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Don't wait deliberately, the risk is too great, the risk is: 1 You may be a stand-in 2 The power of time is very great, and the possibility of changing hearts with each other is great, that is to say, you can wait for him for 6 years, he may not be able to wait for you for 6 years. If it were me, I wouldn't wait, which seems to me extremely stupid.
Harm: 1,6 years is almost all of youth, and spending youth is actually betting on the happiness of your life, and it is extremely risky. I'm not going to destroy myself because of someone who's not even sure if I'm a stand-in for him.
In 2,6 years, a normal person should enjoy normal sweetness and happiness, and I can't give up my happiness because of anyone. In other words, the worst outcome for you is a lifetime of irretrievable happiness. Did he make you wait for him for 6 years?
Or think for yourself. If it were him, he couldn't be more stupid, he didn't promise you that you would kill yourself if you were willing. If he asks you to wait, I wonder what his sense of responsibility is?
Don't think that responsibility is a must for everyone, that is, the result may be 1, the perfect ending 2, he breaks his promise, and you end up with the worst. 3. He is responsible for you but has no intention of you, so he will not be happy. So let's go with the flow.
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I don't dare to say that I can wait for six years, and I advise you not to do it either, after all, this society is still realistic! But I like a person but I like him for six years, and it can be said that I still like him a little faintly, and time will change everything. I've made friends during this time, but I always feel inferior to him, probably because of the good memories he left me.
In fact, sometimes it's a bad thing that everyone is not together, and sometimes it is because they are not together that they can make a good impression on each other, and if they are together, they may find that the two people are not suitable. In people's subconscious, they still feel that what they can't get is the best. A woman's youth is very short, how many six years can a woman's best time have?!
Think twice
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It depends on the circumstances under which he called your name wrong!?
If it's in an intimate time, then you need to rethink your relationship!
If it's when he's telling you their story, it's only reasonable to call it wrong!
Love is not waiting! It's fought for!
If you wait for someone worthy of love, 6 years is very hard, but it is worth it!
Waiting for someone who is not worthy of love, 6 years is very astringent and very unwise!
Actually, your two mutual friends may have more say in this, listen to what they have to say, maybe you are the ...... of the authorities
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It depends on whether he is worth waiting for, if he only loves you in his life, he will not fall in love with other people, and you will feel happy with him, then you can wait, if you don't wait for him like this, it will only make you sad, it will only make you waste your good time.
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Call your name someone else's name, you must be very sad I think that if you love him and don't care about being hurt in the future, you are willing to gamble and wait for him, if you can not love him and you are afraid that you will be hurt, don't wait Make your own choice, no matter what the outcome is, don't regret it
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You shouldn't believe that he still hasn't forgotten his ex-girlfriend and misses him all the time.
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I've been waiting for someone for 10 years, and I've had boyfriends during that time, but I've always compared the guys I've been in contact with to him, and the results are all not satisfactory. Still single. We have lost touch for 4 of the 10 years, and this year is the 3rd year of reunion, and I have seen it completely clear that he will never come back.
Don't be as stupid as me, don't wait any longer, no man will last so long The story of Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu is fiction after all, and it is really not worth wasting your youth. But to be honest, I don't regret waiting for him for so many years, I still love him, forever. But if he comes back, I won't accept it.
Love is in the heart, it is enough.
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I should wait, I'm still ready to wait for someone for a lifetime, it's true, I'm by no means alarmist.
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No! A man who really loves you will not let his beloved woman be wronged.
If he wants you to wait.
Explain that he doesn't love you.
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Absolutely not, not believable. He's lying.
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No. There is no man in the world who can be trusted.
Including myself.
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Wait and find a new love.
Youth is short, what kind of concept is 6 years for a woman.
Life is short, the most important thing is to be worthy of yourself, and any selfless dedication is empty words.
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If it were me, I wouldn't have waited that long, and if it's good, I'll miss it, and it's not worth it, do you know what he's going to be like in 6 years.
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Look at who said it this way, there are very few such people! Let the action prove it!
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Thousands of people are waiting for nothing, and death is in vain, and the death of a man like this is in vain.
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How many 6 years does a woman have?
He was too selfish to do so.
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It's really hard to let go of someone you once worked so hard to love, maybe the people around you will laugh at you, it's really stupid to wait for an impossible person, but you will still silently choose to wait.
Two years is not long, but it is not short, in the two years of waiting, you will also feel that you are really ridiculous, you don't know how many times you have struggled in your heart, but whenever you want to give up, you will find a reason to persevere. For the past two years, you have been waiting for him, and he has been moving forward, and the distance between you can only get farther and farther apart, until finally he really disappears into your world. You habitually send messages to them, habitually say goodnight to them, habitually think of them every day, but when you don't get a response to these habits, don't try to please someone anymore.
Of course, if they greet you every day, take good care of you, and comfort each other, then it's okay to wait for them for two years.
Therefore, waiting for a person for two years mainly depends on the attitude of the other party, if the other party has been particularly enthusiastic and concerned about you, and you also care about the other party, then it is worth the wait.
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Sometimes you can love someone, but you should never waste your time for her. Everyone's youth is very precious and irreversible, and if you bet on your youth, then your future life will definitely not be good. So, no matter who you love, whether you have the opportunity to be together or not, you still have to grasp the time.
Sometimes it's too long, and even if you love each other, you should never be together.
Don't be fooled by the love that touches you.
Some feelings are because the other party is moved by your sincerity and behavior, so the person who will be with you often does not really love you. Often her love is just a recognition for you, but he doesn't want you to waste your time on him in vain. So for this kind of relationship, don't think that spending a long time together is the beginning of love, which is often the end of your love.
