;

If you are too tired from work, then quit your job;

If you don't want to go out to socialize, then sleep at home and chase dramas and little idols;

We are all changing, and we don't seem to change, but our eyes don't seem to have the light they had at the beginning.

When you're tired, hug yourself, nest in your own small house of one acre and three points of land, learn some skills you like, or sleep in the dark...

Finally, if happiness is too hard, that....Peace be upon you.

Finally, a small question: Are you an empty nest green core to destroy the year? ）

Recently, some people have proposed that young people should not take getting rid of singles as their life goal, and people who are nearly one-third of the dust state are more suitable for living a comfortable life. ......Such a statement has attracted everyone's attention and resonated with many people. Personally, I think this statement is very reasonable, specifically including marriage depends on fate, this matter cannot be forced, a person's life can still be exquisite and decent, and everyone has the right to choose their own way of life and can make their own choices.

1. Marriage depends on fate, and this matter cannot be forced.

If you want to get out of the state of living alone, you must find a soulmate and marry him. ......However, marriage depends on fate, and the person who is really suitable for you cannot be found, let alone forced. ......Therefore, one should take a natural approach to this issue, and only in this way can you adapt to your current state of life and live the life that you are most satisfied with.

2. A person's life can still be exquisite and decent, and there is no need to pursue marriage.

Although the husband and wife are very happy to care for and love each other after marriage, it is by no means the only way to live. He ......In the state of a person's life, he can live according to his own ideas, without having to bear more, and he does not have to worry about the influence of others, so the state of a person's life can reach a state of refinement and decency, and it is completely acceptable to live such a life by himself.

3. Everyone has the right to choose their own lifestyle and can make choices that suit them.

Fundamentally, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. ......On this issue, whether it is suitable for oneself is the only criterion, and there is no need to care about whether one's choice is the same as that of others. ......Therefore, for a person, as long as he is sure that he is suitable for himself and can make himself happy, he can make a choice in his life and live a happy life in the way he likes.

Single minds are free and relaxed, living alone is very relaxed, you can arrange a lot of things, you can do what you like in your own way, and you don't have to take into account other people's thoughts and sayings. People who like to be alone don't waste time dealing with complicated relationships that aren't necessary.

2.Single time belongs to yourself, today I am ready to climb the mountain, go to sports, travel lightly, say go, what you want to eat today you can make a meal for yourself, the color and flavor are all full of punch and fight God, do it yourself, as long as you like it. Spend time with your parents, chat, and enjoy happy times.

3.Being single is more confident, doing what you are interested in, and you can go all out to do it, because only by working hard will you make yourself better, a simple life, and more efficient work. Learn to be alone, clear your mind, and choose different decisions.

After experiencing a lonely life, you will become more courageous, fearless, and determined, and you can live a good and fulfilling life alone.

There are good and bad things about a person's life! Sometimes it's very comfortable and free! Sometimes, a person is very lonely and confused!

Now there is a phenomenon in society that more and more people choose to live alone. Whether you're in your 30s or 40s and still unmarried, or you've been living alone since your divorce, you can always find some of these people around us.

Nowadays, more and more people prefer to live alone. I think there are mainly the following reasons.

The current material conditions are abundant, and there is no stress in life.

People exist as solitary individuals, and loneliness itself has always existed, just to survive, and everyone has become a group. In primitive societies, it was difficult for a person to survive, let alone a natural disaster. Even a beast of prey can kill a person.

Therefore, we hunted together, lived together, warmed together, and formed a primitive tribe.

We live in a society that is not what it used to be.

The material conditions are extremely abundant. In addition, everyone can get the material things they need to live through their own abilities. He didn't need to rely too much on some of the people in Dusty Feast. This is the material condition in which a person can survive.

Although more and more people are joining the ranks of living alone, this phenomenon has not been really discussed. We like to encourage young people to find their own way of living, but it's unclear whether living alone is the best option for them. We worry about our friends and family, and we don't know if they've found the best way for them, even if they insist that they're doing well.

We support our elders in their quest for a new life after being widowed, but we don't know if they are insincere when they say they would rather live alone.

In addition to economic factors, there are also socio-cultural changes. Late 19th century. The famous sociologist Durkheim established an independent object and method of study for sociology, which is different from philosophy, physiology, and psychology, that is, social facts.

He expounded the structure, function, and causal relationships that exist between social facts, and formulated a series of empirical rules for sociological research. However, the phenomenon of modern solitary living has gone far beyond Durkheim's theory; Not so long ago, people were unhappy with their spouses and had to explain to the courts if they wanted to divorce, but now the no-consent and no-fault principles make divorce easier. In such a modern cultural context, why do so many people still choose to live alone?

Those who want to get married but can't find a partner. The main thing here is to talk about those whose own conditions, including external conditions, economic conditions, family conditions, and so on, are not good. It's not that these people don't want to start a family, it's really not good, especially now that high bride prices are prevalent in some places, so some people really can't afford to marry, so they have to go alone.

I don't want to get married at all. Nowadays, there are many young people who advocate freedom, yearn for a simple life, and do not want to be dragged down by their children in the family. In the past, this may have been unthinkable. But as society progresses and parents become more tolerant, this group may grow stronger.