What should I do if I am reluctant to spend money on the girl I like?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Can't afford to spend money? So what are you willing to spend? If it's not a particularly wasteful kind, or an expense that you can't accept, I think proper consumption is a must for lovers.

    If you're still in the middle of the story, I don't think you're fit to be in a relationship for the time being. Let's talk about it when you are willing to do so.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Find a girl who is willing to spend money for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really love her, you should give, even if in the end you don't have it forever. But since we are together now, we have to love well. Love is not a transaction, you can't just look at the benefits, for the people you love, for your beautiful dreams and future, why not pay more money?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Kill yourself and the girl takes your money.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is a confusing question. Finding a girlfriend is a must to spend money, after all, two people need time to communicate and get to know each other, and it is certainly best to construct a romantic atmosphere. Furthermore, relationships cannot be built on the basis of money.

    It's up to you to grasp this degree yourself. Generally, it costs a lot of money in the early stage, and the man generally checks out the bill for meals, and when the two of them are together in the later stage, they basically spend almost the same.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's actually good that you have this idea, and you can save money.

    Just, I want to ask you, do you love her?

    When two people are really in love, there will be no question of whether it is worth it or not. Your first worry is actually in yourself, unrequited love is indeed a bit fake in real life, but your worry makes people feel that you think that the girl who is in love with you is actually not worthy of your liking.

    Your second worry, in fact, I think it is appropriate to spend some money for your girlfriend, and when you see her smile when she receives the gift, I believe that as a boyfriend, you will also feel a little sweet. You can do what you want. If you can save, you will save.

    There is a saying that I don't know if you have heard, money is earned, not saved.

    The last question is not whether you are willing to spend money on the girl you like, but whether you like her (of course, I don't mean that you just like her by spending money on her. Or whether she's worth your liking.

    Girlfriends should also be considerate of their boyfriends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Find a girl who doesn't care if you spend money for her.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Think about why you like her, how much you can pay for her, don't force it if you don't get along.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let go of the flowers, eat as much as you want....At the beginning, my brother was too, and he dared to ask for a thousand in his pocket, but he didn't expect that the last calculation would be less than two hundred.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can do something meaningful with her for less money.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I've been ambiguous with you.

    We all know that if a guy likes you, then he will always pursue you and want you to be his girlfriend. But if you have a boy who always maintains an ambiguous relationship with you, but there is no further development between you, it is very likely that the boy is just using you as a spare tire.

    Or a pastime when I'm bored, I don't really like you, I just want to pursue you and make you her girlfriend. Break my word to you often.

    Usually, although he always says that he is very busy, he will also take the initiative to ask you out, such as taking the initiative to ask you out or when to go out to the movies and dinner. But when it comes to the appointment, he will always say that he just has work at hand that has not been completed, and there is no way to go out shopping with you, and then he will say that he will go out with you next time, and so on, and in the end you may not go out once.

    You must know that a person who likes you will do everything possible to contact you, and those who don't want to contact you must do so because they don't like you. Ambiguous with others.

    If you find that he is having an affair with you and is having fun chatting with other girls, and is always intimate with other girls, then it is enough to prove that he does not like you. You know, if a guy really likes you, then he will keep his distance from other members of the opposite sex and will not make you feel insecure.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm glad to answer for you, but that's my personal opinion below.

    Boys are reluctant to spend money on a girl to see if she has any value to boys. In the vernacular, you have to see what this boy pictures. Although love is pure and immaculate, it is true that there are all kinds of conflicts of interest in human interactions.

    First of all, there is a premise, why do boys spend money on girls, and what is the purpose. Second, liking or not and not spending money for her are two different things, girls don't think that spending money for you means liking you, and not spending money for you means not liking you. There is too much chicken soup for the soul on the Internet, so you must have a discerning heart.

    Third, men and women are equal, even more so economically, if you want not to fall into the disadvantage in love, it is best to be financially independent, boys can spend money for you, and you must also have the financial ability to pay it back at any time.

    I hope you like me and give me a five-star review.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Generally speaking, a guy is willing to spend money for her only if he likes the girl very much, and he can do anything.

    But it is not excluded that there is another situation, the boy does not like girls, but in order to save face, he will still spend money for girls. Usually this kind of boy is just for face, and he doesn't care who spends money for whom.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Guys don't like a girl's words. He wouldn't be willing to spend money on her. Because there is no need to spend any money and energy on him. Because he didn't want any response from her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Whether a boy likes a girl or not can't be judged by whether he is reluctant to spend money on her! Isn't there such a saying: "The boy who is willing to spend money on you may not like you, but the boy who is not willing to spend money on you must not like you!" ”

    In reality, love and non-love cannot be judged simply by whether they are willing to spend money on you, but also need to make a rational distinction from various details of actions and feelings towards you! There are many ways for everyone to love others, and people with different personalities have different ways of expressing and treating love! Whether you really love you or not, only the heart of the person who is being knows it!

    Love needs to be felt with the heart, not just misjudged by feeling.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, because money is really important to a person. Of course, there are some rich children who are different, they have a lot of money.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No. Some boys always talk about I love you and I like you, but they are reluctant to spend money on her, waiting for the girl to pay for everything, and all kinds of excuses when he wants him to pay, either the phone is out of battery, or he forgot to bring his wallet....When a girl buys him a gift, he accepts it with peace of mind, and what he wants to buy for a girl, he always thinks it's expensive and that's expensive, and the whole iron rooster is, probably this kind of person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, it won't. Boys are like this, if they don't like it, they won't spend money on her, and for the girls they like, she is very willing to buy her the best things, just asking her to be happy!

