He doesn t want to see me, and I really want to see him, what should I do?

Have you ever heard such a song?

SHE New Song (Love is Right).

I think it's very suitable for people who are out of love, why?

Because this song is teaching us to grow.

If you lose someone, don't listen to his clues, slowly you will find that you have only lost him, but the love is still there, that is, you can continue to love others, you will find that without him, your world is not destroyed, your heart may be very painful, but it is still intact. Time will take care of the rest.

Knowing that you can't let go, however, the more you chase him, the more painful it will become. What if you went to him and saw him with someone else? Even if it's an ordinary female colleague, I'm afraid you'll be jealous when you see it. You'll be more miserable at that time.

You have to understand that what is lost, you can never get it back.

Even if you catch him, eventually he'll leave.

You'll meet the one who is a better fit for you.

Wishing you happiness! Always have to shed some hot tears.

in exchange for the experience of love.

You see, time is not destroyed.

Nor was my heart broken.

The rest will be settled on the delivery time.

Of course you can love again.

How to love and be loved by a wounded person.

Superfluous. You have memories of him anyway.

There are blank memories.

He is the only one who has left you, but love is still there.

Listen to me: love is right.

The mistake is that we haven't learned to love yet.

I am in a hurry to love someone.

And love the wrong person. But.

Love is right. Meet the next one.

If you fall in love, you will love.

Pain or pleasure is mine.

I've certainly experienced how you feel right now.

I think that's a human torture.

Maybe everyone should be someone's growth assistant.

Suffering a little helped her mature.

Don't listen to his leads.

Don't wait for him to turn back.

Love doesn't like to see people weak.

Don't keep your heart shut up.

Don't hide from your sadness.

Don't miss it if love comes.

Listen to me: love is right.

What is wrong is the love that others think they have.

Only then will there be lovers and hurt lovers.

But. Love is right.

It's worth it when you love.

Love can understand.

One of the most important qualities of a man is to be empathetic, do you think this kid is like this? What are you chasing? If you are a big beauty in her eyes, can he play a big role with you?

To know your own shortcomings, the object is not to chase stars, fans of star chasing can throw their worthless silly love to the unreachable Prince Charming at will, but you are looking for a husband, you are looking for a partner who can rely on for a lifetime, and it is not enough to have a silly love.

Friends, calm down and learn to grow!

First of all: he has made up his mind. He's like a frightened bird, you don't have to chase him.

Second: if you really care about him, you have to expect him to do well. At this time, letting go is great love.

Again: it's a beautiful thing to be in love!

Love, sometimes like water, the tighter you hold it, the faster it drains.

Therefore: let yourself be free and easy first, learn to cherish yourself, and you will naturally be favored by the god of love.

Bless you and meet true love soon!

Find something else to distract yourself, look at the tragedy, cry out, find friends, do whatever you want, let the mood go to the lowest point, and it will be ** in a month, it's good after a long time, that's how falling out of love comes over, uh, well.

Since he doesn't want to see you, then don't see him either. Force yourself to forget about him. Why should you think about him, let him come to you, otherwise don't meet again. In front of a man, sometimes you can't be very weak and lose your principles, so that he will also look down on you.

Forget about him, if you really like him, don't disturb his life, leave a little space for him, and leave a little self-esteem for yourself.

Don't do this kind of unnecessary and time-wasting thing. Forget it.

If you want to see him, go find him.

Hehe. To be a woman, you have to have a high profile, I don't want to see you, what if you see him, break your thoughts.

What can you do if you see it, it's better to forget about each other in the rivers and lakes.

Good evening, dear, glad to answer for you. If you can't see him, you can think about him, only for your beloved, you will be haunted by dreams, and if you don't see him for a day, it's like three autumns. I miss him very much when I don't see him for a day, which means that I have fallen in love with that person, I want to be cared for by him very much, and I want to meet him.

This person may be the person you want, the person you love very much, and you have given your sincerity, so you want to see him all day long. It shows that you value each other very much, even beyond time and distance, and put each other in your heart, rather than having to meet to have love. This is often accompanied by distance and longing, and if you can effectively convey this longing to your boyfriend, the relationship between the two of you will surely warm up.

Dear, if you have any doubts, please feel free to ask, I wish you a happy life.

I miss him very much in my heart, but I don't want to see him and contact him again, because he knows that the two of you have no results, it can be seen from this statement that you are a very rational and realistic person for feelings, but I personally think that for this relationship, it should not be dealt with in this way, after all, it is very likely to make the other party sad, the best way is to communicate with each other face-to-face, point out the problems of two people in the relationship, and the future relationship of two people will not be fruitful, The best way is to face and end this relationship with a calm and indifferent state of mind, in the future life, although two people can not become lovers, but they can still become ordinary friends, for such feelings, can not go to the end, but these two people have also left good memories in their hearts, then, for two people, that is, enough, both people need to understand that the real feelings, not possession, but the thoughts and beauty that remain in the depths of the hearts of two people, The two people are no longer in a couple's relationship, although there will be fewer and fewer opportunities to meet in the future, and the frequency of contact between the two will be lower and lower, but as ordinary friends in the past, there is nothing to care about when meeting and contacting moderately, so that the relationship between the two people will not be too embarrassing. After all, they are all adults, and one truth that needs to be understood is that in terms of feelings, there is no absolute right or wrong between two people.

