What if you don t want to be separated from someone, but you can t be together all the time?

Now that you've made it clear that you can't be together, then worrying is certainly not the solution, it can only interfere with your normal life, and what you can do about things that can't be transferred by your own will is to cherish the time you have and enjoy the happiness that you can still be together, which means not spending too much time thinking about unanswered questions, and just go about each day until one day you realize that today's worries are superfluous, because now you are just speculating on an unacceptable outcome, but you can't imagine the exact development process Subjectively, the outcome is always diluted by the process, and then you will be able to accept it, and there is no question of whether to accept it or not, because it is natural

1. Think calmly.

In the process of falling in love, it is inevitable that there will be some contradictions, don't choose to break up as soon as you encounter these problems, this will not solve the problem. Since it has been decided that two people are together, they must calmly think about what went wrong, and then find a solution, which is the attitude that should be taken towards love.

2. Imagine the ending.

Before parting, you can imagine if two people break up, can you face yourself and be able to face your future life. If you feel that you can't separate from each other, then don't decide to break up too soon, and you must find a way to try again before you can reconcile.

3. Explore your own heart and communicate well.

When you have emotional problems, you need to think calmly about yourself and understand what you want and what type of partner is right for you. If you persevere, then don't give up when you encounter difficulties, communicate well with each other, and the relationship between the two will get better and better in the continuous running-in. For those who are tired of falling in love but are reluctant to break up, if you listen to your inner voice and feel a little tired of this feeling, you can choose to leave temporarily.

When the idea of breaking up comes up, you must think clearly, is the breakup the solution to the problem? If you haven't reached the point where you have to break up, you have to think calmly. Also, because you love each other, you have to make some sacrifices for each other, so you can try to work hard and take another step forward.

Change other people's understanding, and when you put your heart into it, there may be different results.

In this process, if you encounter feelings that are not firm, you must figure out your inner thoughts at this time. Couples who are most likely to change in love, but who are very tacit, sometimes separate due to some small conflicts. But what to do if you are tired of falling in love but are reluctant to break up, this is a very contradictory psychology, and it is relatively normal.

When encountering a relationship that has been loved with heart, no one is willing to throw it away, but in the face of each other's contradictions, they feel powerless and tired. Since what is needed at this time is to calm down and let your heart really think, you can not pursue any result first, two people go to explore their own hearts, and then communicate well, if everything can come.

You need to analyze the problem of two people, and find out what the problem is, and see if you can go on well depends on how you do it.

Summary. I don't want to be together, but when I'm separated, I think, why is this?

It's human nature, it's a little annoying when we're together, and I miss it when I'm separated. Whether it is relatives or siblings or couples in love, it is very annoying when they are together, because there are many conflicts when two people stay for a long time, such as a piece of clothing, a biscuit, who did not wash the dishes today, who did not do housework is the beginning of the conflict, so if you stay for a long time, such a problem will occur, and you will naturally feel tired of staying together, so annoying. But you have been separated for a long time and you have not seen this person, you will miss him very much, because you are used to the other person chattering around you, and you are naturally not used to leaving.

I don't want to be together, but when I'm separated, I think, why is this?

I don't want to be together, but when I'm separated, I think, why is this human nature, it's a little annoying when I'm together, and I miss it when I'm separated. Whether it is relatives or siblings or couples in love, it is very annoying when they are together, because there are many conflicts when two people stay for a long time, such as a piece of clothing, a biscuit, who did not wash the dishes today, who did not do housework is the beginning of the conflict, so if you stay for a long time, such a problem will occur, and you will naturally feel tired of staying together, so annoying. But you have been separated for a long time and you have not seen this person, you will miss him very much, because you are used to the other person chattering around you, and you are naturally not used to leaving.

Keep parting, keep meeting.

On the road of true love, in the ocean of true love, it is normal to love someone to the point of losing direction; So when you can't have each other, and you can't stay with each other; The best way is to stay away from each other, so that you can feel out of sight and out of mind; If you don't leave each other, don't move away, then you can't start over; Only when you are far away, can you experience the happiness of life and the perfection of youth in your heart; Change your environment and state of mind, and you will naturally be happier.

Ask if it's really that hard to love someone.

The main reason for the question is that I am too dominant and sensitive, and sometimes I threaten him, I am afraid of losing him, so I did this, but I didn't expect to come or lose, I thought I loved him too much, so how do I do it now.

Ask if you read books about love.

High numbers are also OK.

Okay, the main reason is that I pay too much attention to my feelings, I'm afraid I won't forget it for a while, it's so difficult to live, do you want to hurt yourself, and end yourself, live to admit guilt.

There are still a lot of people who care about you.

You're still young, you're afraid of something, you've never experienced anything.

Question teacher I'm really difficult, the two of us have talked, there have been two years, he also has a depressed brother at home, every year is taking medicine to maintain the condition, at that time his father was afraid that I can't bear the burden, I promised him in person, I said yes, in I have been trying to persuade his father to finally promise me two engagement, in the engagement he let me come to the door, I also promised him, the key to the door to the door to 200,000 dowry, not ordered, not said, I am still together, but his father does not agree with me two, But I also tried to convince his father that this girlfriend is currently suffering from tuberculosis, so he is afraid that I will not be able to bear the burden, and my girlfriend is also bad, the headquarters gave me face to talk about me in front of others, I told him that he didn't listen, and there was a quarrel when he was talking, then I was too domineering and sensitive, and threatened him, I could bear his bad problems, why can't he bear it, teacher, then you said that it is necessary to retain, if it is necessary to retain, then how can I do it.

Okay, then I'll put it down slowly, thank you, teacher.

I've tried, at least I won't regret it.

If you are sure that you can't be together, then you must let go! If you can't let it go, you have to let it go, otherwise you must be the one who gets hurt in the end.

At this time, you have to be ruthless and tell yourself that you have to let go, although it may not be so easy at the time, because of inertia you will always think of your happy times together from time to time, and you are always reluctant to give up, and giving up is pain. But long pain is better than short pain, and if you don't give up, you won't get it in the end, so you will always live in pain.

Time is the best medicine, time can dilute everything, as long as you psychologically decide to give up, after a long time, you will not cling to this relationship, and you will really come out.