Don't always be full of illusions.
There are always some people who have fantasies in their minds when they pursue love, fantasizing about the life of two people together. But it can only be said that this is self-confusing yourself, and such feelings will eventually find that you have gained nothing. Love sometimes needs the right time, the right place, and this does not include fantasy.
So if you really fantasize too much, then in the end you will know your innocence, often fantasy is the beginning of your persistence, but this is also the end of your love.
Don't think that there is hope for such a life.
Some people feel that having a lover in their hearts is a good emotional sustenance, but often the more you do this, the easier it is to reject others. This kind of life will also make you really lonely and old age, so emotional sustenance should also find someone you can be with. Don't always have illusions about people who can't be together, which will make you doubt love and frustrate.
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Would you wait two years for someone? Oh, oh, I personally think about it, it depends on whether that person is worth your wait, if the relationship between two people is good, then it doesn't matter if you wait for two years, if two people don't feel it, then don't say it's two years, and you don't want to wait for two months, right?
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Yes, as long as you only have the mentality of one person in your heart, let alone two years, it should only take a long time to fade away, at least I haven't forgotten it for three years.
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I won't, the clock hand is turning, people's hearts are changing, you never know what will happen in the next second, the world is impermanent.
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If it is under certain conditions, I will wait for two years, after all, two years is not a long period.
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It depends on whether the person is worth waiting for two years, if you both love each other, then the time is not a problem, if it is just unrequited love, it will be difficult.
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Would you wait two years for someone? First of all, I want to say why this person asked you to wait for two years because she told you to wait two years, my marriage or we should be friends first, if she is because of her career, she doesn't think about waiting for two years or more, if she doesn't like you anymore, you should let go.
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If you really love someone, what is it to wait for two years, as long as this person is worth waiting.
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If the relationship is worth it, it's okay, and it's not too long.
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Would you wait two years for someone? If you think it's worth waiting, then you can wait even for five or ten years. Is it worth waiting?
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I'm a person I like so much, and I'll wait until he shows up.
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When you are in school, everyone is young and can wait, but it's different when you come out to mix, you don't have time to wait, you have to make money, who has time to wait for you?
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If I really like someone, I'll wait.
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Look at the age, it's not the same age.
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If he owes me money, even if it's 200 years, I'll wait.
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I would choose to accompany you for five years. Love without companionship rarely lasts.
There is a question on Zhihu: "What kind of person is the person who loves you the most?" "One of the high praises is:
Someone who is willing you to spend your time for you. "That's true. In this world, the most beautiful, the most precious, and the most irreversible thing is time.
When someone is willing to spend his most precious time with you, to be considerate of you, and to care for you, it means that he really loves you.
One. Companionship is the most affectionate confession
It is said that companionship is the most affectionate confession, and this is not true at all. If you love each other, you should make time for each other and manage your relationship.
Isn't the meaning of our efforts to give ourselves and our beloved half a better life, and to be happier with each other? If your work makes you so busy that you don't even have time to spend with your other half, then what is your effort for?
In love, companionship is a mustDon't walk too long and forget why you set out. I hope that every pair of lovers can accompany each other.
Two. The quality of companionship determines the quality of the relationship
Companionship is indeed important, but we must not accompany for the sake of companionship, but value the quality of companionship.
Since you have started to accompany you, please be single-minded, pay attention to your partner's needs, listen to your partner's expression, let each other communicate heart-to-heart, and let your partner feel seen by you, valued by you, and needed by you.
Three. Companionship is a habit that needs to be cultivated
We know that companionship is important, and we also know that the quality of companionship will affect the quality of the relationship, but there is another point, companionship is not based on mood, but a habit that we need to adhere to.
Falling in love is not playing at home, we need to be attentive, just like raising flowers, we must be patient with watering and fertilizing. Although we may not be able to accompany each other every day, we can at least achieve high-quality companionship 2-3 times a week. Relationships need to be managed carefully by both parties, rather than being treated casually and sloppily.
Companionship, not three days of fishing and two days of drying nets, we need to continue and become a habit.
Companionship is the most affectionate confession, so the most romantic thing I can think of is to spend a long time with you.
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One is the person who has been waiting for you for five years, and the other is the person who has been with you for five years, both of them are the most unbearable people in life, no matter which one you choose, it will cause irreparable damage to the other party, so this is a difficult and cruel choice, but for me, I would rather choose someone who has been with me for five years.
1.As the saying goes, "you must know how to cherish the person in front of you", this person in front of you is really the person in front of you, he can be by your side without asking for anything in return, which means that she really loves you, he would rather pay for your pity than leave, so I think we should cherish the person in front of you.
2.Although the person who has been waiting for you for five years and the person who has been with you for five years also loves you and is willing to give everything for you, no one can guarantee that in five years, the person who is waiting for you will not have her own life, her own life, even if she still likes you after five years, but will you still disturb her life? It's better to cherish the moment and choose someone who is willing to be with you for five years.
3.Five years is not long or short, even if you like the person who has been waiting for you for five years, in these five years of getting along, you dare not to fall in love with the person who has been with you for five years, people's hearts are flesh and blood, there will always be times when the heart is soft, even if you still choose to wait for you for five years, are you sure that in the five years, you still love the person who has been waiting for you for five years? Maybe for the person who has been with you for five years, it's just the real emotion you don't dare to face in your heart.
For such a choice is naturally painful, no one wants to face such a choice, whether you choose to wait for you for five years or choose to accompany you for five years, you will have a heartbreaking feeling, you will be sorry for the other one, but you still have to follow your heart, even if you know that it will hurt, but you still have to solve the matter.
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