How to learn to deal with those worldly and tactful, very irritable.

You can't see the rainbow until after the storm! It is recommended to read more books on interpersonal communication, such as "The Weakness of Human Nature", etc., to maintain a happy mood, face life and work again, exercise more, learn from others' strengths, make up for your own shortcomings, your enthusiasm and sincerity may impress everyone, get the appreciation of your boss, and then have the opportunity to get a salary increase and promotion! Come on!

You may have some autism symptoms, I have had such a time before, often alone, looking at everything very lightly, listless all day long, and very lazy, I don't want to do anything, even if I am at work, I don't want to do more, I always feel that I am very good, I don't pay too much attention to what others do, I think it's nothing. Slowly, I became very withdrawn and unsociable.

It is recommended that you make more friends and communicate with friends more, so that you will learn a lot and understand a lot! Start from practice, don't be lazy, go to work to tidy up your mood, practice smiling when you get up and look in the mirror every day, and think: today is another good day, come on!

Every time you give yourself a good mood, self-encouragement, and a positive face of life, there will be good results, you can try.

I wish you better and better!

First of all, it's certain that if you don't want to live in seclusion, this society is the same everywhere.

If we want to live better, we can only follow the trend and adapt to the rules of the game in this society.

Your condition reminds me of the righteous men of ancient times, some of whom did not want to be complicit, so they committed suicide to preserve their innocence. Some people endure for the sake of their goals, secretly adhere to their principles and wait for the opportunity in a turbid environment.

In fact, the second type of people need courage and perseverance more.

In fact, every kind person doesn't like a dirty life, but have you ever thought about it, there are many relatives in our lives who need us to be responsible, we have to do filial piety, take care of our wives and children, and the love for our relatives is the driving force for us to endure and struggle.

If you want your loved ones to live better and want your parents to see a happy you, then please persevere.

There is a saying that to be a man is like an ancient round square hole copper coin"The outer circle is square and the inner square is to overcome rigidity with softness"

I hope you can integrate into society like a round copper coin, but in your heart, always square and have your own principles. I think I can live a good life and be worthy of my heart.

The above are some of my observations, I hope it will be helpful to you.

I also hate hypocrisy, if I don't like it, I don't like it, why do I have to say that I like to please others?!

You don't need to learn to be tactful, you just need to learn to avoid confrontations.

For example, the leader's child is very ugly, you don't need to praise him for being good-looking, try to pay attention to what advantages he has, you can praise him for being smart or like his father (mother). If the leader asks you if you think he looks good, you can "It's okay, or it's very blessed, or it's really good...

It's most comfortable to be yourself, but sometimes you have to put yourself in your shoes, if others always say negative things about you, will you also be uncomfortable? As long as it's not straightforward, at least everyone won't be embarrassed, what do you say?

To people like you, there's a resounding name, and it's called Angry Youth.

I used to be an angry young man, but now I look back and think that if I had met me five years ago, I would have been despised by myself.

Everybody wants to keep their heart, but in order to live, they have to wear it out again and again.

You're right, it's really hard to be a human being, it's hard, it's hard, it's hard.

There's nothing more difficult in the world than dealing with people.

You can hate everybody around you because they're so worldly, so tactful, even so disgusting that they make you sick, but often these are the people you have to reach out to, or even the ones you have to talk to.

I understand it so well, and I'm sure a lot of people can understand you as much as I do, because that's how everybody comes along.

You say you want to go home and farm, don't you have to touch other people when you go home and farm?

You just want to be yourself, you don't care about others, but you haven't got that right, you haven't fought for it, you haven't worked hard for it, why can you live carefree ?

If you want to change all that, be a man who has the power to change all that.

Throw yourself into this filthy world and climb all the way up to get to the life you want.

It's just that in the process, don't throw away your original intention, don't lose your heart.

In fact, many people are like you, but society is like this, escaping can't solve the problem, because you can't do without society, all you can do is to try your best to adapt to this society, try to make your life more fulfilling, see the beauty of life, and realize your own value. Don't doubt yourself, pluck up your confidence, and open up your own world.

You need the power of love, find a girlfriend if you don't have a wife, and if you do, you don't have to look for it -- she'll encourage you spiritually, because behind every successful man there is a capable woman.

Present yourself in front of them like someone who needs to be taken care of.

Not every aspect.

You can save yourself some trouble.

Don't have a deep friendship with them.

It's also best not to discuss any nonsense with them.

Make yourself angry.

Don't do stupid things to show your attitude.

It's tiring.

What they say is enough to cater to a few words.

If you feel uncomfortable, quickly hide.

Don't make yourself uncomfortable.

It takes a process, and you need to practice. Experience is experience.

Ever wondered why these thoughts exist.

I don't know if you're a man or a woman, I don't know your age, but I'm going to tell you: I've been through everything I've been through, really.

If a person loses the goal of struggle, it is a terrible thing, no matter what you do, you will have a general goal of your own, for example: the premise of struggle is to find a lifelong home; When you get married, you have the burden of a family, and you have to work harder to make the family more harmonious and happy, and so on.

