Why is there so much helplessness in education with us!

Because we are taking a road of socialist modernization with Chinese characteristics! oh~~~

It's like this all over China, it's not something you can change, you can only accept it.

Hehe, we are even more impatient here, Shandong is basically the best place in the province with the best college entrance examination scores, the most competitive place, when we are powerless to change him, we have to accept him.

Learn to adapt, survival of the fittest, if you always think about what, there is no hope, what do you say?

Because we are in the initial stage of socialism, it will be better slowly, and there will be milk and bread.

In the area of education, there are problems everywhere, and it is impossible to be 100% perfect

Don't complain about society, use your own subjective initiative to adapt and transform.

You're much happier than if you can't go to school in the mountains.

This has been a problem for 100 years, and the state is such a policy, and I believe that it will get better slowly.

It is a problem of the national education system, and the teachers and schools are helpless, because there are requirements from above.

Being able to feel helpless means that you still keep a clear head. However, since we are sober-minded, we must realize that education is not something you and I can change, and in this context, we still have to follow others to continue to walk, after all, there are too few Han Han, Guo Jingming and the like.

The problem of the system, in the final analysis, is the large number of people. There is no other way to solve the social problems of China's current large population base, including education.

The truth of socialist characteristics will guide us to the light, children, when you become a leader, your children can be reformed and liberated, and now you still try to adapt, and then the chairman will talk about it.

This is greatly influenced by the environment.

Each person has its own cause, and the most important thing is assimilation.

** is an important part of it!

Therefore, we must be brave to face growth, so the ultimate goal of education is lifelong learning, which is self-learning skills!

I think it's because our ideology hasn't changed completely, and of course it's related to the limitations of the education system.

The vitality of the system lies in its imperfection, and when it is perfected, she will not exist, do you say it is possible?

There is competition everywhere, since we were born here, we can't change the environment, let's change ourselves

The general environment is like this, educational resources are scarce, and there are many people.

It's gold, and it shines wherever it goes, which one of my teachers said, and it's still used today.

Every system has flaws and deficiencies, but we have to admit that in this situation, this system is indeed the fairest, since the power of one person is too small to change, then try to adapt, observe more in ordinary life, and see what you should do as a person to make you happier. In the system, you can't change it, but your mood will definitely affect the recipients in education to a greater or lesser extent, come on!

There are many people, mixed thoughts, our education management system is still in the exploration stage, this can not be the reason for us to complain, what we can do is to find out our own bright spots, to give ourselves an accurate positioning. Or if it lets the system adapt to me, it's better for me to defeat the system, 360 lines of line out of champions, isn't it!

It can't be helped, reality is always cruel. Even if you can't stand it, you have to endure it.

It's not just you, it's all the same.

In fact, foreign countries also have their own helplessness, our initiative and initiative and creativity have been bound by rules when we were young, all we can do is not to talk about this kind of restraint on others.

In our case, not only in education, but also in all aspects.

There is an imbalance in the development of education in China.

The main suffocating operations in our school are as follows:

1.Excessive exam pressure: The school arranges multiple exams every semester, and the exam content covers a large number of knowledge points, which brings great exam pressure to students.

Some teachers will also use the method of "focus assault" to allow students to master a large number of knowledge points in a short period of time, which is very difficult for students.

2.Excessive schoolwork: The school arranges a lot of homework and extracurricular reading every auspicious day, leaving students with little time for other activities. Some teachers also assign a lot of homework on weekends and holidays, so that students have no time to rest and have fun.

3.Excessive management: The school is very strict in the management of students, and almost every action is supervised.

For example, students must arrive at school on time, attend classes on time, and turn in homework on time or face penalties. This style of management makes students feel very depressed and lack freedom and creativity.

4.Lack of care and support: The care and support provided by the school to students is very limited, and it is difficult for students to get timely help and support when they encounter difficulties and problems. Some teachers even ignore students' questions, leaving students feeling very disappointed and helpless.

In addition, I believe that schools should also strengthen mental health education for students to help them better cope with stress and difficulties and improve their self-regulation skills. At the same time, schools should also encourage students to participate in social practice and cultural and sports activities to enrich students' life experience and cultivate students' comprehensive quality.

How parents cultivate and educate their children is really a homework, you need to keep learning, every child is different, 10,000 families, there are 10,000 ways to cultivate and educate children, and 10,000 kinds of children will be cultivated.

The words and deeds of parents are silent teachers, conscious or unconscious role models, which play a powerful and subtle role. Therefore, in order to achieve the ideal educational effect, parents must set an example and be strict with themselves at all times, everywhere and in everything, so as to become a good example for their children's life.

The British educator Locke also advocated that when educating children, it is better to set an example for them than to memorize the rules. He emphasized the educational role of demonstration and the environment, and opposed mere preaching. He said:

No matter what lesson is taught to the child, no matter what kind of intelligent and elegant training is given to him every day, it is still the peers around him who have the greatest influence on his behavior, and it is the example of his guardian who can have the greatest influence on his behavior. ”

Japanese educator Ifukadai believes that parents' words and deeds are the best teaching materials for their children, and first-class parents create first-class children; It is necessary to let the child go to a first-class kindergarten and a first-class school, but more importantly, it is necessary to let the child receive education in a first-class family. The family is the child's first classroom, and the parents are the child's first teacher. Parents are the first objects of imitation for children, and the qualities, personalities, habits and attitudes that children learn from their parents will have a great impact on their development throughout their lives.

In addition, it is not only necessary to lead by example, become a role model, and become good friends with children is also a good way, such as playing games with children, literacy games, storytelling, here I recommend [cat, small, handsome Chinese characters] The above is more comprehensive, often accompany children to learn together, people's memory of the picture is very profound, compared to boring words, you need to practice line by line, ** memory method will make children interested a lot.

This is just one way, and there are many ways to communicate with children about education, if these two points can be done, will it be far from the success of children?

The subway slowly arrived, the doors opened, and the sound of children crying entered the carriage. I saw a mother pulling a little girl about four years old, standing for a moment, crying non-stop, and immediately a man got up and gave up his seat. After the girl sat down, she looked up at the screen opposite and watched quietly and seriously.

The girl's mother immediately scolded: "Don't look at it, don't sit if you look at it again" The girl was about to cry again, and her mother pulled her up and stood next to the car door, "Don't look at it, I know you want to cry again, is crying useful?" ......Mom didn't seem to know that there were other people in the carriage and reprimanded loudly.

A few people next to him looked over, then turned around and continued to work on their phones.

When the bus arrived, I got off, not knowing if the mother was still talking about her child.

I feel sorry for that little girl. What is wrong with our education? Children are still young and have no ability to protect themselves, and whether they are doing well or not can only be decided by their parents.

Maybe the mom was too stressed, maybe she was in a bad mood that day, or maybe she ran out of patience. There is a better way to deal with it, so why do you have to teach your child a lesson? For example, in that scene, if she doesn't want the child to look at the screen, she can gently remind the child, or play with her to divert attention.

There are too many better ways to communicate, but too many people unconsciously use the simplest and rude way of beating and scolding.

I have just been promoted to a mother, and I hope that I will take this as a warning and be patient and loving to my children. And not only treat children like this, but also have enough patience with their other half, as well as their family members and people around them.