You did the right thing, don't contact if there is no result, and in the end it is you who is sad.

As for love, there are sweet and bitter. Maybe when two people are together, they are determined to be good people for the rest of their lives, but over time, many things may not be as good as they imagined. When we fall in love, we feel like he's the best in the world, but when we really want to separate, the pain can only be truly felt by those who have touched their true feelings.

It has been said that two people who truly love each other cannot be friends because if they love each other deeply, they will want to have, know how not to, and will not be allowed to be friends at all. Everyone has their own reasons for separation, maybe because they don't love, maybe they have to. Then the man who behaves like this after breaking up with you really loves you.

If there is no result, then it is recommended not to contact again, after all, there is no result, there is no need to waste time.

Life is a passerby, since there is no chance to be together, it doesn't matter if you don't see it, but some people's excellent qualities will still touch their hearts, so bless each other with good people from afar!

He must miss you too, anyway, I've been thinking about her, I just want to see her, I don't know anything else.

Let it go when you know that there is no result, stop torturing yourself, and find your own happiness!

The marriage between men and women is really wonderful, not just waiting for the rabbit, men and women love, just the beginning of fate, maybe you are like-minded with each other, the three views of the same thought, this is just a good feeling, to find a boyfriend and girlfriend, talk about marriage, objective facts are very important, such as: temperament and talent, treat people and things, work ability, personality and attitude, economic foundation, living conditions, self-motivation, family concept, filial piety to elders, the right family, whether the two families agree, are the key, all have to be thoughtful, so, first of all, it is very important to be yourself, as for whether you can find a boyfriend and girlfriend, everything is providential, after all, marriage is not child's play, you must think twice.

Now that you know that there is no result, don't think about it anymore, look ahead, there will be better waiting for you.

It's been almost a month since we broke up, and he asked me not to contact him again recently, and ** said coldly that he didn't love me anymore. But his shadow still fills every corner of my world, especially when I wake up, my pillow is wet. I miss him so much, but I can't call him, and I can't watch his circle of friends, what should I do?

If he doesn't want you, he doesn't want to see you.

If you try to meet him, he is not in the mood, and the experience of getting along with him is boring.

You want to see Him because you have a false assumption: you think He will bring you happiness.

But one day, you will find that your happiness has nothing to do with him.

That day is the beginning of your enlightenment and the feeling of freedom.

He is teaching you with his life and deeds: you yourself have the ability to be happy, and you can be happy without him.

In fact, whether you meet or not, it is just an action, and it does not determine your vibration frequency or mood.

When you are not attached to action but focus on the connection with your inner being, you are on the right path, your feelings will change for the better, and you will find that everything you do is smooth.

You can sit quietly and do nothing, and you still feel comfortable and happy.

Because how you feel has nothing to do with everything on the outside.

Moving from external seeking to internal viewing is an important turning point in the awakening of your consciousness.

Sometimes, you really can't hold it back, the fire burns, jumps up and down, you can't see him, and there is a kind of formation that you can't live or die.

Instead of suffocating to death, it's better to simply go and see it.

He can not see you, ignore you, but you decide to go, you can't care so much, you just want to release your energy, otherwise you will go crazy.

In the end, you find that you are not dead, the earth is still spinning, and you are still alive.

Life experiences will teach you a lot, and you will understand one day that there are some things that you have to let go.

Sometimes you can think of several options, and it may not feel the best, you don't know how to start, you can't do it, you can't do it, you can't do it, it's very embarrassing and uncomfortable.

Even making a decision that isn't the best is better than being in a dilemma and hesitating.

At this time, if there is no positive way all at once, then choose the one with less resistance among the two thoughts that are a little resistant, which is also downstream.

When you consciously go down the stream, your frequency will get higher and higher, and you will feel better and better.

Isn't that great, too?

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I want to see him, but he won't see me, what should I do?

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Why do you want to meet him? Is it thinking of him more than all thoughts? Friends, feelings are not one-sided.

What does such endless effort get in return? Have you ever thought that if he doesn't want to see you, he misses you? Does he love you?

Did you ask him? Don't do that, it will be tiring. Isn't it?

Why bother... Either way, do what you don't regret and wish you happiness! Friend.

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Here are some suggestions:1. Establish contact: Establish contact with him through **, text messages or social **.

Express your thoughts and wishes to meet him. Try to be natural and sincere and avoid putting pressure on the other person.

2. Respect the other party's decision: If he is unwilling to meet, respect his decision. Everyone has their own time and space needs, and there may be various reasons why he does not want to meet at this time.

Respecting the will of the other party preserves the relationship between the two parties and gives the other party the necessary respect and freedom.

3. Open communication: If the other party refuses to meet, try to seek further communication to understand his concerns or reasons. This allows for a better understanding of the other person's position and leaves room for improved communication and mutual understanding later.