I want to get along with my first girlfriend, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-20
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Keep insisting and don't give up. Brother... Girls can't forget their first love.。。

    What's more, it's because of a misunderstanding... Keep chasing. Can't miss it ...

    I'm doing my best ... My first love (I'm a girl) even though I know he doesn't love me. And the heart of the flower.

    But I'd like to stay with him ... I wish he would see my presence one day ... Let him know that the original match is the best ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Here's a chance! You can tell her that you wait for her and that you will chase her after they break up! In fact, he is also very contradictory, he said that you can't mean that it is impossible now, it does not mean that it will be in the future! Actually, I also missed it, and I regretted it after missing it, and it was late, and you missed it once, don't miss it again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How to say it. Prove it with all actions. And greet her every day, care for her every day, and I believe that her heart is not made of stone.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, it depends on what you think.

    I want to chase Brother Pony to tell you again.

    Brother Xiao Ma said, I have waited for three years, I have to wait for an opportunity, I am not to prove how great I am, I am to prove that what I have lost must be taken back with my own hands.

    I take this phrase as my motto.

    For men, dignity is equal to that of women.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do your best, buddy! Show your love for him in action.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Let's keep going and try it

    Good luck.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I have this too. Just in the past few days...

    I'm so irritable every day

    I can't forget it, I still have to try to chase it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If I don't love you, I won't miss you, I won't be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I won't lose my self-confidence and fighting spirit, and I won't be miserable. If only I could not love you, that would be great.

    It depends on whether she loves you or not, the twisted melon is not sweet, her heart is not in you, what is the use, personal opinion, it may be difficult, let go when you should let go, the twisted melon is not sweet, otherwise the injured will always be unwilling to let go! It's like pulling a rubber band. If you can't help but want to try it, then good luck!

    I think you're still very girlfriend together! It's really not easy to find a girl who loves you! How could you be willing to hurt her?

    Your ex-girlfriend doesn't love you as much as her current girlfriend! You have been in a relationship for 4 years before, she can break up with you so easily, she now thinks that you have a girlfriend, she is just unbalanced! You have to understand!

    You are now saying that you broke up and hurt your current girlfriend, can you bear it? Now that you're in the past with your ex! What else do you want to do?

    If you're happy with your current life, that's enough! I hope for you!

    Downstairs is right, if it's really not suitable, then it's still for long-term consideration, maybe his heart is still very conflicted now, weigh the pros and cons.

    Explain that you still love her, provided that you don't have a girlfriend now, if you have, keep her in your heart, don't say it, even if you dream it, don't say it. If not, if it is not for unforgivable and irreparable reasons that cause the breakup, you have to work harder, and men should be generous. After the effort, it is worth not succeeding.

    Good luck! In fact, I want to say that distance is not necessarily beautiful, it may be a third party, the landlord and his girlfriend are in a long-distance relationship, and a long-distance relationship is not impossible, but be cautious! In fact, whether it is a long-distance relationship or not, you should give each other a space, and if you don't send a text message for half a day or a day, and there is a dispute, this is the landlord's unwisdom. Men should be generous and considerate of their own half.

    She proposes to break up like you, if she is not gay, it means that she wants to find an excuse to break up with you, if you really have the heart, solve the problem face-to-face, mobile phone text message, you can see the love between the lines, but you can't see tears and smiles. Be careful! Hehe, I wish you happiness!

    This kind of thing can't be stopped, maybe you don't feel very good about your girlfriend?

    Or that the relationship between the two of them is deeper than yours, and this kind of thing still can't be forced.

    1.Do you love your current girlfriend? Men are first and foremost responsible for today!

    2.Sexual relations are the expression of love, and the degree of love cannot be described by the number of times, the number of times is determined by the length of time together!

    3.If after the breakup, the position of your ex-girlfriend and your current girlfriend are reversed, will you have the current troubles again?

    Personal opinion.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Women are here, and no one wants to find a man who can care about them. However, after finding it, some people don't know how to cherish it, they don't know how to keep their feelings, so they cause two people to be temporarily separated. After a short break, you are still thinking about each other, but there is already a new joy on the other side, how can there be a new joy?

    Be sure to study so you can avoid losing your favorite people. In a lot of love, I don't know why young people are controlling their emotions. After failure I often start to suffer and I want to reconnect with my lover.

    It is necessary to prepare for the initial initial measures to avoid having new happiness in people who cannot breathe you, to avoid yourself. Learning an integrated approach allows for a more timely recovery and, after the other side has already had a new joy, catches the other side again.

    How to comply with Xinhuan? How do you have new happiness?

    First of all, how to keep the new happiness?

    1.Seeing new happiness in the other person, your inner heart is more comfortable knowing that there is a lot of beauty between two people. However, his purification is only a feeling of vulnerability, and as long as you have a brave one, I am sure that there will be the results you expect, because in his heart, the new joy is still those who are unstable.

    2. Try to contact the other party, you must know that because your heart cannot let go, then you want to be with each other at an early stage. When I have a good idea, I have some greetings with the other side. This person will slowly ease your relationship, and as long as two people learn to forget the past, I believe there are results you want to see.

