I broke up with my first girlfriend.,I want to cry We re still middle school students in the second

Forehead? I don't understand, who did you mention the breakup?

Many people say that girls are more precocious than boys, so in many ways, girls should see more thoroughly than boys. Since you said you know everything, then you should understand. Many relationships are not broken up because they don't love each other, and in real life, there are many, many reasons that lead to breakups.

The power of love is not something we can estimate, really, love can overcome everything, everything we can't imagine.

If it is said that the grades are affected because of feelings, it can only mean that you are not mature enough, first of all, you are still students, you must focus on learning, and the two of you can study and progress together.

Hehe, lz, I'm the same age as you, are you sure you can really understand what true love is? In the face of a relationship, especially the first love, it feels particularly good, if people let go first, then say goodbye at the fork in the road and disperse. A relationship at such a young age will not come to fruition.

It's better to keep a good memory in your heart, and when you think about it after a few years, you can smile because she has always been so beautiful in your eyes.

If a relationship ends, then when you chase it back, the relationship has deteriorated, and it won't be the way it was, so let's look away, studying hard is the last word.

Little fart kid... Focus on studying, don't fall in love.

In the future, I will think about love when I become an adult.

There is no future without knowledge, study hard, otherwise everything is a floating cloud.

On the road of love, you have just embarked on the journey.

Put away the grief-stricken heart. Yes, study well.

We can meet and see you at university!

Don't be sad, who hasn't experienced a broken love, love is like this, I'm about the same age as you, who said that we are young, we will also cherish what we want, all say that first love is impossible, there will always be happiness and pain on the way to love, and it is precisely because of this that we slowly learn how to fall in love, how to cherish their other half, although the loss of love is painful, but let us learn experience and lessons, can help us find a happier moment. So, smile for what you've ever had.

Don't be stupid, if you study well, are you still afraid that you won't find a girlfriend? It's a waste of energy to fall in love now, and it's worthless at all.

Love and study at the same time, it is best to bring her studies up. To find a common goal, it often lasts for a long time. The goal is different, that is, people in two worlds will have jealousy and insecurity.

Boy cry, cry, cry, no tears!! Girl, ......It's okay, it's a matter of time, not to mention that girls and women have it.

Study hard, and there will be opportunities in the future.

Dude, I'm already in college, do you know who is the best in college? It's just to play all day long, or skip class or sleep in class, but the person who can always get into the top 30 of the department and get a scholarship is the most awesome, so you have to move forward to this kind of awesome, chick soaking, but grades are awesome, if the results of soaking chick are confused, then it can only become two.

I have a friend who has had a similar experience, but he did it by perfecting himself and finding a better girlfriend. Since he chose to leave, it may be just an interface for your grades to drop, in this case, what is there to be sad about, turn grief and anger into motivation, and make him regret going.

Your task now is to study hard, and only after reading the book well can you gain a firm foothold in society, and then you are afraid that you will not have a girlfriend? Even if the two of you dare to be in love now, when you don't have the ability to kick you out of society, this society is so realistic. So study hard, if you have money, you are not afraid of no women.

It's only junior high school, learning is important, and only by making yourself strong enough will you hold what you want tightly.

First love is very pure, very unforgettable, and unforgettable.

Summary. First of all, I think that falling in love and studying are not in conflict with each other, it depends on the love status and self-motivation of the two people, I am also a girl, and what you say is really hurting the hearts of girls.

I'm a sophomore in junior high school, and I broke up with my girlfriend.

It's normal to be upset.

Because you have given your feelings and sincerity in this relationship.

It shows that when you are in love, you are immersed in each other's sweet words and mutual care and care. You are very reluctant to give up this relationship.

Or do you want to redeem or conform to it?

Of course I want to get back together.

Can you take the liberty of asking if it was she who mentioned the breakup? What was the reason for her breakup?

Because I was a sophomore in junior high school, and then I thought about telling him, why don't we break up first, and then we will get back together after the high school entrance examination, and he will break up with me directly after he finds out, and then I say then we won't break, and then he said what you say is what? She also said, you can divide if you want? If you don't want to divide, you won't divide?

First of all, I think that falling in love and studying are not in conflict with each other, it depends on the love status and self-motivation of the two people, I am also a girl, and what you say is really hurting the hearts of girls.

I think you can explain your psychology to her first, and then apologize very sincerely!

Be genuine

And it shows that you want to work hard with her to go to a good high school, which means that you have her in your future.

You are also slowly planning your future, rather than choosing to break up and study hard.

Actually, I think it's normal for girls to be angry, if you really want to redeem it, just apologize and coax it.

However, I think that back to reality, you also have to think about your future, because you are still a junior high school student, and I think you still have to focus on your studies (not that you can't fall in love).

I'm just giving you a little advice as an old senior, so you have to think about it<>

Thank you sister for the suggestion.

And I think you should not miss it when you meet the right person, but you are still very young, and your ideas and views on love may still be a little immature, and when you reach high school, college or even later enter the society, you will be in contact with a lot of people, and you may change your view of love.

After a breakup, you want to save your love.

1. True and false breakups, if you don't know your current state whether you are in a real or fake breakup, I suggest that you can go to wanhui120 to find an article - "True and False Breakups" to learn it.

Because truth and falsehood determine your way of redemption, the way of redemption of a true or false breakup is diametrically opposed. If you are not sure about the authenticity, you will blindly redeem it, and if you use the wrong way to redeem it, it will lead to further deterioration of your relationship.

2. Find out the root cause of your breakup.

You can't just focus on the fuse, and find the root cause for saving the relationship.

If you just apologize and explain desperately for the fuse or the incident that led to your breakup, you think that if you make things clear, you can save it.

In the process of redemption, you send dozens of ** hundreds of text messages a day, send flowers, write letters, send a lot of gifts that the other party likes, apologize to the other party, and even kneel, but you do everything you think you should do and what you shouldn't do. Do you pay a lot, feel tired, but only more disgusted with you, your relationship is becoming more and more estranged, and even blacklist you, avoid you, and finally can't even be friends.

3. Friends who want to redeem their true love can consult your emotional problems on WeChat, in the book "Redemption Standardization Process" in ***wanhui120 (Redeem Love)**. There are many ways to redeem (cold treatment, three-three-three chat, puzzle theory), and how to get along more closely with your lover.

According to you, I feel that the girl doesn't love you anymore because of her family, and you are just an adolescent impulse, and you don't really love him, and you can't go to the end, because it's over, but you're afraid to face it! Give it up! For yourself!