Sun Qian and Cai Yuanhang met through a matchmaker blind date, how to make young people accept to go

There are not many married people in Chinese society now, and there are more divorced people, and the high-intensity work and high saturated working hours in modern society have made young people have a lot less time for free love. The love and marriage of young people is not only a family issue, but also a social issue.

But it has also become a problem for young people to go on blind dates. A blind date is two people who don't know each other, and two families who don't know each other, chatting together for some boring days and having an embarrassing meal. Parents are happy to arrange blind dates one after another, but young people start to have headaches.

As an older single young woman, I have also been on a blind date a few times, the first time was in the presence of my parents, I had an embarrassing meal, and I was forced to add the other party's WeChat, but I didn't talk for a day. The second time was introduced by an aunt I knew, and it was also embarrassing, and I didn't eat it twice. The conclusion is that two people in social circles can't play together, and their lifestyles and ways of doing things are completely differentIn the mouth of the parents, there is a pair.

But there are also many people who have gone on blind dates to get together, Sun Qian and Cai Yuanhang are good examples, and there are many people around me who have entered the marriage hall through blind dates.

But it's really hard to get young people to accept blind dates, and it feels like a century ago. Nowadays, there are unmarried people, there are Dinks, and there are groups that are afraid of marriage. You say that people nowadays advocate freedom, but it's not bad to have a home.

You say you want a home, but you also want to have a sweet love. Although feelings can be cultivated, after all, a blind date is a meeting between two people on the premise of marriage, and it cannot be said that it starts as a friend。Two people who have never known each other have been arranged like this, and it is no wonder that young people are not very receptive to this way.

Unless you particularly want to get married, two people can be together after being introduced and deemed suitable. The festival is approaching, and the peak period of the blind date is coming again, so young people should ask for more blessings.

Explain to young people that blind dates are just a channel for two people to get to know each other, and it depends on you whether you like it or not. A blind date is actually similar to a friend's introduction.

For today's young people, there is no shying away from blind dates, the pace of life is particularly fast, and many young people do not have too much time to think about their personal problems, so blind dates are actually a very normal way to introduce marriage, and they have accepted it.

There are many celebrity couples who meet through blind dates, Kang Hui and his wife are like this, blind dates are able to find true love, you can try to accompany him, so that he has a buffer room.

Let them overcome psychological barriers, accept the facts calmly, and think that there is nothing shameful about blind dates.

Many viewers who like Cai Yuanhang and Sun Qian, the artist couple, know that the two of them met on a blind date and finally fell in love. And it is said that the original Cai Yuanhang refused to go on a blind date, but in the end, under the "pressure" of enthusiastic friendsMeet Sun Qian with a warm attitude of dealing with friends. Unexpectedly, Cai Yuanhang was deeply attracted after seeing Sun Qian.

Therefore, Cai Yuanhang, who initially refused to go on a blind date, found his beloved wife Sun Qian through a blind date.

Before Cai Yuanhang met Sun Qian, he always felt that finding the other half on a blind date was too formalized and purposeful, and even felt a little lost face. As a result, I have always been very reluctant to go on a blind date, and I am very disgusted with my friends' enthusiasm for matchmaking. However, good friends disagreed with Cai Yuanhang's attitude, because friends who were familiar with Cai Yuanhang and Sun Qian at the same time firmly believed that Cai Yuanhang and Sun Qian were very suitable.

Finally, at the insistence of his friend, Cai Yuanhang could no longer refuse his friend's concern for him, so he agreed to meet Sun Qian. Cai Yuanhang originally planned to deal with his friends, and when he met to complete the task, who knows, Cai Yuanhang was moved when he saw this, and Sun Qian also felt good about Cai Yuanhang. After slowly getting along with each other, the two found that they were very compatible with each other and were very compatible with many concepts in life, so they quickly determined their relationship.

Cai Yuanhang and Sun Qian entered the marriage hall after 5 years of love, and after marriage, they also changed from two to a family of three, ushering in the crystallization of their love, and their small life was very sweet and happy. It can be seen that blind date is actually just a channel to know the opposite sex, whether you are excited or not, it only has a relationship with people, and has nothing to do with the way you know. So, single men and women,Don't reject blind dates like Cai Yuanhang did at the beginning, otherwise you may miss a beautiful love.

Give yourself a chance, maybe the other half of your life is waiting for you somewhere.

Because Cai Yuanhang felt that Sun Qian was a more suitable woman for him. And being with her will make you feel happy.

This situation happened because I felt that I would be happier with Sun Qian, the two of them were very happy and happy together, and the most important thing was that the two of them felt very good together.

I used to reject marriage and blind dates, but when I met true love, I felt that it was a natural thing, and the two of them were very comfortable together, and they ended up together.