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First of all, you have to correctly understand this "bullying", according to your meaning, you should say that your classmates are not harmful, humiliation, that is, what you say is not bullying, it may be that they are more active or something, you should communicate with them well, express your thoughts, is it not classmates together, should respect each other, right? And you said that the change in learning I think you should find the reason from yourself, this is a sense of contrast with the previous classmates than you are better, and the current classmates are better than you with the psychological gap, you should transform this feeling into the motivation for learning, university learning is important, but it is also very important to get along with classmates, learning is useful, knowledge and knowing how to deal with people is the main purpose of learning, I hope it will help you.
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Are they bullying you very much, then it's never your problem, I think they are envious, jealous and hateful, relax their minds, or tell the teacher about it, let him change your position, but if it's a joke, don't care too much, it's just a friendly expression between classmates.
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It is inevitable that there will be such and such problems in the interaction between classmates, is it that you think too much, and hit you from time to time, is it another way to communicate? As a junior high school teacher, I advise you not to be careful, be open-minded, and spend your cranky time studying, and I believe you will become the number one. Good luck with your progress.
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You need to go berserk once and tell them that you are not a bully, but the means must be right and the time must be ripe! At the same time, make sense!
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Of course it's resistance, otherwise they will think you're a bully and will always bother you. I'm sticking with you!
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How did I bully you? If you use force, you will fight violence with violence, and if you are in life, you will ask for help from your teacher.
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You talk to the homeroom teacher, explain the situation clearly, and you ask him to help you change your seat. All right.
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I don't know what grade you're in now.
First of all, you have to be clear about where your advantage is for him, if he hurts you, you will use your advantage to hurt him, although you can repay him with virtue, but it is unnecessary for some people. This method will make him feel that he is inferior to you, so why insult you.
Secondly, you have to have a sense of consciousness that you are better than him, you have to have a sense of pride, the kind of person who used to be bullied by you, but now that I have grown up, you are still a childish fool. This kind of thinking will make you not feel inferior when facing him.
Again, his loss of you shows that he is not a good person, at least for you. So you imagine that he is completely mentally retarded, and if you blindly avoid it like you are now, of course he will become even worse and think that you are a bully. So, you have to change and act like you're not a bully right now.
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When you meet him now, don't take the initiative to greet him, wait until he sees you first, and when you greet you, you just need to respond politely, don't have too many words with him, and deal with this kind of thick-skinned person, there is only one trick, that is, ignoring him is older than beating him, I have encountered similar situations, but he doesn't bully me, he is cheeky.
This trick works
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Summary. In fact, many school bullying phenomena are that the bullied child is too cowardly and timid, and the more you are bullied, the more timid you are. Slowly you will get used to it, and you feel that you are okay like this, better than those who are beaten.
Your actions like this will only fuel their arrogance and make them never know how high the sky is.
In fact, many school bullying phenomena are that the bullied child is too cowardly and timid, and the more you are bullied, the more timid you are. Slowly you will get used to it, and you feel that you are okay like this, better than those who are beaten. Your actions like this will only fuel their arrogance and make them never know how high the sky is.
I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?
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