    Secondly, there is a new joy for the other party to save.

    1.Learn to be attracted to each other. After all, you're the one who knows him. It is necessary to know that your two people are happy on a long road, you must be very clear. At the same time, I had to learn to vote and make others feel like you still cherish so much.

    2.If you wish to defeat the new happiness more safely, you must re-establish a new image on the other side. To understand the image, you know how to make yourself better at any time.

    He will feel that you are still someone to love. People who work hard will not only respect others, but they will also be loved by others.

    While you can't stand your feelings, you also have to learn to reflect on yourself and then take action to see how you need to save.

    Time will always bring you the right person, but the process will take some time and you will need to make some effort. In any case, love, you also have to leave the other party. Even if he has a new joy, you have to see how you feel.

    How to comply with Xinhuan? After understanding, you will find that there are so many emotions between two people because you are too egoistic and will not understand each other very selfishly when two people are very selfish. Only by learning to have two people's feelings and paying more attention to your usual communication, you can make your feelings to a new level.

    Whether it's a man or a woman, I have to learn to reflect on myself and then make changes, only your constant change can make each other feel that the relationship is worth it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think you should refuse decisively, and don't pull and pull with your ex-girlfriend, so as not to hurt your current girlfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You both have girlfriends, shouldn't you say no to your first love? Or maybe you didn't let go of your first love at all, or you didn't like your current girlfriend much and you started to waver. You have to figure out who you really like. I can't be sorry for the two girls at once.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then just reject your ex-girlfriend. An ex-girlfriend is just an ex-girlfriend, the two of you have not been related since the breakup, don't have any first love complex. What is past is what is in the past.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, he chose to refuse to get back together, because he couldn't be sorry for his girlfriend, so he naturally had to be responsible.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't agree with her, and don't tell your current girlfriend about it, this is the right decision.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's okay to refuse, don't step on two boats, or you won't get one in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then don't pay attention to her, because you have your own girlfriend now, you have to be responsible for the current one, and don't have other involvement with the other person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    refuses to get back together, she can be separated from you, it means that there is a problem in the relationship between you, you have a girlfriend, you have to be loyal to your girlfriend, cut off the relationship with your first love, and treat your current girlfriend well.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think if you already have a girlfriend, don't get back together with your first love. Because it's a betrayal of your current girlfriend.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Try it hard. This is not a theoretical issue, but a practical one.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    As long as you give sincerely, she will accept it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on whether the first girlfriend is willing to turn back.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Life is a hard journey, we need to trek, can be with you, through the wind and rain, can only be one.

    However, what you need to realize is that there will be no smooth road in love, love only has ups and downs, only tribulations, and then it is still flat, and then it can be happy. Only by sharing weal and woe can we recess to the existence of each other and the needs of each other.

    To love someone is to love his or her shortcomings, strengths, love everything he or she has, and also learn to tolerate and understand each other; Stretching out your hands to have each other, it should be that while owning each other, you should work together with each other to cultivate your family and career, share joy and success, bear difficulties and misfortunes together, and tide over the wind and rain together. In this way, the love between the two parties will last for a long time.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I hate men like you. After you got angry with your ex-girlfriend, you didn't rationally choose the current girl. And this girl is the first love.

    Rely on trusting you wholeheartedly. You treat her as a substitute. Your wounds.

    Now your ex-girlfriend gets you back. Don't you have an opinion yourself? Hurt this girl by dragging his ex-girlfriend's hand.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's your fault, what is it called to be angry, won't you find a place to calm down yourself?

    What others say is floating clouds, so let's watch and do it yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can't have it both ways, so let's feel it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you choose the current one, you may continue to think about your first girlfriend in the future, especially when you encounter a disagreement between the two, you will feel that your parents can't stand the world for you, and you want your first girlfriend even more, and it is easy for marriage to have problems at that time.

    If you choose your first love, what should your parents do, how do you get along with your parents after your first love, and what is wrong with your current position to bear such pain? It is also a problem that it is difficult to be happy in an unblessed marriage.

    Which is more suitable for you, the first love or the current one, only their people know, and that person is yourself.

    In fact, there is no one who does not marry between people. For example, the first love and the current one, it seems that you think they are not bad.

    Whichever you choose, it must be a deliberate choice that weighs the pros and cons, and once you choose, you must stick to it. Marriage is just a kind of persistence, a responsibility. I recognized this person, I don't regret it, I'm willing to take responsibility for my choice, and then I can go well.

    You are now constantly asking yourself that is the process of choice. Once you've chosen, don't ask again.

    Having said that, having a choice is still happy after all, how many men and women are left, and they don't even have the opportunity to choose. So, you're still happy. The next step is that you have to choose someone who will also give her happiness.

    Bless you!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If the two of you still want to be together, then you will overcome all difficulties and not experience something, and you will not achieve positive results.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you oppose separation, that is not firm, if you oppose that you are not separated, it is worth being together If you want to get married, I advise you to be with the person introduced by your parents After all, marriage is not a one-person marriage.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's up to you to decide.

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