    That's why there is such a saying, whoever a man likes will spend his money on.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    A guy doesn't like a girl, he won't be willing to spend money on her, even if he spends money on her sometimes, it's just out of politeness, or if he has something to ask for, he doesn't like him and won't spend money on her for no reason.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A guy doesn't like a girl, he is absolutely reluctant to spend money on a girl, he doesn't like you, he hates you when he sees you, not to mention spending money on you and likes you, he spends money.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personally, I think that if a boy doesn't like the girl, he won't spend money for her, so as not to be misunderstood, so generally boys won't spend money on girls they don't like.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It should be divided into two situations, one is relatively willing to spend some money on girls you don't like, and the other is to completely ignore girls you don't like, let alone spend money.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Personally, I think that men don't like girls, and they won't be willing to spend money on her, because this kind of man will not pay too much for him, and he will pay too much for the person he likes.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I really don't like a girl. Of course, I won't be willing to spend money on her! There is a face to the girl you like. The boy will not hesitate to spend money on him!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Girls who don't like boys, all of them stay away, don't want to take care of it, and naturally they are not willing to spend money on girls.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Out of politeness, a man will not care too much about money, the so-called "willingness" refers to the degree, and if you don't like it, you will not cross that degree.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Guys won't be willing to spend money on girls they don't like. If you spend money on girls you don't like, it is easy to cause unnecessary misunderstandings.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    A guy who likes a girl will definitely not be willing to spend money for her, he will only spend the money on the person he likes.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, whether a boy likes a girl or not, as long as he asks for her, he will be willing to spend money on her.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, if you don't like it, the boy will definitely be reluctant to spend money on her, because he is not willing.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    doesn't like her, how can she spend money on him, just like the person who likes to spend money on him, he doesn't like him a little, he sends him money, is it always bad for him to have money? No, I don't think people who can't are really realistic, especially men, she is very special reality, and this is an era that is now a reality, who would be so stupid, just give money to someone you don't like.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's not a matter of spending some money now, and it doesn't matter if you like it or not. In a modern society with a strong human touch, there is a lot of material, and it is normal to buy something. It is not advisable to use spending money to consider whether a boy likes a girl.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Looking at the economic situation, if the man's economy is very good, he does not necessarily like it emotionally when he spends money on girls. If the conditions are average, and you save money for girls, then you must like it.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If the family is rich, it is difficult to say. Of course, there are some people who want to find some confidence in themselves. Make yourself look a little more beautiful. Some people still like to look like this.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    How much does it cost? Sometimes your eyes look at some.

    There is a category of people who measure people and things by money. There are more useful ones, less useless ones, and more favorite ones, but those who want to break up are also more generous. This money is not a matter for him, but the person who receives the money often thinks a little too much and keeps adding drama to himself.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Boys not? Like a schoolgirl. Will you be willing to spend money on her? If that's the case. Girl. He wouldn't be willing to spend money on her. If it's the guy she likes, she'll be desperate. For what she paid for. It's very expensive.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Why would you be willing to spend money on someone you don't like at all? All efforts are hoped for and asked to be rewarded, and no one will be stupid to always know how to pay and not ask for returns.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    When a guy doesn't like a girl, he won't be willing to spend money on her, and he doesn't even want to pay attention to her.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Summary. First of all, the relationship is a two-way street, even if your girlfriend is willing to spend money for you, but if you don't like her, then the relationship may not be healthy and long-lasting. Secondly, if you are only with her because she is willing to spend money for you, then the relationship may also cause unnecessary pain and disappointment for you and her.

    The best way to do this is to be honest with your girlfriend about what you really think, and how to handle the situation together, based on respect and honesty.

    First of all, the relationship is a two-way street, even if the girlfriend is willing to spend money for you, but if you don't like her because of the orange, then the relationship may not be healthy and long-lasting. Secondly, if you are only with her because she is willing to spend money for you, then this relationship may also bring unnecessary pain and disappointment to you and her. The best way to do this is to be honest with your girlfriend about what you really think, and how to handle the situation together, based on respect and honesty.

    I used to like him behind Huai Jian, I know that after this night work, he also did something out of the ordinary even if he spent money for me, but I would feel uncomfortable in my heart, I know that he loves me very much, and he is willing to spend money, what should I do?

    He wasn't willing to spend a penny of me. I was also very willing to spend money for me, and I told him that my mountain dates had no money, and he would turn 11,000 yuan.

    If you know that he has done something out of the ordinary after working at night and it makes you feel uncomfortable, then you need to seriously consider your own psychological feelings and values, and communicate openly with him. If you can't tolerate his behavior, then you need to consider whether you can continue to be with him. If you decide to be with him, then you need to build a relationship of mutual trust and respect, as well as respect for each other's feelings and needs.

    Just because he spends money for you doesn't mean he can do whatever he wants, you need to communicate your feelings and thoughts with him, let him know your attitude and bottom line on these things, and ultimately, you need to work together and respect each other's decisions.

    Do you think she's wrong?

    It must be wrong, dear

    So don't be together.

    He did something out of the ordinary, it was wrong, and he couldn't be forgiven.

    That's up to you, dear

    I just don't know, I want to consult.

    So what do you really think about leaving now?

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