How to express your thoughts concisely

Many people may feel that it is difficult to express their thoughts directly to others. Many times, when expressing one's thoughts to others, it is difficult to express the main idea to a friend, or it is necessary to describe it many times before others can know what you want to say. Or, you have described it so many times that no one else knows what you want to say, which makes you feel very anxious.

Especially in the workplace, it is necessary to express your thoughts clearly and directly. Whether it's explaining a project to your boss, sharing the progress or problems of a collaborative project with your colleagues, or offering a product or service to your potential customers, if you can't express your intentions in the first place, you will lose at least half of the opportunities. Many people don't realize this, and will always subconsciously blame others for communication problems, or for other people's comprehension skills, and can't get to the point where they speak.

In fact, they are able to evade the responsibility of communication by placing the primary responsibility for understanding what they are saying on the listener alone. After all, it's easier to complain than to take responsibility.

Be confident and don't care too much about what others think about and make yourself nervous and incoherent. The state of the person when speaking has a great impact on the content of the speech, and if you are confident, people can easily be infected by what you say. If you care too much about what others think, it can often backfire.

If you need time, give yourself time to calm down, calm down, and then organize your thoughts and don't rush to express your thoughts because you care too much or are afraid of rejection. Take a deep breath and give yourself time to relax. Everyone has different ideas, and it is not a great thing to say what you think, if you really have different ideas, you just need to learn to communicate with others.

Why not be confident!

Express it as simply as possible. As Albert Einstein once said, "If you can't explain something simply, you don't know enough about it."

So when expressing an idea to others, try to compress and condense your sentences as much as possible. Try to condense your opening sentence to 50 words, and then try to describe each important point in 140 words. This can force you to think over and over again, like pruning a flower branch, leaving only those things that are necessary for styling to show the audience.

Training. Find some celebrity speeches at press conferences, find some highly logical speeches, or more interesting short stories with complex plots, think about them step by step in your head, ponder sentence by sentence, and feel how you should write these things if you write them yourself. Then don't memorize it deliberately.

In your own words. It must be rendered by its own head. These steps are critical.

Think about how you can express yourself in your own words, rather than following the same old path.

Respect the listener's feelings rather than your own desire to express yourself. Good expression is for good communication. Good communication needs to be based on respect. Therefore, before learning to express well, we must learn to respect others.

Sort out your thoughts clearly and express them confidently. When thinking, it can be disorganized. But when expressing to outsiders, you must first be clear about what you want to express, and then you can clearly express it to others, if you don't know what you want to say, then don't expect others to be clear.

First of all, practice eloquence and pronunciation, and make some friends who can speak well. It's not the kind of friend or fox friend who is a dog friend. It's the kind of friend who has a quick mind, no lack of humor, and a smooth sailing in the interpersonal circle.

When you go out to play, play cards and eat together, you have to pay attention to everyone's every move and how everyone speaks. How strangers greet each other, how two people chatter and finally become acquaintances.

Maintain eye contact with your audience. One of the most important areas of body language is eye contact. Not only will this help you gain the attention of your audience, but it will also make you less vigilant. Extended contact with individual listeners can help calm your nervous emotions.