It seems that you are still very young, everything needs to be tried little by little, youth is capital, from the **stumbling and then standing up from**, there will be gains and losses, only if you lose do you know to cherish. Young people, believe that all this is just a small process of life, there are still many setbacks waiting for you, relax, face all this, firmly believe that all this will pass, and a better future is just like you beckoning!

Bless you

2.Listen & Communicate: Learn to listen to others, pay attention to their emotions and needs, and build a good interpersonal relationship through positive communication. Avoid being overly aggressive or aloof, and instead adopt a balanced approach to communication.

3.Adaptive: Adapt your behavior flexibly in different situations to suit different interpersonal needs, but also maintain authenticity and principles.

4.Control emotions: Learn to control emotions, not easily show too many emotions, and avoid emotional impulsiveness affecting judgment and decision-making. Pickpockets such as.

5.Compromise & Conflict Resolution: Learn to compromise at the right time, as well as deal with interpersonal conflicts, and take a mature approach to resolving differences.

7.Learn situational awareness: Train yourself to be sensitive to social situations and know when it's appropriate to express a point, when you need to take a step back, and when you should take the initiative to participate.

8.Self-confidence and self-esteem: Develop self-confidence and self-esteem, which will make you more comfortable with others and not be swayed by negative influences from the outside world.

9.Continuous learning: Learn to learn from every social interaction and constantly reflect and improve your own way of life.

Remember, it takes time and experience to become sleek and sophisticated, so don't rush it. Through continuous learning and practice, they will gradually improve their social skills and interpersonal relationships, so that they can be more comfortable in the world.

It takes time, experience, and effort to learn how to behave and become sleek and sophisticated. This requires developing social skills, emotional intelligence, communication skills, and an understanding of interpersonal relationships. Here are some ways to help you learn how to behave in the world:

Observe and learn:Observe the people around you, especially those who behave well in social situations. Learn from their mannerisms, mannerisms, and mannerisms to see how they handle relationships.

Develop emotional intelligence:Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand and manage emotions and is essential for performance in relationships. Learn self-awareness, emotion management, social awareness, and relationship management.

Proactive Communication:When interacting with others, take the initiative to have a dialogue, express Nada's own opinions, and listen to the opinions of the other person. Good communication is the foundation of good interpersonal relationships.

Respect for others:Respect the views, feelings, and rights of others. Showing care and respect for others can earn them favor.

In my private opinion, your psychological age is relatively young, your life is good, your basic life is still stable, and you are a person who has no bad intentions, and you belong to a person who is straightforward and honest. You should have a bachelor's degree or above.

Because you say that you can't be a person when you learn, I guess you haven't been beaten by society for a long time, and your environment is relatively simple.

Thinking that you are stupid and can't learn how to behave in the world, it is nothing more than getting along with others, seeing that others are very tactful, and you are not tactful enough, you will be misunderstood by others unintentionally, or become a backstabber.

There is a saying that it is shameful to be old and pure, that is to say, it is stupid to be old and have always been very simple to see the world.

Your personality is there, it is impossible for Han's hands to become black-bellied, just like me, I know the importance of going to the beard and slapping horses, I know the necessity of socializing, and I know the importance of struggle, but lazy, then I will be relieved, and I can look down on fame and fortune, if you must feel that this kind of social interaction is very important, then you slowly adapt to this environment.

I personally give you a piece of advice, say less, do more, see more, learn more, come out of the mouth, think twice, see the virtuous, see the virtuous and introspect.

1. Reservations: Excessive disputes are not beneficial to oneself and are unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

2. Know yourself: Promote your most outstanding talents and cultivate other aspects. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

3. Never exaggerate: Exaggeration is detrimental to the truth and can easily make people doubt your opinion. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself.

Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying. It can damage your reputation and have a very negative impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

4. Adapt to the environment: survive the fittest, don't spend too much energy on chores, and maintain a good relationship between colleagues. Don't show off yourself every day, or others will get bored with you.

There must always be something new to the people. People who show a little bit every day will keep expectations alive and won't bury your talents.

5. Learn from each other's strengths: learn from others' strengths and make up for your own shortcomings. When communicating with friends, treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Treat your friends as teachers, blend useful knowledge with humorous words, and what you say will be praised, and what you hear will be learned.

6. Be concise and concise: conciseness can make people happy, make people like, and make people easy to accept. Verbosity and cumbersomeness will confuse and annoy you, and you will miss your goal. A concise and clear tone will definitely make you do more with less.

7. Never be arrogant: often talk about your strengths and show off your advantages in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

8. Never complain: Complaining will make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things work out.

Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasize objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

9. Don't lie and lose trust: Lying to friends and colleagues will lose the trust of friends and colleagues, so that friends and colleagues will never believe in you again, which is your biggest loss. We must avoid big words, we must do what we say, and we would rather not say what we can't do.

10. Be far-sighted: When wealth is prosperous, you should think of poverty, which is easy to do. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.