I mind him, what should I do? 20

One, hehe, if you really love him, he really loves you, as long as the two of you are happy, and he has changed because of you, then, you don't care too much about his past, the more you think about it, the more your heart hurts. As long as you truly love each other, let him pass in the past!

Second, if it's just a promise, I want to break off this relationship as soon as possible, the longer it takes, the more hurt you will suffer!

Do you think that God is very unfair, in fact, fate is completely in your own hands, you can choose, since he is unfaithful to you, then why do you care about him? This kind of person is not worthy of your love at all, you are thinking about it, he is so spending, how to live after marriage, so you mind him, you have to break up with him, find someone who really loves you to live a happy life.

It shows that you are still a very conservative girl, the problem of ideology, in fact, the problem you said is very simple, if you like someone, you must love him to be with him, after understanding the nature of love, the problem you said is not a problem! Do you love him? What is love?

I'll show you a story written by Socrates, and you should know the answer after reading it!

Do women really care about their boyfriend's first time?My girlfriend knew that I wasn't my first love and was going to break up, and I was depressed to death....You may not be able to accept it psychologically...You slowly forget about it......As long as he truly loves you, but I think a man will ......... with several womenUnreliable ......Be careful.

Depending on what kind of personality you are, if love is supreme, I believe you shouldn't have much feeling for him, maybe some kind of psychology is dominating your relationship with him.

If you are more realistic, it is better to comprehensively analyze the person's family, background, and the degree of desire for marriage in the current price range, etc., and then decide whether he can give you happiness.

Overall, my feeling is to play or not to play.

This is your own psychological problem, if you really can't solve it, don't be together, otherwise it will be torture for both parties.

You feel disgusting to be around him.

Then let's break it.

It's going to be torture for you in the long run.

Divide it. Don't come with torture.

If you leave, I'll send torture.

God knows what I'm going to do.

Everyone has a certain phobia, which is often called phobia, once people have phobia, the impact on people is great, so people should be phobia in time. So, how to **phobia, the following is an introduction to the methods of people's phobia.

**Phobia Methods:

Don't be too demanding of yourself, pursue perfection too much, and be too demanding of yourself, you will be prone to gains and losses, too concerned about what others think of you, and you want to be recognized by others, so as to lose yourself. Accept yourself as you are, don't care what others think, the more you fear of making mistakes, the more you will feel helpless.

Face it bravely, people who are nervous, in social situations, often show avoidance, afraid that they will make a fool of themselves and do not face it. In fact, avoiding does not eliminate tension, on the contrary, it makes you feel cowardly and makes you blame yourself so that you will be more nervous next time. Moreover, we can't escape for a lifetime, we live in this society, we have to interact with people, sooner or later, we all have to face it.

Accept yourself and build self-confidence, many people who are socially nervous are caused by not accepting themselves and not being confident in themselves, so if you want to change, you must first accept and accept yourself in your heart and establish confidence in yourself.

Don't worry too much about your body's reactions, nervousness is always accompanied by a series of physical discomforts, according to the reinforcement theory, if we pay too much attention to the nervous reactions of certain parts of our body when we are nervous, it is equivalent to reinforcing our nervous behavior. Make it more and more aggravated step by step. And when we don't care about our nervous reactions, the nervous reactions will gradually subside over time because the tension is not noticed and reinforced.

Don't be too obsessed with being the first.

If you want to be less concerned about what others think, don't be too obsessed with being the first in normal times. When you are not capable, it is an illusion to be the first, it is better to let go of this illusion and work hard, if you are the first, you will naturally become the first. If you can't reach the first level of your own ability, no matter how hard you try at this stage, you will not be able to reach the first place.

Don't take failure too seriously.

If you want to care less about what others think, in ordinary times, don't take failure too seriously, and you must understand that failure in life is a very common thing, and it is very normal to experience failure in everything. When you take failure as a matter of course, you don't care too much about what others think.

Take action to change the way others think of you.

If you want to be less concerned about what others think, then in normal times, you must allow yourself to change the perception of others with practical actions. For example, if you like to wear skirts, but some people always say that you are not suitable for wearing skirts, in this case, you must use your own practical actions to find a skirt that suits you, so that people can really understand that you are also suitable for wearing skirts.

Focus on your own needs.

If you want to care less about other people's opinions, then in ordinary times, you must pay more attention to your own needs, and never blindly fulfill others. Sometimes it's not a bad thing to be perfect and understand others. However, if this kind of fulfillment and understanding is too much, it is particularly easy to cause one's own grievances.

Sometimes you have to take care of your own needs. When you're able to take care of your own needs, you'll be less concerned about what others think.

In fact, other people don't care about you that much.

If you want to care less about other people's opinions, in this case, you must understand that in fact, others do not care about you so much, and the reason why you feel this way is most likely because you pay too much attention to yourself. If you attach great importance to what others say, most of them will be more painful, so you must understand that in fact, others don't care about you so much, they may just want to talk about it, and when you understand this, you basically don't care so much about what others think.

I've been in a similar situation before, sometimes expecting too much from the success of something, that is, too much pursuit of perfection.

Sometimes I feel that classmates should respect each other, and then ask others in their hearts according to their own standards, and ask others to achieve their expected goals, if they don't achieve it, they feel uncomfortable.

Now I don't think everyone is suitable to be friends. Because there are many kinds of people, and their personalities are also different. Confucius once said to stay away from villains, never have any contact with villains, and don't believe his words.

I'm not saying that there are too many villains around, I mean that not all the people around you are suitable for dating, if you find that you can't talk to someone, you can boldly give up dating with him, and find the most suitable person for your relationship. People like you don't have many friends, but if you do, you're a good brother.

But I must also strive for self-improvement on this side. Strengthen the requirements for yourself, participate in more group activities, if there are any school class activities to actively participate in, you will find that you actually have something to say to many people as soon as you participate, try. It is also necessary to cultivate their own strengths, people with specialties are different, they will feel that they are not inferior to others, they will increase their self-confidence many times, their specialties are very important, of course, they should have a wide range of interests.